Let's delve deeper into the subject of anal sex!

Your favoured position may not be as clear-cut a subject as some may believe. We've all heard of bottom-shaming, which infers that preference for the position is to be regarded as a weakness – a foolish supposition, as research has ascertained that the majority of gay men do prefer to be the bottom within a relationship. But don't presume if you meet a bottom that they are the submissive partner within the relationship, compared to the tops dominance, as within the majority of gay relationships this simply isn't the case.

Being a top or bottom depends on your preference with regards to either giving or receiving penetration during anal sex, and what you enjoy the most. Many men like to keep an open mind concerning this, as sex may soon get boring if you fall into predictable roles. Although of course, some guys will assume natural duties in the bedroom as they learn what they both will derive the most pleasure from.

Even if you haven't had anal sex, you may like to fantasise about a ripped, toned guy taking you, or about you yourself furnishing pleasure to a guy beneath you, your fantasies can really shed some light on your pleasure preferences, and lead the way to discovering what you enjoy when it comes to playing with another guy.

Some guys like to season their play with versatility - they relish being both a bottom and a top, and enter with no predetermined role; this is a good attitude to have, as it is always best to keep cool, and maintain an open mind, as then you will be sure to experience some pretty amazing sex. Go with what your body says, not your head; sex with zero anxiety attached is always the best, and there is no better way than to experience sex without the hang-ups than to experiment with a guy who knows exactly what they're doing, as they have the experience needed to put your mind and body at ease.

To this end, it could be worth hiring the services of male gay escort. There are many benefits to hiring a hot gay escort, as you can be open and honest about what you desire, and expect, from your time with them, without the fear of being judged. Gay Escorts will have heard and seen it all before, so you really can let your imagination run wild, and arrange to experience some of your deepest fantasies. Of course if you are feeling curious, or hesitant, about anal sex, then the services of a gay escort are a great way to take things slow, and genuinely explore your sexual boundaries, and limitations, in a very safe way.

So whether you see yourself as a bottom, top or being adaptable, the most important aspect to any sexual encounter, and relationship, is for all concerned to be comfortable with the role that they play within the bedroom; because if you are, then you will be sure to experience some of the greatest, most intense orgasms and sensations that anal sex can offer. To find your perfect rent boy in London, Manchester or across the UK visit www.sleepyboy.com and find him online now.

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There are Gay Saunas located across the UK, with like most things more saunas being located in big urban areas, so there are lots in London, lots in Manchester and then one or two in or around most major cities across the UK. If you are new to the practice of visiting a gay sauna, then you might be slightly hesitant – when it comes to getting the most from your experience, what to do, what to say, how to get what you want, or what is often called Gay Sauna "etiquette".

This is just a quick blog to remove any apprehension of going to a sauna they are often really great places to explore, especially if you take a Gay Escort with you!

Essentially a Gay Sauna is very much like a spa, just with added groping by strangers! They often offer a calm and friendly lounge area, where you can sit back and relax, this area is a great place to just hang around if you are not yet brave enough to make your way into the sauna proper. The lounge is a great way to chatting to fellow sauna goers which can make your sauna experience slightly more personal. There will be a selection of hot tubs and Jacuzzis, as well as steam rooms, saunas and solaria. Some saunas offer dark rooms, play rooms or other specialist areas – to go in, or not, is always entirely your choice. As is everything that happens in a sauna, if at any point you are not comfortable or want to stop – then stop.

As soon as you decide to leave the lounge are and enter the sauna rooms your first stop is the changing rooms. You will find that the majority of people are happy to visit the sauna naked, but this isn't essential, if being partly covered with some trunks makes you comfortable, then that is perfectly acceptable. Overall the saunas are very dark, this is all part of the sauna experience - you are more likely to feel your sauna companions than see them. Being prepared, and how you fasten your towel, can make or break being felt up; a popular choice when wearing a towel is to fold it in half length-ways, and then around your hips, making it shorter. Wearing it low upon your hips makes for a far sexier look than just throwing the towel around yourself.

