Gay Escorts make having great gay sex easy and booking them is also a really easy process. If you have never had a date with a gay escort it can be a little intimidating to get started, by be reassured these hot guys are professionals and they love to please, so follow our tips below and get ready for the best gay sex of your life.

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Spending time with a Gay Escort

There is nothing to feel intimidated about, the first thing to remember is that these sexy men, no matter how hot they are, want to make you happy. The gay escorts listed on sleepyboy.com are relaxed, friendly, and professional. Booking time with a gay escort is a fast, fun, and simple way to get your sexual kicks. But how do you go about selecting the right person for you? It’s easy! Just follow this step-by-step guide.

Step One - Decide exactly what it is that you’re after. Gay Sex is a huge sphere, and you need to be upfront and open with what you want to ensure that you get the satisfaction that you’re after. So, whether it’s a one-night fling with a twink that you fancy, or an evening of BDSM with a Bear, make sure you decide on all elements of your sex play so you can choose a gay escort who is the best fit for you.

Step Two - Once you know what you’re after, it’s time to identify the location you want, and how many miles radius around this that you’re prepared to consider. This is less of a problem if you’re travelling to them, but if they’re coming to you then you don’t want to waste a chunk of your valuable evening waiting for them to drive 50 miles – no matter how perfect they are! Remember that the sleepyboy.com website offers you many ways to slim down the search for your perfect gay escort using their advanced search filters.

Step Three - Now for the fun part! It’s time to browse the profiles that appeal to you. You’re paying for time with a gay escort so make sure you choose your guy carefully. A good profile will have some stats info and a range of recent photos. Some may have a list of sexual behaviours that they do and don’t do so that you don’t waste your time with someone who’s not on your wavelength.

Step Four - Deep breath – it’s time to make the first contact. Send a message to your favourite escort with your location and requirements and a time and date you want to meet to see if they can accommodate you. Set out exactly what you want and where and wait for them to confirm and explain their rates.

Step Five - Once it all looks good, you can go ahead and ask that favourite gay escort to meet you. Arrange the finer details of your liaison, like when and where. Ask for exactly what you want – if you want him to come dressed as a soldier, or strip to reveal ladies’ underwear, then you need to say so. Ultimately, this is a business transaction and you’re there to have your needs met, so make sure that he can satisfy you.

Shibari is a technical style of ancient bondage, beloved by many men and when it is delivered by a beautiful Gay Escort it is better than ever. Also known as Kinbaku or Japanese bondage it is beautifully sensual experience that takes the sensual side of bondage to the next level with interestingly and intricately tied artistic knots. As bondage is increasing in popularity those who love bondage but want it to be more sensual are finding Shibari and loving it.

Gay Escorts Love Shibari Bondage

Shibari differs from other types of bondage in that the focus is on the sensations given by the ties themselves. The dominant person ties the bonds in a way that heightens the arousal of the submissive. This doesn’t just mean on erogenous zones, but all over the body. The lack of control heightens the experience as they are completely vulnerable to the other person. This results in them being immersed in the experience and forced to focus on the physical sensations and trust the dominant partner. It is overwhelming and intense and guaranteed to deliver an unforgettable experience and test your sense of control and vulnerability especially when delivered by a Gay Escort.

Bondage Sexual Fantasies

When it comes to indulging in your secret fantasies, a Gay Escort is often the perfect choice. They can ensure you get the best experience possible, in a safe and comfortable environment. If you have always wanted to try it, but don’t know where to start, you have the choice of finding a Gay Escort who is experienced in the art of Shibari so that they can guide you. If you already have a favourite Gay Escort, you can embark on this special adventure together, which will only enhance the experience and bring you even closer.

Gay Escort Fantasy

It is important to discuss your expectations and limits before you get started. Shibari will push you to your limits and you need to be open and honest with yourself and each other to get the most out it. If there is anything you are worried about or you know you do not enjoy, tell your Gay Escort so that you don’t need to worry about the experience going in that direction. If there is anything you are intrigued by and think you want to try, but aren’t 100% sure about, don’t be shy and be honest about it so they know to approach it in a delicate way.

Gay Escorts and Bondage

Shibari may take you out of your comfort zone, but it could well be one of the most eye-opening sexual experiences you ever have. The best advice for experiencing Shibari for the first time is to go in with your mind open and a willingness to experience the unusual. Find a sexy Gay Escort to explore this with and be open and honest about what you want and what you are worried about. The art of shibari is to be in the moment and fully involved in all the sensations.

