Well, who doesn't? This loveable, friendly rogue has a universal appeal to gay men; even if they don't actually see themselves in a sexual situation with one. Contrary to popular belief, not all gay men fit neatly into one category. There are many different ones - but a Bear usually stands out from the rest.

What exactly is a Gay Bear?

He's a hairier man, who is often larger and gives out an image of rugged masculinity. He is set apart from fellow daintier men, like otters and wolves. Their oh-so-masculine image is really the foundation and underpinning to being a Bear, but they also have some of the softest hearts around. Awwwww....

Why do Gay Bears make good lovers?

There are so many reasons! He is often a more emotionally complicated man who sometimes has a conflict between feelings and appearances. In the bedroom you can find that his softer, more sensitive side comes into play. At odds with how he looks, he can be deeply passionate and gentle.

However. That doesn't mean to say that he can't be deeply passionate and angry, if provoked. After all, he's a Bear, right? And what do Bears do? They ensure that they hover near the top of the food chain and they're very ready to get their predators under control. If you provoke him you might find that you get a bit more of ‘throw-you-on-the-bed-and-fuck-you' type of sex. He'll be aware of your needs as a more slightly built gay man and he'll give you the rough and tumble, sub/dom sex of your dreams.

How else do Bears hold their appeal?

Apart from their warm hearts, they look hot in fetish wear. Just that. Tightly encased in leather or stockings, holding a chain to lead you around with or going a bit more out there with a plushie fantasy, there are no limits to this man's sexual appetite. He'll dress up, immerse himself in role play, be your slave or if you're the sub, he'll restrain you with metal cuffs if that's how he feels, and perhaps a choker for when you go out and about so he knows that he's in control. And for you, this means that you can safely indulge yourself with a fantasy scenario, or two, of your very own.

And another thing to think about along the fetish wear lines, is how erotic it could be to see a Gay Bear wearing a chastity device - if you can persuade him! This large, imposing man could find himself at your very mercy...

Finding your own Gay Bear

If this paints a picture that intrigues, inspires, turns you on and gets your heart racing, then you can hire a gay escort Bear to join you exclusively in the bedroom. So if you've constructed your ideal secret Gay Sex fantasy around being with a large, hairy partner, the you can find your favourite on sleepyboy.com

Dildo play in the bedroom is a must for every gay man, whether with a gay escort or alone and whether it's a strap-on or free use. The unique sensation of being anally penetrated leads to the best orgasms. It also adds spice, enhances pleasure and best of all they're totally versatile so you do whatever you prefer most.

A word to the wise – if you're not terribly experienced with using dildos, then it's better to start small and work your way up. Pleasure isn't necessarily linked directly to length and width so you can take your time. For total anal play beginners, using a butt plug is a good way to get things started!

So what fun things can be done with dildos?

1. If you're alone with your dildo then use it to stimulate yourself in lots of different ways. Even just changing your position can offer different stimulation. Pleasure from doing this is equally available from using it lying flat on your back or crouched over on the floor.
2. Bring a partner into play. Having an extra phallic object between you in the bedroom will give an exciting thrill.
3. Hollow dildos are one of the most popular things on the male sex toy market, especially if you feel a little insecure about your size. Exactly as they sound, these dildos are designed to slip on over your penis to provide a little extra length and width. There are also vibrating options to get the best throbbing sensation as you can. Then lubed up, insert it into your partner to bring him a real thrill as you make him orgasm with your rock hard, pulsating penis.
4. 'Pegging' is using a strap-on dildo with your partner. Experiment with positions and remember that silicone dildos are among the best out there.
5. Penetrate your partner anally with a strap-on dildo while he's on all fours. Then reach around to massage his erect penis – this total stimulation will have him orgasming all over your hand within minutes.
6. Use dildos of discretion. There are strap-ons available which attach to male underwear without the need for the traditional harness. These are perfect for anal play outside of the bedroom.
7. It's an old tip, but one of the best. No matter how experienced you and your partner are with dildos, always take the time to lube up with a good quality brand. The slippery, smooth sensation will always be a winner.
8. Some dildos come with a suction cap base. This can be attached to your bedroom wall, bathroom wall (or any walls really, though you may want to re-think the kitchen and living room!). Using one of these really ups the ante in terms of providing a 'real' sensation.
9. Other niche dildos are those you can get with a special angle-shaped head which is designed to hit your prostate spot on. And there's no extra discussion needed about why prostate orgasms are the best around.
10. If you've started small, then why not move it up a notch with a few extra inches on your dildo or extra width. This is a perfect idea for those who enjoy anal play who are seeking increased pleasure, excitement and maybe a bit of a challenge in the bedroom.