If you are finding the saunas a little too dark, then heading to one of the hot tubs may suit you better. Seat yourself next to someone you like the look of, and be prepared to get attention everywhere! If someone which you don't like starts to touch you, just knock away their hand. This also goes the other way; if someone knocks your hand back, then make sure you are respectful of their wishes, and do not take it personally. Also, bubbles hide a multitude of sins, so hot tubs are a great way to just sit back and enjoy your sauna experience. Now, if you are lucky enough to find someone you do want to take things further with, then most saunas do offer private rooms. These rooms are not the Ritz! You will pretty much get just enough room to rub yourself up on your new friend. Above all, go in with an open mind, play safe, and relax, to ensure a great gay sauna experience.

Gay saunas on the whole are a good experience, there is however etiquette to observe and if you are getting attention from someone you would rather not it can be a little awkward to extricate yourself from the situation. Similarly you may feel an obligation to ‘return any favours’ you may receive in a sauna. For a completely satisfying Gay Sauna experience take one of the Gay Escorts from sleepyboy.com with you, they can show you exactly what to do and give you exactly what you want. See who is available now at www.sleepyboy.com

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Swansea, often overshadowed by its bigger, brassier neighbour, Cardiff, is a small jewel of a holiday destination which has a number of pleasures for the gay visitor.

In fact, Swansea University recently won a stunning accolade - being named as one of the most LGB friendly universities in the UK. The claim is made in the Stonewall University Guide, 2015, a highly researched and reliable guide to places where LGBT individuals will find a welcome. In fact, Swansea have scored 9/10 meaning they are in the top three of Welsh universities and top 20 nationwide.

Swansea - people and places

Swansea really is a small place, around 170,000 inhabitants, some of them students, so you start to feel at home very quickly. It's also quietly, but justifiably, proud of its famous sons and daughters who include:

Catherine Zeta Jones

Gay icon - need we say more?

Dylan Thomas

Poet, drinker, roisterer, the man who wrote 'Do not go gentle into that good night...' and a Swansea boy through and through. You can visit a number of key Swansea locations in Dylan Thomas's life, including his family home and the Grammar School he attended.

Russell T Davies

From 'Queer as Folk' to Dr Who, this Swansea-born writer is not just a driver of popular culture but he's quietly and comprehensively changed the way LGB characters are represented in the UK - Torchwood, for example, deals extensively with bisexuality and relationships in a way that just hadn't been seen before Captain Jack Harkness hit our screens.

Night-life

OMG Swansea has recently moved its LGBT fun franchise into Swansea, showing that the gay community is really making its mark on the market, whilst The Kings Arms is exceptionally gay friendly and Liberty's has its own LGBT following.

Swansea Gay Escorts

Welsh Boys are Hot Boys! and the Sleepy Boy Gay Escorts that are located in and around Swansea are no different! Ready and waiting for a call, browse the sleepyboy.com website to find your favourtie Swansea Boy!

Camping

So, Swansea and camping … what's the deal? It's simple - the Gower peninsula, one of the most beautiful coastlines in the world - is just a short drive from Swansea. Now camp and camping might not be your idea of fun, but there really is a campsite for everyone. We particularly favour the Three Cliffs Bay Campsite, which is as wild as you can imagine, you can pretty well only trek in on foot, through forests, fording streams and over sand dunes, passing craggy castles and spotting all kinds of wildlife. But once you are arrive, the ruggedness stops - you don't even have to camp; it's possible to rent a little shepherd's hut or a cottage to stay in, and there are opportunities to wine and dine on sight.

Gay Outdoor Club - West Wales (Swansea)

If you're the outdoor type, then the Gay Outdoor Club (GOC) West Wales branch might be a great place to contact before your Swansea break. They offer country walks for the LGBT community of around 6-8 miles, through some of the most stunning scenery of Wales, plus regular shorter walks and cycle rides as well as social events and they are always glad to welcome visitors.

We hope this little guide helps you make the most of your time in this very popular Welsh City.

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In a 2007 survey, Leeds was named as the fourth most gay friendly city in the UK - a fact which might surprise you! So what makes Leeds such a great gay venue?

Gay Leeds

The Leeds LGBT Pride has been running since 2006 and has more than 32,000 people attending last year and it grows dramatically year on year. It's a held on the first weekend of August so in 2016 it will be 6 & 7 August.

