(Even If You Feel Embarrassed to ask!)

Whether it’s your first time on a hook up with a hot and horny gay escort, or you’ve lost count of the dates you have arranged, if you’re having sex you need to be able to ask your partner for what you really want. Having the confidence to state the facts of your sexual activity preferences can make a big difference to your pleasure level, and to the enjoyment of the experience.

Exploring Fantasies

While there’s absolutely nothing wrong with indulging in straight up gay sex that is oral or anal, when you’re spending time with the gay escort of your dreams why not explore even further?

Don’t be shy about sharing your secret intimate desires and talking about the No.1 fantasy on your gay sex bucket list. An experienced gay escort has heard it all, so there’s no need to feel embarrassed about letting them know that you’ve always wanted to try something kinky, or fetish related.

Experimenting With Role Play

If you’re excited by the prospect of pushing your sexual boundaries, you may be eager to try BDSM with a gay escort. BDSM is all about the balance between pleasure and pain and involves playing dominant (Master) and submissive (Slave) roles.

You’ll need to discuss what you’re willing to try, and what you don’t. And of course, it’s essential that you have mutual consent for adult games that involve bondage and restraint control. Pick a ‘safe’ word to use to immediately stop the action, if you’re in any pain or discomfort, or things get out of hand while exploring eroticism.

Using Sex Toys

If you’re open minded, it may be surprising to discover that not every sexually active gay man is keen to use sex toys with a partner. Some people are simply embarrassed about using a toy to stimulate and arouse, and to bring them to the brink of release. Yet basic sex toys, such as a pair of handcuffs, a blindfold, a paddle, or a flogger provide the perfect props for tantalisingly erotic sensory deprivation sex games.

If you love to use sex toys to intensify the sensual experience, let your favourite gay escort know that the gadgets and accessories are an important part of your foreplay requirements. There’s no need to be apologetic about the fact that you get a rock-hard dick when your ass is gently paddled, or that a butt plug helps you prep for anal sex.

When you are thinking about kinky gay sex, you often can’t think about anything else, perhaps you have had a naughty idea, have seen something kinky on gay porn or have a new gay sex toy you want to play with. If so, choosing a gay escort to have some kinky sexy time with is one of the best things you can do for yourself! But sometimes you don’t know how to ask for what you want!

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Having a sexual kink can cause problems when it comes to sex. If you are a little worried about how someone is going to take your kink, maybe they will think you are a little weird or maybe your kink will turn them off! The often people keep their kinks well-hidden and they only come out, when they are feeling confident or perhaps when a bit of alcohol has been consumed.

Sexual Kinks are Fun

Sexual kinks come in all shapes and sizes, and how people define kink is also different, for some anything other than plain vanilla would be considered a kink – for example asking for a bit of light spanking or using those fluffy handcuffs, for others you have to be a bit more enthusiastic actually having the whips and willing to make a mark, or bondage with proper bondage rope. Kinks can also include the full range of BDSM, lots of different types of role play – anything from Solider Boy to Slaves or golden showers or sensory deprivation. It can also include fetishes such as latex and foot fetishes.

Kinky Fantasies & Partners

Whatever it is that you are into telling someone about your needs, wants, desires and dreams can be daunting as you will worry about how they are going to respond. The good news is that most people have some sort of sexual fantasy so they probably have their own kink they want to try so hopefully you can share stories. Of course, it is not always that simple, what if you love latex and they are allergic, what if you both want to be submissive, or both want to be dominant – that can cause friction in the bedroom. Other kinks like golden showers, while for one man may be a dream, the other may be a nightmare and a no-go area so tread with caution if you are speaking to a partner.

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Uniforms do wonders for the sexiness of any man. That tight, military, strained feel to the uniform is such a turn on for so many gay men. We love uniforms so much we thought we would make a list of the ones that we find the sexiest. If you are looking for someone to fulfil your gay uniform fantasy, find a gay escort on www.sleepyboy.com right now to fulfil your fantasy!

