If you’re turned on by the idea of bondage and discipline, domination or submission, BDSM is the kink you need to explore with your favourite gay escort. You can even take your decadent pleasure up a notch, and try sadism and masochism, but sometimes you know what you want but don’t know how to ask for it!

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Fortunately, the gay escorts listed on www.sleepyboy.com are experts in getting to know what you want and then delivering it, in orgasmic style! BDSM should always be performed in a mutually consenting relationship. Consent is of paramount importance because BDSM involves varying degrees restraint and pain.

Talk About Your Fantasies and Desires

When making arrangements for a hook up with a hot and horny gay escort, don’t be shy about bringing up the topic of BDSM, if it’s at the top of your must-try sex list.

Have an honest conversation about your fantasies and desires and talk about your boundaries. It is important to have your gay escort’s views on BDSM, and their consent before you go shopping for gags, whips, and chains.

Have A Safe Word

On the night of the BDSM session, choose a ‘safe’ word, to immediately stop the action, if you’re in pain or things get out of hand. You can also use the ‘traffic light system’ to communicate during the session.

Green means that you are comfortable, and your partner can go for it!
Yellow/Amber means that you are enjoying it, but you need your partner to slow down as you’re close to reaching your discomfort limit.
Red means STOP! On hearing this word, your partner must stop what he’s doing immediately.

Choose Your Role

BDSM is all about pleasure/pain and role-playing. You therefore need to decide who is going to play the dominant (Master) role and who is going to be the submissive (Slave).

If one role really gets you excited, you may not want to swap and interchange roles with your gay escort. Trying both sides of BDSM will however give you a valuable perspective that can enhance your overall enjoyment of kinky sex.

Play With Sex Toys

You don’t have to have a dungeon full of BDSM equipment and accessories to enjoy this type of sex. A variety of good quality sex toys is all that you need to get started.

Use handcuffs and a blindfold for erotic sensory deprivation games. A leather flogger or a wooden paddle is perfect for spanking ass. Try a butt plug, a cock ring or a dildo.

If you both have a great time, on subsequent BDSM sessions with your favourite gay escort you may want to try the Japanese technique of Shibari rope bondage.

As a gay man planning to have an erotic hook up with a sexy gay escort, you’ll be keen to have a great time in the bedroom. To enjoy an unforgettable bottoming experience, it’s a good idea to improve your habits and techniques – before, during and after ass action.

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One of the best ways to have an incredible bottoming experience is to spend time with a Gay Escort. As gay sex experts they have all the tricks and ideas to make a bottoming experience on to remember. Don’t ever be shy about asking for what you really want from your gay escort experience as these sexy guys are here to please you and deliver your gay sex fantasy whatever that may be. The best gay escorts can be found at www.sleepyboy.com.

Angles & Positions

The angle for a good gay bottom is often determined by the shape and size of the two guys having sex. How tall, wide, and the position of each mans cock will make a difference to getting the right angle when it comes to penetration. So, take it slow to start with, get the right angle and with lots of lube this will be a pleasure from the start.

You can also explore different positions with bottoming. If you are an experienced bottom, then try and avoid the classic pose and try different positions so you can expand your bottoming options. A great gay escort can give you a range of ideas about how to do this.

Switch Up Your Diet

Any seasoned bottomer will tell you that improving your hygiene starts by switching up your diet. Eating high fibre foods helps to minimise the necessary clean up before and during sex. Avoid spicy foods and reduce the amount of meat on your plate. Going vegetarian, for a day or two, will make a big difference to your bottoming experience.

Have A Cleaning Regime

It goes without saying that you need to shower, and to concentrate on cleaning your asshole, so that you can have mess-free anal sex. You can use a douching bulb or the shower attachment, for deep crack cleaning. To double check that you’re suitably clean, and ready for a pounding, you can do a pre-sex check with a lubed up finger.

Train Your Butt

The butt’s sphincter is a tightly clenched circular muscle that opens and closes upon stimulation. Watching it open can be highly erotic. Before you can enjoy intense anal prostate orgasms, you need to train the ass muscle.

You can use ass training sex toys, a butt plug or a lubed finger to gently open up your butthole, in prep for penis penetration.

Use Lots of Lube

Avoid the porno standard of using spit as lubrication, especially if you’re up for rough sex or extended play. A good quality lube makes a huge difference to bottoming pleasure. Slick silicone lube may be messy, but it provides the easy glide that you need to avoid tearing or damaging the anal tissues during bottoming.

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If you’d like to try something new, on a hook up with a gay escort, why not explore the kinky fetish of tickling?

Gay Tickling Fetish

There’s far more to tickling than unpredictably and intentionally grabbing a guy’s sides and making him twitch in delight or jerk in sheer panic. Gay guys with a ticking fetish like to use a combination of knismesis (light, gentle touch that makes skin tingle) and the more aggressive gargalesis (that often elicits fits of laughter). Extreme tickling (tickle torture) is usually reserved for BDSM practices.

When done just right, tickling can be playfully and seductively intimate, and a mixture of pleasure and pain.