The event usually begins on the Saturday morning in Millennium Square with a live music performance, lots of speeches and some LGBT market stalls, then at 3pm the Pride Parade sets off, trailing through Lower Briggate and The Calls, where the main 'gay village' is to be found. The day ends with a huge street party and funfair with many people managing to party from the afternoon through to the early hours of the morning.

The Leeds Gay Village - GayLeeds

Leeds has a great gay village - the word most often applied in such situations in vibrant but that's hardly a fair description - GayLeeds is exciting, in-your-face and very friendly. Based around The Calls, near the River Aire, and Lower Brigitte it was formerly an industrial area and like most gay villages it has created a high degree of urban regeneration with lots of upmarket offices, bijoux flats and restaurants/bars/clubs.

Whilst it's not the biggest gay village in the UK, it is really lively gaybourhood and offers everything you could need for a great weekend or even a week.

Gay Leeds Tourism

Lees is barely recognised as a great cultural centre, but for those with an interest in the UK's industrial heritage there are a lot of exciting and well-restored factories, steam engines etc to have a look at.

• For those who don't have a background in the industrial revolution, there are still some great tourist attractions. First off, the Grand Theatre, right at the heart of Leeds. Designed by James Robinson Watson, it opened in November 1878. It's fair to say it's a bit of a mish-mash, architecturally, but it's a really great mishmash! The outside of the building blends Romanesque and Scottish baronial styles - (think Gladiator in tartan) while the interior is pure Gothic. It holds around 1,500 people and hosts world class performances by Opera North amongst others. It's a definite 'don't miss' venue and if you're lucky enough to be in Leeds when there's a great show on, you'll find the crowd as entertaining as the acts.
• Roundhay Park its one of the biggest city parks in the UK at nearly 3 km2 and it offers a range of environments from parkland to lakes, formal gardens and woods. There are a collection of glasshouses that host one of the largest collection of tropical plants in the UK. Roundly Park also houses Tropical World, where visitors can walk through a rainforest and explore the world of tropical wildlife at night, finishing off with a desert trek.

Gay Leeds Nightlife

Queen's Gate claims to be the only 100% gay bar in Leeds - it's quite difficult to see how that statistic can be proved, but it's definitely extremely gay friendly. Very young and cool in profile, Queen's Gate is open late most nights and on one Saturday a month it's open doors until 6am for the party-hardy crowd.

The New Penny, situated at the end of Call Lane, claims to be the UK's longest running gay venue. Back in 1953 it was called the Hope and Anchor and was a highly secretive club for those in the know, but today it's a proud gay pub with a forward looking attitude as well as a long history of gay activity.

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Anal sex is a subject which can cause many gay men anxiety, and this really doesn't have to be the case. Sometimes anal sex can be seen as a taboo and many people lack knowledge about it, which can lead some to believe it will be unpleasant. However, this isn't the case, and the more you know about anal sex, the higher quality anal sex you will experience.

Difficulties can arise if the opening to the rectum is too tense, thereby initially becoming difficult for penile penetration, but once the penis is in, the rectum will expand and it can then enlarge enough to accommodate your partner with ease. There is a lot of pleasure to be found from having anal sex, as the anus has many nerve endings, and upon penetration, the penis will stimulate the prostate gland, which can lead to fantastically intense orgasms.

Anal sex is not only physically stimulating but psychologically invigorating too; as it is something incredibly intimate and erotic, and there also is a certain degree of trust surrendered to the giver.

Get to know your body, become comfortable, and experiment with different kinds of stimulation. Taking things slow and gentle is the best way to get started, as it will relax your internal sphincter. Experimenting with sex-toys, dildos and anal beads as these are a great way to discover what you enjoy and learn distinct methods of reducing possible pain, as pressure and friction can be caused. You can reduce pain by making sure that you use enough lubricant; each person is different and will react to anal penetration differently, so using a good lube can be vital when pushing forward with the pleasures of anal sex. You can never have enough lube! Practicing relaxation techniques, and deep breathing, can help with penile insertion. Communicate openly with your partner, and if things become uncomfortable, stop.

It may seem a little obvious but it is important to think about anal hygiene. Good hygiene standards will make for a much better experience, and as well as looking after your own health, will prevent any embarrassing incidents with your gay escort.