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Gay Men in Police Uniform

Forget village people and take a look at the real police uniforms of today. They are smart and functional with a bit if silver bling on the collars and helmets, while they don’t have the grandeur of military uniforms, they do make up for it in practical tools like handcuffs and phallic shaped truncheons. One of the reasons they are such a gay fantasy is imagining that a horny policeman arrests and then has his fun with you before locking you up! This can either be done is a softcore BDSM fun fantasy or more hardcore rough and ready forceful gay sex fantasy. Whatever the reason for finding the boys in blue sexy, police uniforms are easy to find and to wear!

Gay Escorts in Army Uniforms

Army Guys have for a long time been a gay man’s fantasy. Their strong muscled arms and dominating attitude make us want to be him to give us orders. Strong, sexy and in control, army soldiers are the best! They are so sexy because they have been trained to be fit, have stamina which means they can go all night and trained to either follow or give orders in a strong army voice. Whether you love to see gay army men in their relaxed camouflaged combats or in full military dress uniforms, all tight and shiny – these uniformed hotties are always in our dreams.

Leather Bikers & Gay Escorts

While not specifically a prescribed uniform, leather clad bikers a=have a fashion sense all of their own and you can identify them a mile away. Often bearded and with tattoos these bad boys and their bikes have been a sex symbol for many men for years. This is probably due to a combination of sexy bear, lovely leathers and all over gruffness making for a delicious combination of sexy manliness. The combined smell of leathers and bike fuel, cute bandannas and sexy tattoos are the reason these guys and their informal uniforms have stayed a popular gay sex dream.

Sports Uniforms

Sportsmen are some of the most agile, fittest, and horniest men around and the fact that they wear uniforms just makes them more attractive. From football teams to wrestling stars, uniforms identify that they are hot and ready to go in their chosen sport. Whether this love of sports uniforms comes because sportsmen tend to be beautiful body specimens, or because team gangbang fantasies are so common, we will never know but we love them all the same.

Sexy Sailors & Gay Escorts

Now we know we have already mentioned army uniforms, and the love of those can be transferred to any military uniform but there is something just a little bit special about a gay sailor in a sexy uniform. Perhaps they are so hot because the uniforms are often white which shows every curve of their muscled body and every bulge of their hard penis pushing through the smart uniform pants. Or perhaps it is the thought of being trapped on a boat or submarine for weeks on end with horny sailors all around, happy to fuck anything that is available. A horny sailor gangbang, domination fantasy or military lessons can all be part of any sexy sailor uniform fantasy.

When it comes to indulging in your secret fantasies, a gay escort is often the perfect choice. They can ensure you get the best experience possible, in a safe and comfortable environment.

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If you have always wanted to try it, but don’t know where to start, you have the choice of finding a gay escort who is experienced in the art of Shibari so that they can guide you. If you already have a favourite gay escort, you can embark on this special adventure together, which will only enhance the experience and bring you even closer. You can find a gay escort skilled in BDSM or Japanese bondage on the biggest UK gay escort directory www.sleepyboy.com

What is Shibari Bondage

Shibari, also known as Japanese bondage or Kinbaku, is a very sensual experience that involves artistically tied knots and bonds and plays with the submissive/ dominant roles of BDSM. In its simplest form it is a type of bondage, but the bonds of Shibari are only the starting point. In recent years, all forms of bondage have become more popular and more unusual versions like Shibari are coming into the limelight and people are enjoying experimenting with their own limits and vulnerabilities.

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Shibari differs from other types of bondage in that the focus is on the sensations given by the ties themselves. The dominant person ties the bonds in a way that heightens the arousal of the submissive. This doesn’t just mean on erogenous zones, but all over the body. The lack of control heightens the experience as they are completely vulnerable to the other person. This results in them being immersed in the experience and forced to focus on the physical sensations and trust the dominant partner. It is overwhelming and intense and guaranteed to deliver an unforgettable experience and test your sense of control and vulnerability.