Do you love gay sex, but don’t want everyone knowing what you are doing, who you are doing and where you are doing it? We agree totally and completely understand. Gay Sex is personal and sharing it with the world is not what anyone wants to do (unless you are into that sort of thing of course!). But overall keeping your sexual encounters private is everyone’s default position.

So, how do you match that need to be discrete with your love of having great gay sex with a range of partners and escorts? Here are some basic and easy to follow tips:

Variation is Key

If you like gay escorts to come and visit you in your home but don’t want anyone to notice then changing the day, time and person who comes is the best way of keeping discretion and you reduce the amount of people who will notice comings and goings. If you live in a bust apartment block this will be less noticeable than if you live on a quiet suburban street so, make your own judgement on that. Perhaps take an afternoon off work one day so you can have some great gay sex when everyone else is at work, or if a weekday is no good try a Sunday afternoon. If you have the same gay escort, come at the same time, on the same day every week it is more likely to be remarked upon that if it is different men at different times on different days, this can make it exciting for you too.

Meet in a Neutral Location

If you think having a gay escort meet you at your home is simply too indiscrete, or it is just not possible then making other arrangements is the answer, perhaps book an escort who is able to accommodate or pick a hotel room instead. If you are meeting in a hotel, then perhaps think of booking one in the next town or city to limit the possibility of you being seen if this would cause problems in explaining why and where you were.

Use a Fantasy

Perhaps you want to use gay escorts to escape from your normal routine while having amazing gay sex, many men do, so if you want to protect your privacy even further have an alternative fantasy name that you use when you are meeting escorts. This means the escort will not know your real name, you could even go a step further and create a whole new persona, this has the added benefit of letting you be discrete while also acting out some of your best gay sex fantasies.

Gay Escorts are Discrete

Gay Escorts will completely respect your privacy and your need for discretion, they also need discretion as they may not want to tell everyone in their lives that they are an escort either. If you want to be extremely discrete then remember to tell your gay escort this so they can act accordingly and also put you at your ease about it so you can enjoy your time together.

Trans Escorts are not as unusual or hard to find as they once were, great Trans escort Directories like www.sleepygirl.co.uk make it easy to find a trans escort near you. As they are more accessible, more and more men (and women) like to spend time with trans escorts as they are the most exciting sexual partners you will ever be with.

But, if you have never been with a trans escort before, or perhaps you have and you are understandably wanting more, you may have some questions that you want to ask or are curious about so here are the 10 things you have always wanted to ask a Trans Escort and their answers:

1. Do you have real breasts?

Yes, many Trans Escorts have real breasts, they are large round and soft and feel just like natural large breasts. Some trans women are still all male (without any surgery) underneath so it depends on what you are looking for, you can always ask if you are not sure, but you can normally tell from the pictures of the trans escorts in their profile.

2. Are you a top or a bottom?

Good question, this is (just like everyone else) personal preference. Some Trans Escorts will prefer being a top (doing the penetrating) and some will prefer to be a bottom (being penetrated) many will offer both, you can check in their profiles what they say about themselves and if they offer both or just one or the other.

3. I’m straight is that OK?

Yes definitely, many, many, many men who use the services of Trans Escorts are straight. It is a wonderful sensual, sexual adventure to have sex with a Trans escort, just let them know what you are looking for, or even better let them show you how unbelievable they are! An exciting night (or 2, or 8!!) doesn’t make you any less straight!

4. Can I meet you at your place?

If you can’t or don’t want to meet your sexy Trans escort at your place, that is fine you can either choose to meet your trans escort at their place (if they can accommodate you) or you can choose a hotel to meet up in.

5. Can we keep it between us?

Trans Escorts know how important privacy and confidentiality is, you can tell them as much or as little about yourself as you like. Trans Escorts are there to fulfil your desires and fantasies not to pry into anything else.

6. How Much do Trans Escorts Cost?

Each Escort charges for their time individually and it is a private arrangement between you and them so discuss what you are looking for and they will let you know!

7. Can we have kinky sex?

Yes, is the short answer, whatever your kinky fantasy is just let your favourite Trans Escort know and they will do their utmost to accommodate your requests. From BDSM to role play to whatever your imagination can come up with – just ask and see if they are happy to oblige!

There are so many options when it comes to meeting you trans escort. Depending on your situation, whether you are in your hometown, visiting a new place on holiday, working away from home for a while or are just on holiday you and you trans escort can decide where to meet.