Different positions can also help with comfort; but once again this is all down to the individual, as the size of erection and degree of curvature to the penis can come into play. Many men find it easier when their knees are bent in towards their chest; whether you are kneeling or lying on a bed, this position tends to be a good one to start with, as the anal canal is elongated. Always remember: try to relax; so many irrational thoughts can run through your head when experiencing anal sex, but there is really no need for such worry.

One sensation that can confuse guys is the feeling that they need to go to the toilet - this is perfectly natural; if your bowels were empty before embarking on your anal sex adventure, then there is no need for concern. As the penis penetrates, your rectum feels full, and therefore tells your brain that you need the toilet; this isn't the case, your anal passage at this time, is filled with one thing only!

Take your time, learn to relax, be comfortable and open regarding the feel of pressure on your anus, and you will soon learn how to have amazing, pain-free anal sex every time.

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Anal oral play may not quite be to everyone's taste, as it can come with a certain level of "ick" factor for some people, gay or straight; but this really doesn't have to be the case, as analingus, or "rimming" can provide a multitude of pleasurable sensations. As your anus is filled with nerve endings, when it’s tickled with a tongue it can result in heightened sensations; feelings that are deeply sensual. Like any other sex act, there are some precautions required, but all-in-all, there is a lot to be said for this sexual act, when it's performed correctly and safely by a pro.

Your first step is to make sure that you're clean; go to the bathroom, and have a shower using warm, soapy water, and clean all around your anus; you can employ the service of a douche if you like, an accessory which squirts a stream of warm water into the anal canal, if you get really hung up on the cleanliness factor; when you feel the natural urge to expel the water, the douche will rinse any remaining faecal matter from the colon. Don't get overly vigorous with regards to the anal cleaning, as you can easily damage or tear the tissue of the anus, as the skin is so thin. If you can't get past the "ick" factor when performing this routine, then you can use something called a Dental Dam, which is a specially designed appliance which acts like a condom, because it causes a barrier between the anus and the mouth. Personal grooming can help to keep things clean, and reduces the risk of anything embarrassing clinging on to where it shouldn't.

Rimming and anal play can be anything you desire; it can be stroking, caressing, pressing, or licking; the tongue can penetrate the rectal opening, or not. Experiment with various positions; some may well make you feel too open and vulnerable, but don't be hesitant to spread the buttocks. This is all part of the inherent enjoyment, as you're making room for your tongue.

When it comes down to any kind of anal play; whether this is foreplay leading towards anal sex or the main act in and of itself, we all have the same concerns, and with the correct preparation, there is really nothing to worry about. There are no more intrinsic dangers connected with rimming than there is with any other kind of sexual act concerning the transmission of STDs. If you have a suspicion that you might soon be lucky enough to experience anal play, then some common sense can come into play too. It sounds funny, but it's better to avoid any foods that will naturally make your body produce more gas; doing this will reduce some of the anxieties that people get caught up with when the words rimming and anal play come into the conversation. Rimming and anal play is a sensory experience that many people enjoy; it certainly need not be a taboo, as it can be practiced both safely and hygienically, and give you many hours of hot pleasure.

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Hiring a gay escort is very different from going on a date, so a little preparation first can help the evening go a lot more smoothly. There are many reasons why men hire gay male escorts, and even trans escorts, but the one constant aspect that remains is this: you are hiring the services of a professional - just as you would hire a builder to fix your roof, or an electrician if your circuits have blown, so remember not to be nervous and enjoy yourself.

When engaging such professionals, you tell them what you require them to do; you come to an arrangement, and agree on the set fees for their services. Hiring a male gay escort is no different. You should treat them in exactly the same way you treat any other person providing a professional service - and you will find that is exactly how they treat you back, and eventually, you become a valued customer. Communication is always the key to valued custom, and being open and honest with your escort will ensure that you receive the services that you require and want.

It is very natural to feel embarrassed and nervous when meeting a gay male escort for the first time; the best thing you can do is speak up! It's easy to say, “Don't be shy”, which is true, as this is a professional relationship, and you are paying for his services, but talking openly about the fact that you are feeling shy will do far more when it comes to breaking down that boundary, as it will help you relax without even knowing it and before you know it, you will start to feel comfortable talking with your escort.