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It is important to discuss your expectations and limits before you get started. Shibari will push you to your limits and you need to be open and honest with yourself and each other to get the most out it. If there is anything you are worried about or you know you do not enjoy, tell your escort so that you don’t need to worry about the experience going in that direction. If there is anything you are intrigued by and think you want to try, but aren’t 100% sure about, don’t be shy and be honest about it so they know to approach it in a delicate way.

Shibari may take you out of your comfort zone, but it could well be one of the most eye-opening sexual experiences you ever have. The best advice for experiencing Shibari for the first time is to go in with your mind open and a willingness to experience the unusual. Find a sexy gay escort to explore this with and be open and honest about what you want and what you are worried about. The art of shibari is to be in the moment and fully involved in all the sensations.

When you are thinking about kinky gay sex, you often can’t think about anything else, perhaps you have had a naughty idea, have seen something kinky on gay porn or have a new gay sex toy you want to play with. If so, choosing a gay escort to have some kinky sexy time with is one of the best things you can do for yourself! But sometimes you don’t know how to ask for what you want!

Kinky Gay Escorts

Having a sexual kink can cause problems when it comes to sex. If you are a little worried about how someone is going to take your kink, maybe they will think you are a little weird or maybe your kink will turn them off! The often people keep their kinks well-hidden and they only come out, when they are feeling confident or perhaps when a bit of alcohol has been consumed.

Sexual Kinks are Fun

Sexual kinks come in all shapes and sizes, and how people define kink is also different, for some anything other than plain vanilla would be considered a kink – for example asking for a bit of light spanking or using those fluffy handcuffs, for others you have to be a bit more enthusiastic actually having the whips and willing to make a mark, or bondage with proper bondage rope. Kinks can also include the full range of BDSM, lots of different types of role play – anything from Solider Boy to Slaves or golden showers or sensory deprivation. It can also include fetishes such as latex and foot fetishes.

Kinky Fantasies & Partners

Whatever it is that you are into telling someone about your needs, wants, desires and dreams can be daunting as you will worry about how they are going to respond. The good news is that most people have some sort of sexual fantasy so they probably have their own kink they want to try so hopefully you can share stories. Of course, it is not always that simple, what if you love latex and they are allergic, what if you both want to be submissive, or both want to be dominant – that can cause friction in the bedroom. Other kinks like golden showers, while for one man may be a dream, the other may be a nightmare and a no-go area so tread with caution if you are speaking to a partner.

The reverse is true if you are speaking to a Gay Escort – tell them your dreams, tell them your fantasies and they will try and make them reality, do you want to be spanked by a solider, no problem, do you want to try bondage or be dominated by a dungeon master – all you have to do is ask and Gay escorts will accommodate all your needs and desires.

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It is really that simple, find your favourite Gay Escort on www.sleepyboy.com read their profile as they all have a list of kinks, they are happy to accommodate (and most guys like most things) and then drop them a message to tell them what you would like and when you are free to meet. Actually, very simple – if you err on the more extreme side of a kink or fetish then your Gay Escort may want to establish some ground rules or a safe word, so you are both completely happy with what happens in any scenario. You may also want to visit a dungeon with your escort so all the equipment you could possibly want is on hand and ready to go!

If you’re turned on by the idea of bondage and discipline, domination or submission, BDSM is the kink you need to explore with your favourite gay escort. You can even take your decadent pleasure up a notch, and try sadism and masochism, but sometimes you know what you want but don’t know how to ask for it!

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Fortunately, the gay escorts listed on www.sleepyboy.com are experts in getting to know what you want and then delivering it, in orgasmic style! BDSM should always be performed in a mutually consenting relationship. Consent is of paramount importance because BDSM involves varying degrees restraint and pain.

Talk About Your Fantasies and Desires

When making arrangements for a hook up with a hot and horny gay escort, don’t be shy about bringing up the topic of BDSM, if it’s at the top of your must-try sex list.

Have an honest conversation about your fantasies and desires and talk about your boundaries. It is important to have your gay escort’s views on BDSM, and their consent before you go shopping for gags, whips, and chains.

