Many people have love to feel a little pain when they are having great sex, whether this comes from spanking or the tweaking of nipples to more extreme and involved ways of exploring the pleasure pain principle during sex.

Everybody knows that pleasure and pain can be inextricably linked for those who get turned on by this principle. For others who just can’t understand why pain can be so sexy then read on for the how’s and the whys. If you are one of those that loves spanking, rough sex or any other types of BDSM play then doing it with a gay escort is the best way to enjoy this very common gay sex fetish.

Pain and Pleasure Linked Together

Most people have no idea why pain turns them on, they just know they love it, but there are actually some very good reasons why pleasure and pain are so interlinked. Pain perception in the brain is called nociception, this is the mechanism that responds to pain in your body. Once this is stimulated the brain and body work together to deal with that stimulus, pulling away your hand from a flame for example. In addition to physical reaction to pain your body also releases a load of different chemicals in your brain and body to help you deal with any resulting pain, these can be alone or a combination of endorphins, serotonin, melatonin and epinephrin. These are normally feel good hormones there to reduce the impact of the pain and make you feel better, this has an unusual result when you are also horny.

It Feels Amazing

When you are horny many of the same hormones are racing through your body as when you receive pain, and this causes two things to happen. The first is that for some people when they feel pain, they also get a little horny as the association between these two feelings is strong, and the other is that when they are horny their pain threshold is heightened making spanking simply feel good and not painful.

Different Types of Pain

Everyone’s pain threshold and tolerance for what makes them hornier and what causes actual pain is different so you must always check beforehand how far a gay sex partner wants you to go if you and inflicting some kinky pain on them. Always have a safe word in place in case things get a little heated, this also lets the inflicted beg the punisher to stop when actually they mean, please go on. Spanking, whipping, caning, nipple clamps and all sorts of other exciting devices can be used to inflict great sexual pain on someone and often the more they have the more they want.

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If you do like pain, of whatever threshold, then the best person you can get to inflict this is a gay escort, they are sexy, horny and experienced in delivering the perfect amount of kinky torture so you enjoy being spanked, whipped or otherwise abused and have the best sexual experience ever. Find the best gay escorts in the UK on www.sleepyboy.com and find one you like that loves to dominate so you have the best gay sex experience of your life.

The gay lifestyle and growing gay acceptance around the world, means more and more great global cities are now welcoming of gay visitors and often have thriving gay communities of their own. Cities are now the favourite places to go, with so many of them having predominantly gay neighbourhoods offering urban pleasures, gay hotels and nightlife. Remember if you are looking for some company on your trip or way to have no strings attached great gay sex when you get there, visit www.sleepyboy.com for the hottest gay escorts anywhere on the globe.

These are our top ten favourite gay friendly cities of the world:

LOS ANGELES - Some people say West Hollywood is now an autonomous gay city within L.A., and the cliché that most of Hollywood is gay often seems quite true. But this city of dreams is also home to gay-friendly beaches and outdoor activities thanks to its pleasant year-round weather. It hosts major gay events and there's a multitude of gay bars and clubs.

PARIS - Paris is the city of romance, and that includes the gay kind. Not every city is open-minded enough to elect an openly gay mayor, but Paris has done it and it was the gay community that turned Marais into the city's trendiest neighbourhood. But you don't have to just head to that gaybourhood (which is increasingly becoming straighter) to sense that Paris is one big gay city -- there's also its fashion world and welcoming cafés everywhere.

MIAMI - Miami has long been a favourite destination among gay travellers for the same reason that it attracts everyone else -- the hot weather, the hot bodies, and the hot nightlife. This is where the party people come to relax and get a tan and South Beach is where the gayest establishments are found. When all of that is not enough, there is always a trip down to Key West, home to a large gay community.

SAN FRANCISCO - The world's most gay-friendly city is now even friendlier with California allowing same-sex marriage. It's the world's original gay Mecca, and although New York may have surpassed it in diversity. San Francisco's Castro District will make you feel like you're at the centre of the gay world. There are gay events and attractions happening throughout the year, and it has many gay and gay-friendly bars and restaurants.

BERLIN - Most people don't realize it but Berlin may actually be Europe's gayest capital. It seems to have the most gay attractions in the world, including a gay museum and a gay memorial. This hedonistic city is so open-minded it's elected an openly gay mayor, and gay bars are also straight bars. There are dozens of attractions and several gay publications telling you what's going on. MANCHESTER - Manchester is an up and coming destination and is very gay friendly including the famous canal street, the heart of the gay scene in Manchester often dropping the C to be coined 'anal street'!! It is recognised as the LGBT centre of the UK outside of London and has many gay pubs, clubs, festivals and a huge annual gay pride event.

