Gay Sex fetishes are amazing, the breadth, depth and range of options that you have when it comes to gay fetishes is almost as mind blowing as the orgasms they can create when played out well.

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There are some long standing gay fetishes that most everyone knows about, like sexy hunky gay men in black leather, those that love all things feet, men who adore other men in uniforms and men that love to be in control or be controlled themselves.

Whatever you can think of there might quite possibly be a gay sexual fetish attached as there are no limits to what makes men horny and hard. Here is a list of lesser-known sexual fetishes you may (or possibly may not) have head of, many of them not confined to the gay community of course!

Gay Sexual Fetishes

Loving the Large and Small – If you are aroused by a person of extreme stature – either small or large (giant or dwarf), and it doesn’t matter how big or small you are then your sexual fetish is called Anasteemaphilia. This fetish should make for some interesting sex positioning!!

Reflecting the Love – If you have ever seen a 70’s or 80’s movie (or a lot of porn) and there has been a steamy sexy scene (gay or straight) especially if they are in a romantic hotel then you are likely to see leopard prints, sheen fabrics and of course mirrors. Whether on the walls of the sexy room, or often on the ceiling, if having sex in front of mirrors really does it for you then your sexual fetish is called Katoptronophilia.

Sexy Stillness – There have been many famous artists across time that have created stunningly beautiful statues – some are very anatomically correct, and some are more abstract, if you find statues arousing then this sexual fetish has a name, and it is Agalmatophilia. For those who have this fetish museums and art galleries must be much more pleasurable for them than the average visitor!

Laughing Lover – This one you might know about but didn’t know its proper name – do you know what Knismolagnia is? No? OK well this is one for all of you out there who get tuned on when you are tickled. As long as you can stay focussed through the laughter this could definitely be a one to try!

Don’t be Nosey! – Any fetish with a ‘Lingus’ in its name must be fun right – that means something is being licked or sucked and must be relaxing and pleasurable? Well, this one is a little different Nasolingus is the name for getting aroused by sucking on a person’s nose – yes, we said nose! I’m not sure I would want to be the person on the other end of that fetish!

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While gay cucking may be new to some, the experience of cuckolding dates back centuries. Although traditionally, the practice involves wives cheating on their hapless husbands, while they watch as a turn on punishment, it’s now become a popular role play trend to enjoy with a gay escort.

What Is Gay Cuck?

The gay cucking fetish comfortably straddles porn and reality. In the last year alone, Google searches for ‘gay cuck’ have increased by a staggering 400 percent! The fetish is currently still in its infancy and is developing its own terminology and practices in an eroticised way.

Heterosexual cuckolding is taboo and deeply rooted in the male ownership of women being flipped so that the female becomes empowered. The cuckolding experience is designed to corrupt the most vanilla of marriages or relationships. Within gay relationships however, cucking doesn’t work in quite the same way. As many gay couples have open relationships, humiliating your partner by having sex with someone else is not perceived to be such a big deal.

In a gay context, the best way to explore and enjoy cucking is with your partner and a gay escort.

How To Cuck Role Play

For many gay cucks looking for new sexual kicks, there’s a need to experiment with the master (dom) and slave (sub) dynamic. The master gets laid while the slave watches and is erotically turned on. If you’re in a committed relationship and want to explore cucking, you need to be open about your desire with your partner. Alternatively, you can always hook up with your favourite gay escort, and also invite a third person.

Unlike a threesome that encourages three-way stimulation, arousal and release, if you’re a gay cuck you’re only allowed to look on, while your horny companions get their rocks off. As the cuck, your insecurities will be played upon, so that you experience feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, humiliation, jealousy, envy, and so on. You’ll therefore need to let your playmates know what triggers you the most.

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If you’re taking on the empowering dominant role, and your long-term partner is the cuck, you’ll probably know exactly what to do, to get under his skin. As you’re fucking a sexy gay escort in his presence, you’ll be able to check out your partner’s facial expression and behaviour. If you’ve set ground rules, it’s up to you to make sure that the cuck sticks to them, by not having a wank while watching you get penetrated by a bigger dick than his.

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Travel is starting to come back after the pandemic and we are so glad, as one of our favourite places to visit is the Capital of the UK – London. Not only does it have the worlds best food, drink and nightlife it also has the best gay escorts. Read below for our gay guide to London!

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London is an incredible place to visit any time of year! London is a tempting destination and is still standing, even after more than two millennia, maintaining its international importance as a commercial and cultural centre. Gay London has also quietly developed a robust and visible LGBT community which is centred around the busy Soho District.

Soho, while once the hub of queer partying and clubbing this London locality has now evolved and bloomed into a gentler, more balanced alternative to the overindulgences of other hardcore gay party areas. Vauxhall Gay Village is now known as the ‘new modern Soho’ and is rapidly developing into the Gay London Hub. The traditional perviness of Soho has also been toned down in recent times with the closing of the Soho Revue bar.