Not only is Bournemouth established as a well-known Gay Hotspot, it's also in a part of the UK which is actually likely to have some sun this summer! Bournemouth has some great hotels, beachside cafes and restaurants, not to mention the sexy range of Gay bars, clubs and pubs.

But how do you know where to go to find some sexy and steamy Gay Fun in Bournemouth this summer. It's easy, you just need a little bit of knowledge and you're ready for a great experience.

Gay Escorts in Bournemouth

The hottest Gay Escorts in Bournemouth are listed on SleepyBoy.Com and they have some great tips on how to spend your time in Bournemouth – top of the list would be to spend time with one (or more) of these sexy Bournemouth Gay Escorts but there are some other things to do too.

There are some very nice beaches in Bournemouth, which are just perfect for spending a chilled-out day on before you go on to party at night at the best gay bars in Bournemouth. You can be as extravagant or as low key as you like; a picnic on the beach with a bottle of bubbly can be just as fun as throwing yourself into the hustle and bustle of the town. Whatever you want to do, and whether you are visiting for one night, a whole weekend or actually live here, the best times are always found in the company of a sexy Bournemouth Gay Escort.

Gay Fun in Bournemouth

For those looking for something a little more structured, there are plenty of gay bars and pubs which cater for all tastes. Here are the top picks for some gay fun in Bournemouth this summer:

1. the spa. This is a place as deluxe as the name suggests. This bar was originally established in 1994, and it has recently undergone a rejuvenating renovation. Facilities include two saunas for relaxing, open showers, rest areas and a steam room. This place has a warm and friendly vibe in a neat, compact venue. Perfect for escapism and enjoying private time. It's actually available for private hire in the evenings if you have a group to get together. the spa is easily accessed in the Westbourne area of Bournemouth and it has parking available. All in all, this is an ideal place for some sophisticated relaxation with like-minded men.

2. If you're new to Bournemouth and you're looking to party the night away, then a visit to the Xchange is an absolute must. It prides itself as being one of the longest running gay clubs/pubs on the whole South Coast. It's been through various alterations over the years but it's now firmly settled as an LGBT venue. If you're up for a bit of dancing then this is the place to go. With it's extended dancefloor and impressive sound system, there's simply no better place to get busting those moves. There are also special events and themed nights held there regularly.

3. If you fancy more of a downtime feel, head to the Triangle to find a little place called Flirt Café. It's totally unique, combining coffee, hot food, DIY salad bar, magazines and newspapers, cakes and milkshakes – to name just a few of its offerings. If that doesn't sound like an ideal place to relax, then I don't know what is!

4. There's also a new kid on the block which is both the newest and largest gay and bisexual sauna bar on the south west coast. There are showers, massages are available, there's a bar and private chill out rooms. Perfect for every mood!

With the advent of apps like Grindr and Tinder, the dating world has imploded in on itself. It's never been so easy to access thousands of like-minded people with just a few simple clicks and the vaguest details about yourself (and this is a good idea because you can't control who sees your ‘This is why you should hook-up with me' profile). This is a bit of a problem if you don't want everyone to know all about your sex life!