The moment when he asks you, ''What do you want?'' will be the point where you may hesitate and feel awkward, but rest assured that your gay escort will have heard it all before - and probably a whole lot worse! Talking about sex, and sexual interests, is your escort's profession; he will not be shy or awkward with you, as he needs to know what you are expecting to pay for.

Communication is key with your escort; he aims to do his job well and give you the pleasure you desire, so the more he knows, the easier it is for him to leave you feeling fully satisfied with your escort experience. Always remember too, that your escort will be honest and upfront with you; he will let you know how he wishes to be paid - and when he expects to be paid. Once you have both been upfront and honest about your intentions, then all the hard work has been done. You can then sit back and look forward to what your time with your gay male escort has in store for you.

Remember if you are still nervous, that there are many ways in which your escort can help you unwind. It’s essential to remember however, that escorts are not mind readers; you have to speak up! Just remember that everyone has a first time when it comes to booking a male gay escort, and most feel shy and embarrassed - but rest assured that you really don't have to be; male gay escorts are some of the most open-minded people on the planet!

Have you ever fantasised about the pleasure that can be achieved at the smooth, strong hands of a hot, ripped Gay Escort? Many male gay escorts can provide you with some of the finest gay massage services available within your city, they are fully versed in full-body stimulating massage therapies and treatments. So whether you have had a hard week and are looking for relaxation and to unwind, or you want to try something new; many escorts make for a great masseuse, and will leave you satisfied and longing for more.

If you are new to the idea of massage services provided by male gay escorts, then we can advise you on some of the most common treatments requested, and we're sure that you will never leave disappointed:

• Relaxation therapy
• Nude Body to Body
• Hot Oil Massage
• Swedish Massage
• Thai Massage
• NURU massage (body gliding)
• Sports Therapy

When you hire a sexy rent boy for massage purposes you are assured that you receive some of the very best male massage therapies that your city has to offer. Sleepyboy.com has escorts listed across England, Wales and Scotland along with many of the major cities like London, Manchester, Birmingham and Edinburgh. As many gay male escorts provide a range of massage treatments, you are not restricted to just one you can incorporate two or more into one session.

So what to expect from your gay male escort massage? Your masseuse will ask you or help you, if you'd prefer to strip down till you are fully naked - you will be asked to lie down on a table, and he will make sure that you are thoroughly relaxed, before he continues your treatment. If you'd prefer to remain partly clothed, then this should be arranged at the time of your booking. If you are experience a NURU massage, or a male body-to-body massage, then you will be covered, head-to-toe, in a specialist gel or oil, which heightens your sensations. Your gay male escort masseuse will then get on top of you, and perform a full nude body-to-body massage, rubbing himself on you, using a variety of pressures, making for a highly erotic, yet relaxing experience. Of course when you book for these therapy services, it is like any other booking you may wish to make with your gay male escort, personal hygiene can be an issue - always make sure that you are freshly showered beforehand. Your rent boy will do the same as nobody wants their massage incorporated with sweat, do they now?

Your hot Gay Escort will be immaculate in appearance, and exhibit professionalism throughout, so making an effort for your gay male escort goes a long way towards showing them the appreciation and the respect that they deserve. Their skills will no doubt shine through; creating a professional relationship between oneself and one's gay male escort can further your enjoyment, as it aids relaxation, comfort and most of all trust between the both of you, which only grows with every booking, so you are truly assured the best of personal experiences, and are guaranteed the utmost level of discretion.

The escorts on sleepyboy.com all agree on one thing – there is no typical guy who books a gay escort. They are just like you – some from all walks of life and are all looking for some company and a great sexual experience.

Sleepyboy.com is the largest collection of sexy escorts online, a directory of the best gay escorts in the UK. Because the guys on sleepyboy.com see guys from all over the country they know that there is no typical booking but a wide range of normal men wanting to spend time with an escort for a variety of reasons.

Here are a few of the different types of guy we encounter – but remember there is no typical type so feel confident and call – the sexy guys on sleepyboy.com are waiting to meet you!