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In the last 20 years, London's gay community has proudly stepped out of back alleys and clandestine barrooms into the mainstream streets, making London one of the world's leading cities to visit for gay travellers. When you visit gay London, we think you should start with a visit the main strip in Old Compton Street.

Gay Vauxhall Village is your next stop preponderantly nocturnal, with prominent sweaty dance clubs, publics house and leather and fetish lairs pumping life into an otherwise unwelcoming region of London. As in any large metropolis, make sure that you are aware of your surroundings and if you are around late at night, we always recommend you take a London Black Cab to see you safely to your lodgings. London also has a great selection of Gay Sauna’s, and if you are looking for a Gay Escort London has the best in the world.

You can’t get any more international than London, over 300 languages are spoken in this huge city and more visitors travel to and through London than any other city in the world. World renowned landmarks like Big Ben, Buckingham Palace, and all the royal in-betweens sites make London a tourist mecca. There are more theatres than New York, and many of the world-class museums – such as the wonderful Tate Modern, the British Museum and the Victoria and Albert Museum and adding to London’s cultural clout all these world class museums are free!!

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OK we do have to talk about the weather in London the winters can be of course generally grey and gloomy, with a touch of fog but come the spring you can bask in more sun and not-so-cold temperatures and from April to October enjoy the summer months with a picnic in one on London’s beautiful parks where the average high is only 73º F. London is wet, but doesn’t receive much heavy rain, so waterproof outer layers should do the trick.

If the weather doesn’t put you off visiting Gay London will be a highlight of your travels as it is Gay Friendly with a huge number of amenities and there is a great, established but ever evolving Gay London scene. There are many Gay Sauna’s, Gay Clubs, and Gay Events around the city and easy access to many Gay Escorts and rent boys. Visit www.sleepyboy.com for the best Gay escorts in London.

As a gay man who enjoys having NSA hook ups with a sexy gay escort, you’ll obviously want to try the best sex positions to get your rocks off. Great sex requires a variety of body position angles, different levels of gymnastic flexibility, and the stamina, strength and ability to be able to hold or change positions.

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If you ask us, the best thing you could do for your gay sex life is to spend time with a gay escort, they will be able to show you all the positions you have ever dreamed of! Here are some of our favourite positions to get you going and some helpful tips to enhance your performance and enjoyment...

Size Matters

Before you decide to experiment with your hottest moves, it’s a good idea to consider your shape and size, and that of your favourite gay escort.

If you’re a tall, average build man and your gay escort is noticeably shorter than you, you’ll have more sex position options, than if you and your lover were height matched but beefier in bodily proportions.

Foreplay

All great gay sex starts with foreplay. This can involve kissing, mutual masturbation and dick licking and sucking. Don’t forget to give the balls plenty of attention too, before moving along to the perineum and ass. Open up the ass cheeks and dive in deep with your tongue. Listen out for those pleasure moans!

Anal Sex

There’s no disputing that anal is the ultimate sex position for most gay men. You’ll be able to take the lead depending on the gay sex position you’ve chosen, and if you’re a top, a bottom or versatile.

• Gay Missionary
  The gay missionary is one of the easiest sex positions. You can penetrate your gay escort (or be penetrated) while maintaining eye contact and communication.
  Start off slow and steady, and gradually build up a comfortable momentum. If you slip out, you’ll easily be able to get back on target.
  Bottom can raise legs in the air or put them over top’s shoulders for deeper thrusting.
• Doggie Style

Doggie style gay sex looks easier than it actually is. It’s all about height and angles, as you’ll need to adjust your ass position to allow for penetration.

If you’re the top, get behind your gay escort, who is down on all fours. Ideally, your dick should directly line up with his asshole. Use pillows to adjust height and avoid potential painful penetration. Bottom can also kneel on a pillow to minimise knee soreness.

Other Great Sex Positions to Try

Feeling horny but lazy? No worries. Try on the side gay sex. Lie of your side with ass cheeks open, so top can slide in while you watch your favourite porn movie.

The best spontaneous position is bending over gay sex. Top holds bottom’s waist and draws his body into him.

Oral Sex

If you prefer oral, the best sex position has to be the 69. If you’re a similar height, lie side-by-side (top to tail) so that you’re facing your gay escort’s crotch. You can also try a push-up position with mouths and dicks lined up.

(Even If You Feel Embarrassed to ask!)

Whether it’s your first time on a hook up with a hot and horny gay escort, or you’ve lost count of the dates you have arranged, if you’re having sex you need to be able to ask your partner for what you really want. Having the confidence to state the facts of your sexual activity preferences can make a big difference to your pleasure level, and to the enjoyment of the experience.