Dating Apps don't offer great sex

These apps are designed for convenience and immediacy. There's no painful small talk over a coffee and a couple of dates whilst you suss out what each other wants. Tinder and Grindr profiles will have all that listed already, cutting out the donkey work for you. Plus, they even filter out the people you prefer geographically. Want a date while you're on a business trip in York? Sure! Change your usual profile settings to amended ones and Bob's your uncle. And he's standing right on your doorstep because your settings have filtered out anyone over 20 miles away.

This doesn't mean that dating apps are the best way to revolutionise your sex life. They're fast, free and easy – but this isn't necessarily a good thing. Why not? Basically, because you're taking a massive gamble on people who you don't even know. Just because the dating apps blur the lines between what is safe and normal and what everyone wants, this doesn't mean that you should take risks. When you're using these apps you're essentially putting yourself out there with a load of strangers. You wouldn't give a hundred people in a bar access to your more personal details and preferences, so why do so online? There's no way of getting away from this – dating through an app is uncertain at best and dangerous at worst.

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It may seem a touch old-fashioned with all these new-fangled apps around, but luckily there's another, timeless, way to get your kicks easily and discreetly and that's by hiring a gay escort. Why is this so much better if you're looking to hook-up with a handsome stallion for the night?

• You can browse online first, see their pics and bio's so you can pick out the ideal gay escort for you.
• And once you've done that, you can get in touch and book that very person. There's no mutual appreciation that has to go on.
• You can let your gay escort know exactly what you are looking for so they are prepared, they will come at a time and place to suit you and be completely confidential abut your time together.
• It's going to be far more relaxed. None of the pressure of a first date because there's no dating element. You know what you want, he knows what you want and you both know that he's there to satiate your desires.
• There doesn't have to be any reciprocity. It's. All. For. You. And if that isn't turn-on then what is?

So ,if you're looking for a guaranteed night of fun, then hire a gay escort. Safer, simpler and quicker to make your experience one to remember.

Sex work is the world's oldest profession. Since time immemorial people have wanted – and paid for – gay sex. If you have never spent time with a Gay Escort then finding your first one can be a little daunting but our step by step guide is here to help.

Spending time with a Gay Escort

There is nothing to feel intimidated about, the first thing to remember is that these sexy men, no matter how hot they are, want to make you happy. The gay escorts listed on sleepyboy.com are relaxed, friendly and professional. Booking time with a gay escort is a fast, fun and simple way to get your sexual kicks. But how do you go about selecting the right person for you? It's easy! Just follow this step by step guide.

1.Decide exactly what it is that you're after. Gay Sex is a huge sphere and you need to be upfront and open with what you want to ensure that you get the satisfaction that you're after. So, whether it's a one night fling with a twink that you fancy, or an evening of BDSM with a Bear, make sure you decide on all elements of your sex play so you can choose an gay escort who is the best fit for you.

2. Once you know what you're after, it's time to identify the location you want, and how many miles radius around this that you're prepared to consider. This is less of a problem if you're travelling to them, but if they're coming to you then you don't want to waste a chunk of your valuable evening waiting for them to drive 50 miles – no matter how perfect they are! Remember that the sleepyboy.com website offers you many ways to slim down the search for your perfect gay escort using their advanced search filters.

3. Now for the fun part! It's time to browse the profiles that appeal to you. You're paying for time with a gay escort so make sure you choose your guy carefully. A good profile will have some stats info and a range of recent photos. Some may have a list of sexual behaviours that they do and don't do so that you don't waste your time with someone who's not on your wavelength.

4. Deep breath – it's time to make the first contact. Send a message to your favourtie escort with your location and requirements and a time and date you want to meet to see if they can accommodate you. Set out exactly what you want and where and wait for them to confirm and explain their rates.

5. Once it all looks good, you can go ahead and ask that favourite gay escort to meet you. Arrange the finer details of your liaison, like when and where. Ask for exactly what you want – if you want him to come dressed as a soldier, or strip to reveal ladies underwear, then you need to say so. Ultimately, this is a business transaction and you're there to have your needs met, so make sure that he can satisfy you.