1st Time Out Guys

These guys are often younger and it is their first time with a gay escort. Sometimes looking for an older man to explore what Gay Sex means to them and to let them discover what they like and don't like in a fun, no pressure environment. Like most men who book Gay Escorts they want to explore sex with no strings attached and without the expectation to have to ‘return any favours'

Busy Out of Town Guys

Often businessmen who travel to different cities. Along with great sex they also like the companionship a Gay Escort brings, a real person to share an evening with when travelling. Often on short timescales, evening and afternoon appointments are common.

Steamy Sauna Guys

Going to a gay Sauna is one of Gay Life's pleasures and for some going with an escort who is there simply to please and accommodate all your needs is the best pleasure of all.

Confidential Guys

These guys are most likely worried that their time with an escort will be found out. Don't worry your time with your favourite gay escort is just between you and him, no one will know. As escorts we completely understand the need for confidentiality, most people wouldn't want intimate parts of their life to be exposed so all our escorts can work with you to be as discreet as you need to feel comfortable and enjoy yourself.

Kinky Guys

So you may have had a fantasy about something and have not been able to ask partners to take part in your sexual kink – these are the guys that call a gay escort to get all their fantasies fulfilled. From simple kinks like spanking to a more involved role playing ongoing scenario with uniforms and gadgets! Whatever your fantasy there is rent boy on sleepyboy.com that shares it – search, find and enjoy!

Quickie Guys

It's all in the name, these guys are hot horny and wanting an escort, right now, nice and fast and satisfying and that's it! Often they pick a different guy each time as variety is the spice of life and most definitely sex and they just want to be satisfied – and who better to call than the hot rent boys on the UK's biggest and best Gay Escort Directory.

Every Guy

No matter who you are or what you are looking for if you want a Gay Escort the sleepyboy.com's directory is for you. There is no typical guy who books a Gay Escort, everyone is an individual s browse around, find your favourite and get in touch for complete satisfaction of your needs!

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The short answer is no! Gay escorts are next to James Bond when it comes to their discretion (and their bedroom skills). Rent Boys in London and across the UK get calls from many different types of men who want to meet them for many different reasons, they don't have to know why and they won't tell anyone that they have seen you. They are simply there for you for as long as you want them to be.

You may have been thinking for some time about booking the services of a Gay Escort but have been hesitant to do so, perhaps because of your own personal circumstances, or maybe the underlying fear that someone you may know will find out? These kinds of thoughts are typical, and it's extremely normal to experience such notions. Sadly, it is also these thoughts that stop your dreams and desires from being explored, after all it's only through exploration will those desires be sated and there is no better way to discover them than with a high-class Gay Escort.

The hot guys on sleepyboy.com have style, a body to die for, and be highly intelligent, he also will be fully aware of the importance of discretion. Professional rent boys from London to Manchester and across the UK fully understand the feeling of worry that potential clients may experience before booking their services, so they work to ensure that discretion and privacy are a high priority regarding everyone who books their services.

Regardless of ethnicity, academic background, age, or nationality, we all harbour the same concerns surrounding our privacy, and discretion does go both ways when booking the services of a Gay Escort. Your escort will go out of their way to put your mind at ease when you are in their company - just for the evening, or if you require their services on a more frequent basis - you will be safe in the knowledge that your time together is between you and him and no-one else.

Some quick tips to ensure discretion:

1. Book a Gay Escort in a different town than you live
2. Meet your Gay Escort in a Hotel, rather than your home.
3. Tell your Gay Escort that you need absolute discretion so they can put your mind at ease
4. Don't use your real name – have a name just for your escort to use

It isn't uncommon that your regular escort becomes a person that you can talk openly to about all aspects of your life and that can be incredibly liberating. Some men need absolute discretion because they are married, for religious reasons or just because they value their privacy. Gay Escorts understand and often have the same concerns so you can have a great sexual experience while keeping it just between the two of you.

Gay Escorts love what they do, they love ensuring you are aroused and then satisfied and they want to take you away from day to day life and simply enjoy their company and they best way to do that is to have you trust them, relax and know that they are discreet.

For the hottest, sexiest, rent boys and Gay Escorts that work in London, Manchester across the UK and abroad visit www.sleepyboy.com to search for your perfect discreet companion.