Exploring Fantasies

While there’s absolutely nothing wrong with indulging in straight up gay sex that is oral or anal, when you’re spending time with the gay escort of your dreams why not explore even further?

Don’t be shy about sharing your secret intimate desires and talking about the No.1 fantasy on your gay sex bucket list. An experienced gay escort has heard it all, so there’s no need to feel embarrassed about letting them know that you’ve always wanted to try something kinky, or fetish related.

Experimenting With Role Play

If you’re excited by the prospect of pushing your sexual boundaries, you may be eager to try BDSM with a gay escort. BDSM is all about the balance between pleasure and pain and involves playing dominant (Master) and submissive (Slave) roles.

You’ll need to discuss what you’re willing to try, and what you don’t. And of course, it’s essential that you have mutual consent for adult games that involve bondage and restraint control. Pick a ‘safe’ word to use to immediately stop the action, if you’re in any pain or discomfort, or things get out of hand while exploring eroticism.

Using Sex Toys

If you’re open minded, it may be surprising to discover that not every sexually active gay man is keen to use sex toys with a partner. Some people are simply embarrassed about using a toy to stimulate and arouse, and to bring them to the brink of release. Yet basic sex toys, such as a pair of handcuffs, a blindfold, a paddle, or a flogger provide the perfect props for tantalisingly erotic sensory deprivation sex games.

If you love to use sex toys to intensify the sensual experience, let your favourite gay escort know that the gadgets and accessories are an important part of your foreplay requirements. There’s no need to be apologetic about the fact that you get a rock-hard dick when your ass is gently paddled, or that a butt plug helps you prep for anal sex.

When you are thinking about kinky gay sex, you often can’t think about anything else, perhaps you have had a naughty idea, have seen something kinky on gay porn or have a new gay sex toy you want to play with. If so, choosing a gay escort to have some kinky sexy time with is one of the best things you can do for yourself! But sometimes you don’t know how to ask for what you want!

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Having a sexual kink can cause problems when it comes to sex. If you are a little worried about how someone is going to take your kink, maybe they will think you are a little weird or maybe your kink will turn them off! The often people keep their kinks well-hidden and they only come out, when they are feeling confident or perhaps when a bit of alcohol has been consumed.

Sexual Kinks are Fun

Sexual kinks come in all shapes and sizes, and how people define kink is also different, for some anything other than plain vanilla would be considered a kink – for example asking for a bit of light spanking or using those fluffy handcuffs, for others you have to be a bit more enthusiastic actually having the whips and willing to make a mark, or bondage with proper bondage rope. Kinks can also include the full range of BDSM, lots of different types of role play – anything from Solider Boy to Slaves or golden showers or sensory deprivation. It can also include fetishes such as latex and foot fetishes.

Kinky Fantasies & Partners

Whatever it is that you are into telling someone about your needs, wants, desires and dreams can be daunting as you will worry about how they are going to respond. The good news is that most people have some sort of sexual fantasy so they probably have their own kink they want to try so hopefully you can share stories. Of course, it is not always that simple, what if you love latex and they are allergic, what if you both want to be submissive, or both want to be dominant – that can cause friction in the bedroom. Other kinks like golden showers, while for one man may be a dream, the other may be a nightmare and a no-go area so tread with caution if you are speaking to a partner.

The reverse is true if you are speaking to a Gay Escort – tell them your dreams, tell them your fantasies and they will try and make them reality, do you want to be spanked by a solider, no problem, do you want to try bondage or be dominated by a dungeon master – all you have to do is ask and Gay escorts will accommodate all your needs and desires.

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It is really that simple, find your favourite Gay Escort on www.sleepyboy.com read their profile as they all have a list of kinks, they are happy to accommodate (and most guys like most things) and then drop them a message to tell them what you would like and when you are free to meet. Actually, very simple – if you err on the more extreme side of a kink or fetish then your Gay Escort may want to establish some ground rules or a safe word, so you are both completely happy with what happens in any scenario. You may also want to visit a dungeon with your escort so all the equipment you could possibly want is on hand and ready to go!

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Uniforms do wonders for the sexiness of any man. That tight, military, strained feel to the uniform is such a turn on for so many gay men. We love uniforms so much we thought we would make a list of the ones that we find the sexiest. If you are looking for someone to fulfil your gay uniform fantasy, find a gay escort on www.sleepyboy.com right now to fulfil your fantasy!

Thinking of a hard bulging penis, under the covers of these tight uniforms makes us very excited:

Gay Men in Police Uniform

Forget village people and take a look at the real police uniforms of today. They are smart and functional with a bit if silver bling on the collars and helmets, while they don’t have the grandeur of military uniforms, they do make up for it in practical tools like handcuffs and phallic shaped truncheons. One of the reasons they are such a gay fantasy is imagining that a horny policeman arrests and then has his fun with you before locking you up! This can either be done is a softcore BDSM fun fantasy or more hardcore rough and ready forceful gay sex fantasy. Whatever the reason for finding the boys in blue sexy, police uniforms are easy to find and to wear!