There's just something about them, isn't there? It's no surprise to anyone if walking down the street you find your eyes locked onto a sexy inked man. There are so many different colours and patterns that right away you get an inkling of the sort of personality this tattooed man has.

So, what else stirs that tattoo love inside you?

Sexy Tattooed Gay Men

It's different for everyone. That said, there's a universal appeal for the sexy/edginess look given by tattoos. It can transform an otherwise mediocre look, into something much more attractive. Imagine this – you're on a blind date and you're waiting at the bar. Suddenly, you see your date approach and your heart sinks a little; he's a little on the tall/short side (delete as appropriate) for you. Maybe he's a bit lanky, but then as he gets closer you suddenly spy the body art adorning his arm. There's a colourful swirl of patterns, letters, numbers and symbols. Now this is more like it! With just a view of one arm, you can tell a little more about this person and instantly there's more of a spark.

Tattoos are often deeply personal, too and it's perfectly possible that whatever they have inked on their skin actually means something to them, and they're not afraid to shout it from the rooftops. There's something touching about a gay guy who's prepared to – quite literally – wear his heart on his sleeve. Or his neck. Or his leg – it doesn't matter where. He's got them for life. It represents passion for a certain person/place/thing and if he's got that, then there's a chance that he could feel that same, red hot passion for you.

Rebel Tattoos are Sexy

Rebel, rebel. Even these days, having a tattoo rules you out of certain professions and venues. Genteel country clubs are unlikely to admit you, the corporate world frowns upon them and even these days there are shops and supermarkets which require you to cover up your inking completely. So if you're a sexy gay man has a bold tattoo, this reflects confidence, a devil-may-care attitude, which is very appealing to most people.

And what else attracts your gaze to the tattooed man? It proves commitment. He's taken the time to choose his body art, decide where he wants it and then he's gone through the pain of having it done. Weirdly, this risk-taking can be quite a turn-on, like the kamikaze gladiators of old. He's also given up his time to sit there and go through the process. Lots and lots of tattoos take multiple hours to complete, and some even need to be stretched over multiple days. In addition, he's paid for this! It's not an inconsiderable expense. This is something that really matters to him which immediately shows a depth of personality.

Tattooed Gay Escorts

Many men who love their bodies and work on them to ensure they are perfectly ripped and toned also love to have sexy body art all over it. If you love a tattoo then you definitely have to spend some time with a sexy tattooed gay escort, (find the best on SleepyBoy.com) they can encourage you to really look at their bodies and their tattoos while having as a wild a time as you like

The sexual sub/dom scene is a vast one. Think ropes and ties, handcuffs, blindfolds, whips, chains and paddles. These are the usual accoutrements to a dom/sub game. But what about those who want to take it further? What happens when you want to explore your fetish? You’ve moved on with your games and you want something a little more challenging, where do you go next?

Chastity Cages & other Lockables

First of all, you hire a sexy gay escort, satiating your desires is your aim and how better to ensure this by hiring some one for whom it’s their job to please you? Making your pleasure the responsibility of someone else is not only erotic, but it hits the very kernel of the sub/dom fetish.

Why a chastity cage?

In its very basic form, a chastity cage is worn as a form of orgasm control and/or forced abstinence. Your penis will be locked away, safe from any straying hands, and making you unable to get fully hard, and the cage padlocked so you are truly at the mercy of your key keeper. For example:

• To show your keyholder true commitment
• To bring a hardcore element into your play session
• As part of a dungeon sex game
• Or just to add a little extra frisson of excitement in the bedroom

As you would expect for this level of dedicated fetishism, there are lots of options for chastity cages and other lockable toys that you can use in your sex game. For beginners, you may prefer the slightly less hardcore silicone ones. These come in a range of sizes and colours to suit the taste of any aesthetically motivated chastity cage users. There are plastic ones for daily use and metal lockable toys for the truly committed.