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Can’t wait to get started? Here are some great tips to enhance the enjoyment factor:

Use Your Hands

Skilled ticklers know how to use their hands to explore the common tickle zones of the body, and rarely need to try a variety of places before finding the tickle sweet spot. Some guys are very ticklish in the armpits, or along the rib cage. Others react more to tickles on the soles of the feet. Other common tickle weak spots include the neck, knees, and belly.

Use your hands and try your luck in any of these areas.

Use Your Imagination

Some people get really turned on by feeling hot or cool breath on their neck and earlobes.

Surprise your gay escort with some delicate finger touches and move onto licking, sucking and gentle biting, in this hypersensitive area.

Try Other Objects

There are many household objects that you can use for tickle fetish play with a gay escort.

Rubber bristled hairbrushes and rigid combs are perfect for making the skin tingle. You can also use cotton buds, pencils, or stick-like objects that introduce a different texture. It’s best to use these for lower-body tickling.

Electric toothbrushes are also very effective, for all over body tickling.

Feathers have become a standard accessory for kinky sex. Experiment with different types and sizes to cover larger and smaller areas of skin.

Bring Out the Sex Toys

Your sex toy collection should have a selection of accessories that can be used for tickling purposes. For an element of surprise, try out a vibrator (with different attachments) on the abdomen, ribs, and groin area. After enjoying tickling pleasure, you can progress to using the vibrator for anal probing ecstasy.

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On a hook up with your favourite gay escort you can anticipate some hot and heavy action. Intimately exploring each other is a lot more erotic and fun, when you focus your attention on the erogenous zones. When touched and stimulated, these super sensitive areas of the body elicit pleasurable sensations that get you in the mood for sex.

While most people know the main erogenous zones – for guys it’s the midline of the chest, the scrotum, buttocks, anus, perineum and penis – there are also other areas that are well worth exploring.

7 Unexpected Erogenous Zones

How many of these 7 secret head-to-toe erogenous zones have you tried?

1. Exploring Ear Lobes with your Gay Escort
When you are whispering sweet nothings, or dirty talking, into your gay escort’s ear, give his sensitive ear lobes some consideration. Stroking, kissing, and sucking on the ear lobes could well get your favourite escort all hot and bothered.

2. Exploring Armpits with your Gay Escort
Although many people find the armpits to be a ticklish area of the body, some gay guys get highly aroused when you finger their pits.

3. Exploring the Sides of the Chest with your Gay Escort
Instead of making a beeline for the erogenous midline of the chest, slide your hands to the sides, and work your way gently over his ribs. Tease and tickle as you go.

4. Exploring the Nipples with your Gay Escort
Now that you are focused on the chest, give those nipples a kiss, lick, suck, squeeze, or a gentle twist, and watch him squirm with delight. Although the nipples are not quite so secret, finding out the moves that your escort loves the most is erotic and fun.

5. Exploring the Inner Thighs with your Gay Escort
On your way to any man’s main attraction, it’s a good idea to take a detour along the inner thighs. Run your fingers up and down and use your tongue and lips to explore further. Just how far up do you need to go before he’s begging for pleasure? And if you want to delay orgasm, diverting your attention from his penis to the inner thighs will keep him turned on without going over the edge.

6. Exploring the Underside of The Balls with your Gay Escort
The back and underside of the balls are often overlooked, but they’re definitely worth exploring when you’re on the hunt for sensitive sweet spots. Start slowly and gently, and use your hands, lips and tongue to make him moan.

7. Exploring the Soles of the Feet with your Gay Escort
If you’re into toe sucking, spend a little time teasing, stroking and tickling the soles of the feet. What starts off as a kinky foot rub could well end up as a great night of passionate and mind-blowing sex.

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When you’re in throws of wild sex, the action can sometimes get a little over enthusiastic and rough. While some people may consider sexual activities like slapping, spanking, and choking to be acceptable during rough sex, others may find the experience uncomfortable, scary or disturbing.

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It’s therefore important to set sex boundaries, especially when you’re hooking up for mutual pleasure and casual sex with a gay escort.

If you tune into porn to get turned on, you’ve probably noticed that slapping and choking tends to feature quite regularly. Just because it looks like it’s the norm, it doesn’t mean that it’s going on behind everyone’s closed bedroom door.

Kinky practices like BDSM, require Doms and Subs to follow a strict etiquette guideline, to ensure the safety of everyone involved. As a sexually active guy who enjoys NSA adult fun, your sex life could also benefit from having healthy boundaries.

Rough, But Not THAT Rough

Everyone is naturally sexually turned on by different things, and by alternate forms of stimulation. A sexual activity, or technique, that you think is mild may be perceived to be rough by your sex partner.

If you enjoy experimenting with kinky play in the bedroom, it’s essential that you set boundaries and communicate your likes and dislikes. In a committed relationship, sex boundaries allow you to intimately connect on a deeper level. If you’re a single guy, it’s just as important to set sex boundaries, if you’re fucking a variety of casual partners.

Be upfront and open to discussing your boundaries with your favourite gay escort. Being respectful of each other’s boundaries is part of the consensual experience.