It isn't uncommon for us all at some time to have had the desire -and the curiosity - to hire a male gay escort, for some kinky and pleasurable moments with some of the steamiest guys your city has to offer. BDSM is a wide and ranging series of exciting concepts and activities that tried in the safe hands of a sleepyboy.com escort can be a mind blowing sexual encounter.

When it comes down to hiring a gay escort for BDSM purposes, then your only real limitation is your imagination, as the expertise of a sexy BDSM gay escort can guide you proficiently, ensuring that your dreams and your fantasies really do come true.

A BDSM gay escort will focus on a variety of interests and fetishes, whether you are looking for one-to-one attention, or would like to be incorporated into a scene - to play out your fantasy, or join like-minded others within a dungeon, there truly are many options to have fun - and play around with.

Some of the most common fetishes your BDSM escort will likely cater to and offer are:

• Bondage
• Role Play
• Rope Work
• Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)
• Sensory Deprivation
• Corporal Punishment (CP)
• Nipple Torture (TT)
• Anal Play
• Humiliation
• Foot Worship
• Water Sports (WS)
• Wax and Ice Play
• Violet Wand
• Electro Play
• Body Worship
• Sensation Play
• Food Play
• Tickle Torture
• Leather and Rubber Wear
• Body Shaving
• Enforced Cleaning
• Mummification
• Chastity Play.

For those who like to wrap these activities within a scenario - role play is often required. Some of the most common scenes requested are:

Verbal scenes: Shouted at, verbally abused, all to make you feel humiliated and under the power of your Gay Escort. To do what you are told and be used and abused for your BDSM gay escort's pleasure.

Interrogation Scenes: Want to be held hostage in a sex dungeon or playroom? Where your interrogator will extract the information they need through torture methods? Could you hold out under extreme pressure from your captor's sadistic and ruthless tactics - if the world depended on your silence?

Alternatively, you might want to try a more traditional SM scene like slavery. In this type of play scenario the 'slave' undergos bondage and servitude towards the master.

If you don't see your fetish listed when it comes time to book your Gay Escort for some BDSM fun don't worry. The first step in booking a rent boy for this type of play is to explain via phone or text message exactly what you are looking for to make sure that your favourite Gay Escort get as horny as you do about your fetish. There should be an importance placed upon honesty regarding what you are looking for and what you require from your male gay escort, so you are not left disappointed.

The great thing about using a Gay Escort directory like sleepyboy.com is that there are lots and lots of gay escorts to choose from and you can use the search facility to look for rent boys that share your particular fetish and then you can approach them to see if they are available for you!

So, if you are new to BDSM, or maybe just curious, then your BDSM gay escort will accommodate your needs at your own pace through sessions, and adapting scenes, allowing you to establish your limits. You will have a safe word if things do become too much, prompting you and your BDSM gay escort to stop, take a break or re-calibrate, as there is always an emphasis placed on the aspect that BDSM should guarantee the fun you seek, while still playing safely.

The new year can bring all sorts of promise and resolutions for what you want to do – sex is often one of the things on that list – to have more of it or to be more adventurous! At sleepyboy.com we know the importance of having great sex, often and for it to be fulfilling that is why we have compiled a quick New Year, New Sex list of the tops tricks and trends for a sexually fulfilling 2016!

New Year Sex Tips & Trends:

Trendy Positions

Sexual positions, like clothing styles come in and out of fashion, the end of 2015 saw a resurgence in the ass, anal sex, analingus and all things beautiful about the bum is a definite trend for 2016. Possibly brought on by the popularity of twerking, and the discovery by straight men that anal sex is incredible (we have been saying it for years!) the ass and all things anal is a sex trend everyone is talking about– and long may it continue!

Threesomes or moresomes

If you have decided that this year is the year to try out some of your sexual fantasies, and those fantasies include, threesomes, foursomes, or more-somes then don't be afraid of asking the hot escorts on sleepyboy.com if they have some friends that can come along. Many have people that they do duo's or more with on a regular basis so just ask and see where they can take you!

Romance is not dead

Sometimes you need to separate love and sex, but often adding the romance back in can make for a really pleasurable adventure. If you are seeing your regular rent boy or even (or especially) if you have booked a new Gay Escort, lighting some candles, running a bath, and opening a bottle of wine before getting down to the physicality of sex can add an extra dimension to your evening.