Hardcore Gay Sex Games

If this is your thing, then hang on for the ride – because there are many extreme bedroom accessories, perfect for your pleasure. You may want to train your gay escort to use a cage, if so then you can get silicone devices in different sizes. For the more extreme fetishists, you can get steel cages with a urethral tube attached. Obviously, this adds an extra element to the naughtiness and control.

If you want something a little different, a little more advanced, say, than a chastity cage, then you need a cock cup. This completely encloses your cock and balls, safely locked away from any stimulation whatsoever. In fact, any tiny hint of arousal will leave your penis with a pinch of pain as it struggles against the restraint. The cock cup wearer is totally unable to see anything down there, thus frustrating their most base desires. Lots of these have two padlocks to ensure extra security for their cock play.

If humiliation is your thing, lots of lockable sex toys are designed especially to humiliate the wearer. Imagine being locked up in a device in which you have no option but to pee through a special hole. You are under the total domination of your partner, like it or not.

However you like to play you will have a better time with a sexy Gay Escort, find one that loves your fetish as much as you do at SleepyBoy.com for the ultimate gay sex experience.

Known all over the world as a friendly, welcoming city, it's no surprise that there's a heaving gay scene in Liverpool. In fact, this northern city boasts the only official gay quarter – and it was the first to have one. Now there are gay quarters in all of Britain's major towns and cities, but there's something special about the very first one to have popped up.

Not only that, but Liverpool was known for a long time as the ‘Gay Capital of the North'. It's steeped in progressive LGBT history.

Sexy Liverpool

Liverpool's gay quarter is set up for the best, and most in-depth, gay experiences. To enjoy it properly, go with a friend. There's plenty of entertainment – gay orientated and not – and having a party-mate on hand always enriches the fun! Liverpool is an open, relaxed, place, so if you're a bit nervous, or have only just come out, this is definitely the city for you to go in order to build up self confidence and really get stuck into the friendly gay scene. If by chance you already know someone in Liverpool, then you're quids in because they will know all the in's and out's of the best LGBT places.

Liverpool Gay Bars & Clubs

Let's start with the essentials. There is a plethora of gay bars and pubs to get you started. These are a real mix and range from the traditional, open fire type places, right through to the innovative entertainment of the 21st century. Whatever your taste – there will be something for you to enjoy. Imagine wandering the streets of the gay quarter, hand in hand with your beau, and sampling the very best of Liverpool's gay scene. It's an attractive possibility, right? Why not make it your own?!

You will find the more flamboyant gay, cabaret-esq events have a firm foothold in Liverpool's LGBT community. One of the best of these celebrations is the Liverpool Gay ‘Mardi Gras' style event. Taking inspiration from it's Brazilian forefather, this has quickly evolved into a vibrant, energetic, passionate celebration. Held annually, this is one date that you do not want to miss! Why not dress up and join in with all the fun? A few brightly coloured clothes, a bit of war paint and a funky head dress (and possibly some cold Corona!) and you'll be good to go, partying through the night, enjoying the very last drop of gay fun.

Liverpool Gay Escorts

If you really want to have a great time in Gay Liverpool then the best way to do that is by spending time with a Liverpudlian Gay Escort. These Liverpool Lads know the best places to go and they also know how to have the best gay sex, so that is a very alluring combinations, have a great night in or out with a sexy gay escort in Liverpool and you can find the best ones at SleepyBoy.com

Things to do in Gay Liverpool

If it's the morning after the night before and you're looking for something quieter to do, then visiting the Merseyside Maritime Museum to see the ‘Hello, Sailor' exhibition is a must. This unique attraction examines the experiences of gay seafarers who took to the waves between the 1950s and 80s, both in merchant and passenger ships. Arguably showcasing material ahead of its time, the ‘Hello, Sailor!' exhibition gives a fascinating insight into the colourful history of Liverpool. To top it off, why not sport a jaunty little Captain's hat to get you really in the mood?!