NEW YORK - The Big Apple is the birthplace of gay life and of the gay pride movement. It's the home of Stonewall which led to all of the gay pride events around the world, and most of Manhattan and now even parts of Brooklyn is one giant gayborhood. From Greenwich Village to Chelsea, with their Christopher Street and 8th Avenue having gays heading down to the multitude of gay bars, clubs, and shops at any time of the day.

AMSTERDAM - It's the world's most liberal city so it's naturally very gay. Its legendary open-mindedness goes back to the early 1800s when homosexuality was decriminalized and when the Netherlands became the first country to allow same-sex marriage. Gay couples are seen walking hand-in-hand down Amsterdam's canals, and it's on the waterfront that you'll find the first gay monument in the world.

BARCELONA - It's now one of the world's top gay destinations and not just because of the city itself but also because of the neighbouring beaches. In addition to a vibrant cosmopolitan life, the city is an attractive mix of gay and straight and has some of Europe's best nightlife and restaurants. In fact, it was the gay community and gay travellers that largely contributed to Barcelona becoming such a trendy place, even in winter when the beaches are no longer the main attraction.

LONDON - Finally leaving the best until last, London. Europe's largest gay and lesbian community lives in the British capital. Its Gay Pride event is one of the world's largest, but the thousands of gay visitors also contribute to the fun. The gay nightlife is varied, and that's more than just bars and clubs. This is also the capital of theatre and gay art, so there is always something gay going on around any corner.

Newcastle has a great gay pride event, has some great gay bars and clubs and some of the sexiest men in the North! Known as a party city, Newcastle has so much more to offer for gay men – here is a quick overview of why to spend some time in the north!

Visiting Newcastle

The weather can be a little cold and damp and the Geordie accent sometimes a little hard to understand but the warm welcome you will receive in Newcastle is second to none. Newcastle’s Gay Village is located between the mainline train station and the Metro Radio Arena, Newcastle has a well-established, thriving and growing gay scene with many pubs and nightclubs that are very gay friendly and the well-known Powerhouse which is one of the only exclusively gay Nightclubs in the North. One of the reasons that Newcastle has such a great party vibe is that it has two large university campuses within the city limits, lots of fun and friendly students frequent the bars and the bars respond with great music nights and drink deals to tempt you through the doors!

Newcastle Pride Event

Newcastle Pride event is a free event that runs through the city with events like a stage band, a fun run, parade, talks, stall and it is growing every year – a great time to visit Newcastle!

The Gay Bars and Nightclubs in Newcastle have some great names like Camp David – a great friendly bar with a young vibe, Heavens Above which is a bar that has great cocktails and Club Powerhouse which always has a great atmosphere. Along with the bars, and clubs that Newcastle is famous for, this Northern city also has great restaurants, theatres and a host of live music venues. The famous St James’ Park football stadium looms large in the heart of the city and there are lots of museums and tours to keep you occupied during the day. Other Newcastle Icons include Newcastle Brown Ale and The Angel of the North.

Gay Escorts in Newcastle

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Gay Saunas in Newcastle

There are a couple of great Gay Saunas in Newcastle for a great and relaxing sauna experience. If you are looking for a Gay Massage by a gorgeous Northern Bloke, then visit one of the friendly saunas in Newcastle and if you want a sauna companion for a great experience then choose one of the Newcastle Gay Escorts listed on Sleepyboy.com to accompany you.

Whatever you are doing in Newcastle whether you are visiting for a fun weekend away or you are simply visiting for business it is a great place to be. To make sure you have the best time in Newcastle contact one of the gorgeous Geordie guys on sleepyboy.com for a great night in or out. The Newcastle Gay Escorts listed on Sleepyboy.com are the best that there are, and they will welcome you into their beautiful city!

Uncomplicated Gay Sex is one of the best pleasures in life and the gay escorts on sleepyboy.com agree that above all else there is one sex tip that is the best. Gay escorts are masters at giving you what you want, and they have learned how to ask you what it is you like and how you like it. This brings us to our top gay sex tip – communication! Gay escorts want to know what you like and don’t like so they can give you the best experience possible.