Have A Safe Word

On the night of the BDSM session, choose a ‘safe’ word, to immediately stop the action, if you’re in pain or things get out of hand. You can also use the ‘traffic light system’ to communicate during the session.

Green means that you are comfortable, and your partner can go for it!
Yellow/Amber means that you are enjoying it, but you need your partner to slow down as you’re close to reaching your discomfort limit.
Red means STOP! On hearing this word, your partner must stop what he’s doing immediately.

Choose Your Role

BDSM is all about pleasure/pain and role-playing. You therefore need to decide who is going to play the dominant (Master) role and who is going to be the submissive (Slave).

If one role really gets you excited, you may not want to swap and interchange roles with your gay escort. Trying both sides of BDSM will however give you a valuable perspective that can enhance your overall enjoyment of kinky sex.

Play With Sex Toys

You don’t have to have a dungeon full of BDSM equipment and accessories to enjoy this type of sex. A variety of good quality sex toys is all that you need to get started.

Use handcuffs and a blindfold for erotic sensory deprivation games. A leather flogger or a wooden paddle is perfect for spanking ass. Try a butt plug, a cock ring or a dildo.

If you both have a great time, on subsequent BDSM sessions with your favourite gay escort you may want to try the Japanese technique of Shibari rope bondage.

As a gay man planning to have an erotic hook up with a sexy gay escort, you’ll be keen to have a great time in the bedroom. To enjoy an unforgettable bottoming experience, it’s a good idea to improve your habits and techniques – before, during and after ass action.

Play with a Gay Escort

One of the best ways to have an incredible bottoming experience is to spend time with a Gay Escort. As gay sex experts they have all the tricks and ideas to make a bottoming experience on to remember. Don’t ever be shy about asking for what you really want from your gay escort experience as these sexy guys are here to please you and deliver your gay sex fantasy whatever that may be. The best gay escorts can be found at www.sleepyboy.com.

Angles & Positions

The angle for a good gay bottom is often determined by the shape and size of the two guys having sex. How tall, wide, and the position of each mans cock will make a difference to getting the right angle when it comes to penetration. So, take it slow to start with, get the right angle and with lots of lube this will be a pleasure from the start.

You can also explore different positions with bottoming. If you are an experienced bottom, then try and avoid the classic pose and try different positions so you can expand your bottoming options. A great gay escort can give you a range of ideas about how to do this.

Switch Up Your Diet

Any seasoned bottomer will tell you that improving your hygiene starts by switching up your diet. Eating high fibre foods helps to minimise the necessary clean up before and during sex. Avoid spicy foods and reduce the amount of meat on your plate. Going vegetarian, for a day or two, will make a big difference to your bottoming experience.

Have A Cleaning Regime

It goes without saying that you need to shower, and to concentrate on cleaning your asshole, so that you can have mess-free anal sex. You can use a douching bulb or the shower attachment, for deep crack cleaning. To double check that you’re suitably clean, and ready for a pounding, you can do a pre-sex check with a lubed up finger.

Train Your Butt

The butt’s sphincter is a tightly clenched circular muscle that opens and closes upon stimulation. Watching it open can be highly erotic. Before you can enjoy intense anal prostate orgasms, you need to train the ass muscle.

You can use ass training sex toys, a butt plug or a lubed finger to gently open up your butthole, in prep for penis penetration.

Use Lots of Lube

Avoid the porno standard of using spit as lubrication, especially if you’re up for rough sex or extended play. A good quality lube makes a huge difference to bottoming pleasure. Slick silicone lube may be messy, but it provides the easy glide that you need to avoid tearing or damaging the anal tissues during bottoming.

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If you’d like to try something new, on a hook up with a gay escort, why not explore the kinky fetish of tickling?

Gay Tickling Fetish

There’s far more to tickling than unpredictably and intentionally grabbing a guy’s sides and making him twitch in delight or jerk in sheer panic. Gay guys with a ticking fetish like to use a combination of knismesis (light, gentle touch that makes skin tingle) and the more aggressive gargalesis (that often elicits fits of laughter). Extreme tickling (tickle torture) is usually reserved for BDSM practices.