Here is a quick look at some great places for you and your Trans Escort to spend time together

The First Meeting

Where you meet your Trans Escort for the first time is completely up to you, but men tend to fall into two categories. 1. The let’s have a drink first guy, and 2. The come right over and get on with it guy. This will probably depend on whether you have seen this or other trans escorts before and just want an hour or two of hot steamy sex. Or whether you have never been with this, or any other Trans Escort before and want to meet them first. Some men like to have the full date experience with a beautiful Trans Escort including dinner, drinks, or a movie before heading for mind blowing orgasmic trans sex. All of these options for your first-time meeting with a new escort are completely fine just let your chosen escort know what you are expecting so they can give you what you are looking for.

In Calls – their place

The phrase ‘In Call’ is used within the Trans Escort world and it means that you can book to arrange to meet them at their place. This is normally their home, this is a great option if you want discretion, or if your home is not appropriate, or if you are looking for something a little more homely than a hotel room. The other benefit of meeting your Trans Escort at their place is that they will be extremely comfortable there and will be happy to accommodate you and show you a great time.

Out Calls – your place

Having your favourite trans escort come to your home makes things very easy and convenient for you as you can just wait for them to arrive. It is also a little more natural, especially if you're after a little more intimacy on an emotional level. You can have any or all of your favourite toys and other fun items at hand ready for your gorgeous trans girl to arrive.

Out Calls – Hotels

If you are working away in an unknown city hiring a Trans Escort for the evening to visit you at your hotel not only gives you a great sexual experience but good company too! Hotels are great places to meet your Trans Escort, as not only does it give you a break from your ‘normal day to day’ you can also treat the night as something special, really go town and enjoy the downtime that you'll experience from your booking.

Club Night Meetings

If you require an escort who specialises in certain fetishes, it may be worth considering meeting up and heading over to one of the many fetish clubs that are around. The benefits to this are manifold, as you can gain access to fully functioning dungeons, with sex machines and sex furniture, alongside various BDSM activities that both you and your escort can partake in if you so choose. These clubs are an excellent way to meet other like-minded folk, as well as play with others, or alternatively, you may merely wish to sit back and watch, to get you in the mood, for what may unfold a little later in the evening.

Have you ever tried tantric sex and if you have tried it and loved it then you should try it with a Trans Escort as they will blow your mind with how good they are at delivering this sensual, sexual experience.

What is Tantric Sex

Tantric sex is a sensual massage based on an ancient art, which dates back over 5000 years. It is an incredibly sensual act, one which combines the use of touch, and breath, to control the energy within your body and soul to bring you to the point of, but not over, orgasm for an extended period of time.

Tantric Core Principles

1. As an ancient sexual technique here are some core principles:
2. We open the energy channels throughout our bodies
3. These channels are known as the “chakras”
4. Chakras start from the top of your head and finish at the base of the spine.
5. In Eastern culture, it is believed that these energy channels can become blocked, due to both psychological and physiological conditions inherent in modern day life.

Mastering the art known as Tantra is highly rewarding; but this isn't just something to do for quick relief, in the heat of lust - this is something wherein you truly take time, becoming familiar with getting the most amount of pleasure from your body and combining body and mind for an explosion in sexual feelings.

Erotic Tantric Massage

Erotic massage is a huge part of tantric sex and is incredibly erotic when performed correctly by a skilled Tantra Escort and even more so with a Trans Escort. Massaging the entire body including the prostate to climax is sensual and deeply satisfying with often longer more intense orgasms. This type of sexual touch can keep you going for hours - it is intense, and causes a great deal of unity and bonding, sensuality, and intense gratification.

Trans Escorts & Tantric Sex

One of the main reasons Trans Escorts are so good at delivering Tantric Sex is that they know exactly how you are feeling. They have all the parts you have and know how to manipulate them for maximum satisfaction and effect.

In addition to this they also look and feel like women having sex with them, tantric or otherwise, the most exciting sex you will ever have. They have beautiful breasts, long legs, soft skin and often long flowing hair and a nice hard cock that can be used as you wish to bring the ultimate in sexual satisfaction.

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Are you straight? Have you ever fantasised about great sex with a trans escort? You are not alone. One of the most common fantasies for straight guys is having sex with a trans woman, and fortunately the ladies on www.sleepygirl.co.uk are ready to make your fantasy a reality.