Gay Escort Directory

Sleepyboy.com has the best online Gay Escort directory in the UK and it has some great search functions so you can filter your options and find your perfect guy. There are options so you can search for your perfect gay escort by Activities such as Blowjobs, massage DP and trios, you can also search by fetish such as BDSM, watersports and spanking. The location search is particularly useful so you can find a rent boy close to you that does the things you want!

If you have questions about what your gay escort will or won’t do, and what he will or won’t receive then just ask. Our website makes it easy for you to contact the escort directly and ask quick questions to ensure you have the right guy for the most amazing experience.

Sex Tip from Gay Escorts

Communication is key both before you meet your escort and when you are together, the escorts listed on sleepyboy.com are the best there are and they want you to have a great time so don’t be afraid to communicate. You can direct your escort or ask them to do something differently, asking for slower, faster, is fine and can we try this – or that - is OK too.

Our top tip to have the best gay sex ever is very simple. Communicate, be open about what you like and sometimes even more importantly what you don’t like and your escort will respond. Our website also has searched for bi-sexual escorts and transvestite escorts, the same filtering process can be used to sort down to a short list of those escorts that best meet your needs.

Communication is Key

Our rent boy directory covers the whole of the UK and also includes international escorts for those who live or work abroad. The directory has a search function that lets you see who is logged in and ready to meet right now. If you want a gay escort right now and don’t want to spend time waiting for escorts to reply who aren’t available then this search lets you see which guys have logged into the sleepyboy.com site in the last 30 mins so you know they are waiting for you.

Contact any of the escorts listed on the site for a great experience and remember to ask any questions you may have, they will be happy to answer before you meet. Communication doesn’t stop there for the best gay sex experience follow our top tip – communicate, and have fun!

Lodged in the heart of the UK, the city of Birmingham boasts a thriving and vibrant multi-cultural LGBT community with a range of welcoming bars, clubs and restaurants and other attractions that make it one of the most popular destinations in the country. The city's gay village is set in the Southside district around Hurst Street not far from the Chinese Quarter and every year over 70,000 people descend on the area to take part in Birmingham Pride. If you are looking for the best in Gay Escorts in Birmingham then check out the sleepyboy.com directory to see who is around in the Birmingham area.

Birmingham Bars and Clubs

In 2009, the Birmingham Council approved over half a million in grants to make improvements to the area which means that the gay village is one of the most recently developed and attractive areas of the city. The buildings around Hurst Street host a wide range of bars, clubs and restaurants to suit almost every taste.

Calling itself the first gay bar in the city, Bar Jester is certainly one of the oldest in the village and recently underwent a refurbishment. Camp Karaoke and cabaret are the order of the day and it remains one of the most popular LGBT venues in the area. If you like more of a mixed clientele then a bar like Chic may be to your liking or the even more stylish Queer Street.

Gay Birmingham

There's no lack of entertainment in the village with places like Eden that has an indoor and outdoor stage for cabaret and The Queen's Tavern which opened just a few years ago. With three dance floors designed to keep you going to the small hours, The Nightingale Club hosts top acts every Saturday night and has evenings for the ‘larger man' twice a month. There are also some great gay saunas in Birmingham, if you want to take a sauna companion with you then all of the rent boys listed on sleepyboy.com will be happy to accompany you.

If good food is the thing you want then Birmingham has a wide range of top quality restaurants serving dishes from all over the world, including the award winning Loft Lounge that lies in the heart of the gay village.

Birmingham Hotels and Accommodation

As you would expect from any international city, there are plenty of hotels and accommodation to choose from in Birmingham. You can go for the Crown Plaza and Ibis Hotels in the city centre or, if you wanted somewhere more intimate closer to the gay village then you might like to opt for the Wellington Hotel on Bristol Street or The Fountain Inn on Wrentham Street.

Out and About Birmingham

Whether you want to shop, eat, dance, walk, see a film or even visit a chocolate factory there's enough to do in Birmingham to keep everyone busy. Historic Birmingham includes the location that inspired J R R Tolkien to create the Lord of the Rings trilogy at Sarehole just outside the city centre and you can pay a visit to Warwick Castle to take a step further back in history.

For the nature lover there is always a walk out in the countryside or you can visit an attraction like the amazing National Sea Life Centre that has everything from seahorses to sharks. For film lovers there's the huge IMAX cinema and for art lovers there's the Birmingham Museum and Art Gallery.