When done just right, tickling can be playfully and seductively intimate, and a mixture of pleasure and pain.

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Can’t wait to get started? Here are some great tips to enhance the enjoyment factor:

Use Your Hands

Skilled ticklers know how to use their hands to explore the common tickle zones of the body, and rarely need to try a variety of places before finding the tickle sweet spot. Some guys are very ticklish in the armpits, or along the rib cage. Others react more to tickles on the soles of the feet. Other common tickle weak spots include the neck, knees, and belly.

Use your hands and try your luck in any of these areas.

Use Your Imagination

Some people get really turned on by feeling hot or cool breath on their neck and earlobes.

Surprise your gay escort with some delicate finger touches and move onto licking, sucking and gentle biting, in this hypersensitive area.

Try Other Objects

There are many household objects that you can use for tickle fetish play with a gay escort.

Rubber bristled hairbrushes and rigid combs are perfect for making the skin tingle. You can also use cotton buds, pencils, or stick-like objects that introduce a different texture. It’s best to use these for lower-body tickling.

Electric toothbrushes are also very effective, for all over body tickling.

Feathers have become a standard accessory for kinky sex. Experiment with different types and sizes to cover larger and smaller areas of skin.

Bring Out the Sex Toys

Your sex toy collection should have a selection of accessories that can be used for tickling purposes. For an element of surprise, try out a vibrator (with different attachments) on the abdomen, ribs, and groin area. After enjoying tickling pleasure, you can progress to using the vibrator for anal probing ecstasy.

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On a hook up with your favourite gay escort you can anticipate some hot and heavy action. Intimately exploring each other is a lot more erotic and fun, when you focus your attention on the erogenous zones. When touched and stimulated, these super sensitive areas of the body elicit pleasurable sensations that get you in the mood for sex.

While most people know the main erogenous zones – for guys it’s the midline of the chest, the scrotum, buttocks, anus, perineum and penis – there are also other areas that are well worth exploring.

7 Unexpected Erogenous Zones

How many of these 7 secret head-to-toe erogenous zones have you tried?

1. Exploring Ear Lobes with your Gay Escort
When you are whispering sweet nothings, or dirty talking, into your gay escort’s ear, give his sensitive ear lobes some consideration. Stroking, kissing, and sucking on the ear lobes could well get your favourite escort all hot and bothered.

2. Exploring Armpits with your Gay Escort
Although many people find the armpits to be a ticklish area of the body, some gay guys get highly aroused when you finger their pits.

3. Exploring the Sides of the Chest with your Gay Escort
Instead of making a beeline for the erogenous midline of the chest, slide your hands to the sides, and work your way gently over his ribs. Tease and tickle as you go.

4. Exploring the Nipples with your Gay Escort
Now that you are focused on the chest, give those nipples a kiss, lick, suck, squeeze, or a gentle twist, and watch him squirm with delight. Although the nipples are not quite so secret, finding out the moves that your escort loves the most is erotic and fun.

5. Exploring the Inner Thighs with your Gay Escort
On your way to any man’s main attraction, it’s a good idea to take a detour along the inner thighs. Run your fingers up and down and use your tongue and lips to explore further. Just how far up do you need to go before he’s begging for pleasure? And if you want to delay orgasm, diverting your attention from his penis to the inner thighs will keep him turned on without going over the edge.

6. Exploring the Underside of The Balls with your Gay Escort
The back and underside of the balls are often overlooked, but they’re definitely worth exploring when you’re on the hunt for sensitive sweet spots. Start slowly and gently, and use your hands, lips and tongue to make him moan.

7. Exploring the Soles of the Feet with your Gay Escort
If you’re into toe sucking, spend a little time teasing, stroking and tickling the soles of the feet. What starts off as a kinky foot rub could well end up as a great night of passionate and mind-blowing sex.

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