How Do You Like It?

If the thought of rough sex gets all hot and bothered, you need to let your sexual partner know BEFORE you get down to having sex.

Choking and slapping are intense activities that require consent from both parties. They also need to be clearly defined, when you’re communicating what gets you rock hard. As ‘rough sex’ isn’t a catchall phrase that sums up everything kinky, you need to be very specific about what you mean when you say “I love to slap or choke”.

Slapping can be extremely painful and harmful, if done on parts of the body that are highly sensitive. Using the wrong slapping technique can also cause considerable pain. Do also bear in mind that rough sex can have a detrimental impact on a partner’s emotional wellbeing.

Be Respectful

If your gay escort doesn’t share your love of rough sex, do not force it. If his definition of fun doesn’t include having sexual activity that is rough, compromise by finding alternative experiences that you can enjoy together.

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Named after the orgasm inducing, walnut sized prostate gland that’s located in front of the rectum, the P spot is uncharted territory for most men. This deeply buried love button can cause you to have an orgasm that’s 10 times more intensified than your usual level of intimate pleasure.

Prostate exploration is safe to do, and a fun sexual activity to enjoy with a gay escort. If you want to give P spot stimulation a go, just follow our practical steps...

Cleaning and Douching

To ensure that your anal probing isn’t spoilt when you are halfway through, you need to thoroughly clean your back passage before you explore P spot pleasure. Take a shower and use an anal douche to give your insides a proper cleaning out.

Get in The Mood

Set the scene for sexual stimulation that exceeds your expectations. Have a relaxing bath, put on sexy music, light some candles… and do whatever gets you in the mood for sex with your favourite gay escort.

Warm Up

Because your booty doesn’t have the ability to self-lubricate, it’s easy to end up with anal tissue tears when you insert anything into it. To minimise discomfort and pain, it’s important to take things slowly. Warm up your anus with a good amount of water-based lube, to avoid tearing.

Take It Easy

Your fingers are the perfect size for inserting into your backside. Before you dive in, on the hunt for the elusive P spot, check that your nails are clean and free of jagged edges.

Lube up your pinky and reach round to slowly insert it. To gradually increase the opening, work your way from the pinky to the index finger. Alternatively, lie back and let your gay escort explore your backside with a P spot sex toy.

Know Where to Go

The P spot is located almost as soon as you enter the anal cavity. It’s virtually within touching distance of an index finger – or to be more precise, it’s about 3/4 of the finger length from the entrance to your ass.

When stimulated and aroused, the P spot grows hard and thick. Massaging it with gentle circular or back and forth motions will result in you feeling deeply pleasurable sensations. You can also you the pad of a finger to apply pressure to the P spot for up to 10 seconds, to enhance the intensity of ejaculation.

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Dirty talk is a fetish language that has its own unique rules. While it looks easy to do, descriptive and explicit sex words don’t naturally flow from everyone’s mouth.

If you’re keen to use dirty talk, on a casual sex hook up with a sexy gay escort, you need to master the basics.

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The best gay escorts can be found on www.sleepyboy.com and they are the dirtiest talkers you have ever met! Articulating your desires takes practice. On your first attempt to sound sexually confident, you may come across as the complete opposite.

The key thing to remember is that dirty talk is just a conversation between two people. If you’re comfortable talking to a stranger, you can easily learn the basics of dirty talk in no time at all.

You simply need to use effective strategies like asking questions, elaborating, being descriptive, and listening. Throw is some double entendres, naughty words and seductive sounds, and your sex partner will be gagging for it.

Ask Away

Asking a question is the best thing that you can do, whenever you don’t know what to say. This super simple technique works equally well on a date with a cute gay escort, as it does in any life situation. You get the added bonus of finding out lots of useful information about your partner.

For starters, ask your gay escort to tell you about things that he likes, what turns him on, and what’s the kinkiest thing he’s ever done.

Keep the conversation flowing with questions that focus on sexual intimacy and punctuate with comments that turn up the heat. Say something like "I love the sound of your voice – it makes my dick hard when you say that..."

Naughty Talk - Improvise

Set the scene for some role-play fun that gives you an opportunity to improvise. While you’re having a conversation, suggest that you explore what it would feel like if you were other people.

Pick a role that you’re comfort with, and let your gay escort do the same. Expand on the theme by creating an imaginary scenario, where you can have a conversation.

Be Descriptive

The words that you choose matter, especially if you’re trying to impress someone that you’ve just met. To get comfortable with dirty talk, start by describing what your partner is wearing, in the sexiest way possible.

If you have a vivid imagination allow it to get carried away, as you describe how horny you feel and what you want to do with your throbbing dick. Stating the obvious actions and activities that you’re imagining – "I want to lick you all over until you shudder in ecstasy" - will ensure that you manifest them into reality on you date.

Create some tension by describing in detail what you’d like your gay escort to do to you in return.

Listen to Your Gay Escort

Wherever your talking dirty, remember to listen for your partner’s response, gasp of excitement, and orgasmic moans.