Fulfilment can travel with you

Is one of your ambitions or resolutions this year to travel? Did you know that you can take a Gay Escort with you to be your friend and obliging companion? Lots of the sexy men on sleepyboy.com are more than happy to travel with you. If you travel in the UK for business or pleasure remember that the sleepyboy.com Gay Escort Directory covers the whole of the UK and some European countries so you can find hot guys in every city you visit.

Gay Massage – still going strong

This term perhaps started as a euphemism for Gay Sex, today having a strong and sexy man relax the muscles in your body is a real plus and pleasure for any session with one of the rent boys on sleepyboy.com. A relaxed body and a hard cock which your escort then gives you a happy ending is a long standing and very pleasurable gay sex activity – book your Gay Massage now!

Bears, Jocks and Twinks oh my!

Whichever of these sexy boy types are your favourite, ensure you make some time this year to explore your fantasies with the guy of your dreams. Our hot Gay Escorts are used to fulfilling any role and if you want to play with a twink, be dominated by a bear or have a muscle jock show you how strong he really is, take a look at the hot guys online now and make your fantasy a reality.

Have fun!

Fun items that started to trend last year were items like flavoured lubes, great for blow jobs, they come in a great range of flavours and some actually taste great and add another dimension to fun filled cock and mouth action! A note of caution, as these lubricants are created for flavour, so get a more practical lube for a smoother ride later on!

Other fun items – inflatables! Who knew! Inflatable butt plugs, mouth gags and all manner of other imaginative toys add a great sense of play while being an extremely practical way to carry out any BDSM fetish or just to try for the first time. Wherever your 2016 takes you, remember that the gorgeous guys on sleepyboy.com are always only a click and a call away from fulfilling your sexual fantasy.

The Gay Escort of your choice may not necessarily be advertised as a fetish guy, but this does not mean that your clothing fetishes cannot be catered for in the time you have with your rent boy. Before placing your booking, take the time to let your Gay Escort know what you would like him to wear so he knows what you like in advance so he can come prepared so you he is not surprised by your request and are not left disappointed.

When it comes to dressing to impress, your gay escort may already be able to accommodate your particular desire - or he may need to obtain what is needed before your meeting, which is why it is vital to give your gay escort as much notice as possible.

Clothing which could be considered fetish wear is a huge and exciting area and often very easy to accomplish. You may like something simple and revealing, or perhaps prefer something edging a little closer towards the extreme but your preference can still prompt questions. Is it the material the item of clothing is made from that's the turn-on? Leather, rubber, spandex, nylon, plastic, latex and PVC are all very popular choices.

Alternatively, you may wish your gay escort to wear some kind of harness, which come in many styles for varying types of play - and restriction. Collars can be made from many materials, you may prefer steel, or something slick and heavy duty. Again, all of which should be discussed with your rent boy at the time of your booking. The more detail you can give, the better your fetish-wear gay escort experience will be.

Jock-straps are another popular item of clothing, and of course can be easily worn under regular clothing. Knowing your gay escort is wearing his jock-strap while you're both unwinding over dinner or a friendly beer at the local bar can increase the anticipation of what will unfold later on in the night.

The subject of fetish fashions does overlap into fetish materials, but costuming and role-play can be another area to discuss before booking your gay escort, the more information they have, the easier it will be to create your fantasy, and let the fun unfold. Everyone loves a man in uniform, whether you want to be dominated - or be the dominator. Cosplay can really inject some flair and excitement into the proceedings, as it allows you to both become someone new for the night.

You may simply require your gay escort to arrive at your meeting with an accessory of choice, whips, paddles, masks or genital restraints. Some people can be shy when requesting that their gay escort comes dressed for the occasion, but again, adding specifics and details can really make for a satisfying, mind-blowing encounter.

One thing is certain - when you discuss things with your gay escort, be assured that he will have heard it all before, so there is no need to hide anything. Be upfront and honest regarding what you want them to do, or be as it's the same as anything - the more information your escort has, and the more notice you give them concerning any special requirements, the more likely you can experience your ultimate fantasy.