Straight Guy and Trans Sex Fantasies

This can be a hidden sexual fantasy, as some straight men worry that finding trans women hot makes them gay (of course it doesn’t), it is however becoming more and more well-known and popular meaning it is now an open and recognised fantasy for straight men.

Here are a few great reasons why so many straight men are discovering how much they love trans women and why they love spending time with trans escorts.

Anal Sex is Amazing

Something that straight men are just coming to terms with, that gay men have known for all eternity – anal sex is amazing. A big part of a straight man’s fantasy when it comes to trans escorts is that they can finally experience anal sex the way it was meant to be enjoyed. There are lots of anal toys out there for gay men, straight men and even women to enjoy including anal beads, but plugs, dildos, fucking machines and strap-ons, but being penetrated by a penis is the best feeling that there is.

Trans Escorts know just how amazing anal sex is so not only do they have the tools to do the job they also know how it feels and so can deliver an amazing anal experience like no toy ever could. Trans Escorts are also experts at ensuring anal virgins have the best introduction and experience so that they will come back for it time and again.

Trans Women are Beautiful

Straight men are by definition attracted to women, and trans women do not disappoint in that department. They are often stunning women spending a lot of time ensuring they look, smell, and feel amazing. In addition, they often have long legs and large breasts, long hair, and soft skin – looking like a model but with that extra special surprise is why straight men are so attracted to trans women and why they love trans escorts.

Trans Escorts are Exotic

Another reason why straight men love trans escorts is that they seem very exotic, very naughty, and very unexpected. The taboo nature of what they can provide gives a great deal of added excitement to the encounter. Doing something that others may think is wrong can add a great element of sexual tension and so the release is so much more than just having sex with a woman.

BDSM & Trans Escorts

Lots of men have a BDSM fetish and it can be so much more exciting when you combine that with a trans escort. Being dominated by a trans escort or you are being the one to dominate adds an extra sense of excitement when you indulge your BDSM fetish with a trans escort.

Have you ever fantasies about having sex with a guy you know is straight? This is a fantasy many gay men have and one you can indulge with a gay escort.

Gay Escort Fantasy Sex

Fantasising that you can turn a hot gay guy to fancy you and give him the best sexual experience of his life is something that many gay men love to fantasise about. Whether you watch this type of porn or simply dream about it, the best way to play this out is with a gay escort who can be whatever type of straight guy you want. Maybe you want a bi curious guy that you want to introduce to the joys of gay sex or simply a straight guy who is sexually curious, or someone you want to fall in love with you even though they are straight, your gay escort can play the part you fantasise about.

Great Gay Sex

Gay-identifying men who fantasise about sex with straight men are actually quite common. It thrusts aside conventional pre-conceptions and challenges homosexual thinking. Nonetheless, gay men do fantasise about sex with straight men often because we are attracted to things that are thought of as taboo, and that is sexy.

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Gay men have constant, easy access to the bodies of other gay men. They can touch, kiss, caress, stroke and feel any area. Nothing is off limits (in a general sense). But with straight men, that access isn’t there and it isn’t too massive a jump to see that straight men represent an unchartered area and therefore they are appealing.

The ‘bi’ thing. Many gay-identifying men actually have some level of bi-curiosity fizzing around in their brain. They probably don’t mention it, for fear of shattering their identity, but sex with a straight man is a way to explore those feelings with compromising on their normal sex life and without admitting their inner feelings to the wider world.

And then there’s relinquishing responsibility. Lots of gay men find themselves in charge of running a business, managing large numbers of staff, committed to getting that brief ready for court in the morning. Stressful stuff. Then move onto the home area, there are usually responsibilities there too. Perhaps they’re the main wage earner, or there are kids to feed, bath and put to bed. And on top of this, there’s a partner to take care of emotionally as well. You can see why these guys sometimes feel they’re on the slippery slope to burnout. Sex with a straight man can be a way of handing something over to another person. Allowing someone else to be in charge of your pleasure is a very erotic thought.

And finally – fantasies are just that. They’re private, they can be about whatever you want them to be. You don’t have to share them or justify them. You can be free to imagining yourself indulging in all kinds of straight man sex action without threatening your ‘strong gay man’ status.

Ultimately, our erotic fantasies probably form a major part of sexual satisfaction. And if that comes from picturing straight man sex, then as gay guy you really don’t have to tell anyone, or even act it out. But you can know it’s there if you need it.