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Anyone who loves great gay sex knows how important a good lube is to make things go smoothly! Great anal sex comes from a combination of a partner who understands what you need and like and a great lube to make your gay sex dreams become reality. Gay Escorts are great advocates of using a lot of lube, but the lubes you now buy are quite a modern invention.

There are a huge array of lubes on the market today to suit every types of needs, flavoured lubes and lubes that include a tingling sensation are just some of the novelty lubes that we know and love. Lube has been used throughout history to aid great gay sex so we thought we would have a look at what has been used over time to let things slide in and out just the way we want them to.

An array of natural substances has been used over time as lube here are some of the more interesting ones:

Olive oil as a Lube

The classical Greeks loved sex, it can be seen in everything from their art to their plays and the writings of the time and they were very open about gay sex and anal sex meaning they had to find a suitable lube to help them along in their desires. Olive oil was easily available to the ancient Greeks so was used frequently in the sex that they had. The earliest reference we have for using Olive oil as a lubricant is as early as 350 BC. They also interestingly created the dildo which was made from leather and suggested to be used with, yes you guessed it, olive oil for easy insertion!

Seaweed as a Lube

Perhaps not the most common of substances to think of when you are looking for a great way to have that nice hard cock up your ass, but seaweed was used as standard for a long time. China, Japan and places like Korea have evidence that seaweed was boiled down into a slippery substance throughout their history.

Yams as a Lube

Just like the ancient Greeks, the Japanese were very open about gay sex and anal sex in particular so it is no wonder that they looked for everyday substances to aid their anal poundings! The Edo period in Japan (1603-1868) notes that they used a substance made from grated Chinese yams, which made a sticky slimy substance perfect as a lubricant.

Clove Oil as a Lube

Dildo’s were present in ancient Japan and so there are many references to men having anal sex or using dildos with clove oil as their lubricant of choice. Probably chosen as it also has pain killing properties along with muscle relaxing properties that make up for the more pungent smell when compared with other types of oils. Today clove oil is still an ingredient in many modern lubricants.

Saliva as a Lube

Before there was anything else to use as a lubricant there was saliva! The oldest, most affordable, more readily available at a moment’s notice lube will always be saliva. Not as slippery as other substances but still useful either as a way to kiss, lick and arouse your partner and as a last resort if you have run out of everything else!

Gay men often love to see a hunky man playing sports, so it is no wonder that a sports gear fetish has grown in popularity over the years. Whether it is checking out sexy men in the gym, watching hunky rugby players at a game, or watching elite sportsmen on TV, there can be no doubt that these fit, lean, athletic men are a joy to look at! Sports Gear Gay Fetish

If you want to enjoy having sex with a sexy sporty man, then remember to let your gay escort know that you love a sporty guy and he can wear the appropriate clothing for your date. Whether it is just the clothing that turns you on or you like your guy to come hot and sweaty after playing his favourite sport, or after a workout at the gym, gay escorts are more than happy to accommodate your fantsy!

The sports gear fetish is a rising trend in the UK, but it is even more popular with our European cousins in Germany and France. While sports fetish events can be found in the UK, they are in abundance in these European countries and we look forward to more of these events making their way to our shores.

Links with Other Gay Fetishes

As so often happens with fetishes there is a crossover with other types of gay fetishes. The sports fetish can include men who simply love the athletic look and the clothes that go with that, it can also encompass the chav fetish as sportswear is a huge part of that look. In addition, it can also include those who have a foot or trainer fetish as the sweaty aspect of a sportsman really gets them horny, and it can also include those who have a jock or muscle fetish as those wearing the sporty gear often are ripped!

Male Masculinity and Sportswear

A man who is into sports is often a very masculine man, a man who loves to work out at the gym and then get down and dirty with his team mates on the sports field. It can also encompass those who love to be with a winner, a sports celebrity or just someone who likes to be competitive, these men are so very attractive and getting them into bed is a fantasy for many men.

Clothing Expectations

As everyone likes something different there are no hard and fast rules about which sportswear is appropriate. Some men like to see footballing wear, some like to see cyclist in their tight shorts, some like wrestlers in their outfits and some just like to see a hot sweaty guy from the gym. As there are no preconceptions you can ask your gay escort for exactly the look you want, and they can make your sportwear fantasy a reality wherever and whenever you want.

Gay Escorts and Sportswear

Gay Escorts, like the ones listed on sleepyboy.com are experts in meeting your sexual needs. Find your favourite, the one who looks or acts how you want your sporty guy to be, then ask for them to wear the clothing you want, and you will have the best night of your life – guaranteed!