Now that international travel is back on the menu, you may want to take your favourite gay escort on holiday, and for many men the thought of having great gay sex on a plane is something many men fantasise about.

Weekend Travel with a Gay Escort

One of the best things about this fun fetish is that you can take your gay escort away for a whole weekend, or even longer. The thought of having a gorgeous man sexy man accompanying you on holiday and being able to sexually satisfy you for the whole weekend while being a charming and fun companion is something every man should try.

Flying High Gay Sex Fantasy

There really are no limits to how you fantasise about Gay Sex, each person’s fantasy is unique to them, but you can bet that there is someone else out there with a similar fantasy or fetish. Gay sex is all about having fun, exploring what makes you feel good, what turns you on and discovering your sexual pleasures.

Join the Gay Mile High Club

So, having gay sex on a plane sounds exciting, naughty and a little taboo – do you love having gay sex in weird and wonderful locations and does becoming a member of the gay mile high club excite you? Then yes perhaps you should try it. The best way to have gay sex in the air is of course to do it on a private plane with luxury interiors so you can really enjoy the experience. For the rest of us left with the loos on regular aircraft then perhaps a very discrete quickie is what is required so you can tick that mile high box.

Gorgeous Gay Pilots and Cabin Crew

Perhaps it is not actually gay sex on the plane that does it for you, perhaps it is the cute guys serving you drinks that you fantasise about or the very sexy uniformed pilots that turn you on. This can make way for a whole range of fun role play in the bedroom to fulfil this fantasy, costumes of this nature are easy to come by for a realistic experience. If it with a real pilot or cabin crew then even better, and if then you could get them to have sex on the plane well, that’s even better!

Fly High Bondage

Sky high fantasies can also include the feeling of being weightless, so if this is what you fantasise about then some technical bondage is required to get you off the ground. Once you have been secured (or secure someone else) you can enjoy great gay sex while being in the air with your partner moving you around as they like into any position they choose – sounds like fun!

Whatever your fantasy a Gay Escort will find a way to fulfil them, whether that means a trip away with them, so you get the opportunity on a plane or simply for them to dress up as the captain and order you around – whatever your needs get them fulfilled today.

An orgasm through electricity. Just the concept of this type of bedroom play is enough to have some people saying “Er – I’m not convinced about this!”. But, indulging in this with your gay escort could unexpectedly take your orgasms to a whole new level. Shock play is designed for just this type of fun.

What is E-Stim or Shock Play

There are so many great, safe products on the market now so you can enjoy this fetish with the latest and greatest sex toys. The whole promise of e-stim sex is to cause intense orgasms through an electrical stimulation being applied to your genitals. It may not be for the faint-hearted, but once you give it a go, there will be no turning back. You’ll more than likely going to get hooked instead! You can do this by yourself or with a partner, from a safety and fun point of view it’s better to have someone with you when you are playing with these toys.

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What should you consider when playing in the e-stim fetish? It’s stating the obvious, but it still has to be said – ONLY use equipment designed for e-stim sex. Any kind of DIY kit is extremely dangerous, and not in a fun way. So, play it safe. Along the same lines, use your common sense follow the directions given by e-stim kits.

Why is E-Stim so Amazing

You apply the electrodes to your genitals in specific places, depending on where you want the pleasure to come from. They can be placed on the tip of your penis, on your balls, or even further back if that will float your boat. It’s a moveable feast (within safe limits!). As for the feeling, it’s going to be like when get an electric shock, much the same sensation.

But because it’s being felt through your genitals, it stimulates you to orgasm. The pain/pleasure threshold is breached, in a good way. There’s a reason why people keep coming back for more shock play. E-stim sex causes extremely pleasurable sensations down below, and you are firmly in control of the strength and frequency, so you can go at your own pace. Or your gay escort can go at his pace on you, whatever you want.

There are many different types of electrodes, depending on your electro-sex plan. The simplest of them all (and a good one for beginners) is the sticky, self-adhesive electrode. Boring science: this is a monopole electrode, meaning that you’ll need two of them stuck to your body to complete the electrical circuit and get that pleasure pumping.

Or there are bi-polar electrodes and these are insertable ones if you want to go one step further. The circuit with these ones is completed by the skin when the electrodes have two contact points.

Plus, there are Cock Loops – as they sound, this is another monopole electrode and is designed to be wrapped around your cock or balls.

If you want an electric time with a gay escort, then find your favourite on www.sleepyboy.com and contact them to discuss your needs and then have the most amazing time.