Gay Escorts in Army Uniforms

Army Guys have for a long time been a gay man’s fantasy. Their strong muscled arms and dominating attitude make us want to be him to give us orders. Strong, sexy and in control, army soldiers are the best! They are so sexy because they have been trained to be fit, have stamina which means they can go all night and trained to either follow or give orders in a strong army voice. Whether you love to see gay army men in their relaxed camouflaged combats or in full military dress uniforms, all tight and shiny – these uniformed hotties are always in our dreams.

Leather Bikers & Gay Escorts

While not specifically a prescribed uniform, leather clad bikers a=have a fashion sense all of their own and you can identify them a mile away. Often bearded and with tattoos these bad boys and their bikes have been a sex symbol for many men for years. This is probably due to a combination of sexy bear, lovely leathers and all over gruffness making for a delicious combination of sexy manliness. The combined smell of leathers and bike fuel, cute bandannas and sexy tattoos are the reason these guys and their informal uniforms have stayed a popular gay sex dream.

Sports Uniforms

Sportsmen are some of the most agile, fittest, and horniest men around and the fact that they wear uniforms just makes them more attractive. From football teams to wrestling stars, uniforms identify that they are hot and ready to go in their chosen sport. Whether this love of sports uniforms comes because sportsmen tend to be beautiful body specimens, or because team gangbang fantasies are so common, we will never know but we love them all the same.

Sexy Sailors & Gay Escorts

Now we know we have already mentioned army uniforms, and the love of those can be transferred to any military uniform but there is something just a little bit special about a gay sailor in a sexy uniform. Perhaps they are so hot because the uniforms are often white which shows every curve of their muscled body and every bulge of their hard penis pushing through the smart uniform pants. Or perhaps it is the thought of being trapped on a boat or submarine for weeks on end with horny sailors all around, happy to fuck anything that is available. A horny sailor gangbang, domination fantasy or military lessons can all be part of any sexy sailor uniform fantasy.

When it comes to indulging in your secret fantasies, a gay escort is often the perfect choice. They can ensure you get the best experience possible, in a safe and comfortable environment.

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If you have always wanted to try it, but don’t know where to start, you have the choice of finding a gay escort who is experienced in the art of Shibari so that they can guide you. If you already have a favourite gay escort, you can embark on this special adventure together, which will only enhance the experience and bring you even closer. You can find a gay escort skilled in BDSM or Japanese bondage on the biggest UK gay escort directory www.sleepyboy.com

What is Shibari Bondage

Shibari, also known as Japanese bondage or Kinbaku, is a very sensual experience that involves artistically tied knots and bonds and plays with the submissive/ dominant roles of BDSM. In its simplest form it is a type of bondage, but the bonds of Shibari are only the starting point. In recent years, all forms of bondage have become more popular and more unusual versions like Shibari are coming into the limelight and people are enjoying experimenting with their own limits and vulnerabilities.

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Shibari differs from other types of bondage in that the focus is on the sensations given by the ties themselves. The dominant person ties the bonds in a way that heightens the arousal of the submissive. This doesn’t just mean on erogenous zones, but all over the body. The lack of control heightens the experience as they are completely vulnerable to the other person. This results in them being immersed in the experience and forced to focus on the physical sensations and trust the dominant partner. It is overwhelming and intense and guaranteed to deliver an unforgettable experience and test your sense of control and vulnerability.

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It is important to discuss your expectations and limits before you get started. Shibari will push you to your limits and you need to be open and honest with yourself and each other to get the most out it. If there is anything you are worried about or you know you do not enjoy, tell your escort so that you don’t need to worry about the experience going in that direction. If there is anything you are intrigued by and think you want to try, but aren’t 100% sure about, don’t be shy and be honest about it so they know to approach it in a delicate way.

Shibari may take you out of your comfort zone, but it could well be one of the most eye-opening sexual experiences you ever have. The best advice for experiencing Shibari for the first time is to go in with your mind open and a willingness to experience the unusual. Find a sexy gay escort to explore this with and be open and honest about what you want and what you are worried about. The art of shibari is to be in the moment and fully involved in all the sensations.

When you are thinking about kinky gay sex, you often can’t think about anything else, perhaps you have had a naughty idea, have seen something kinky on gay porn or have a new gay sex toy you want to play with. If so, choosing a gay escort to have some kinky sexy time with is one of the best things you can do for yourself! But sometimes you don’t know how to ask for what you want!

Kinky Gay Escorts

Having a sexual kink can cause problems when it comes to sex. If you are a little worried about how someone is going to take your kink, maybe they will think you are a little weird or maybe your kink will turn them off! The often people keep their kinks well-hidden and they only come out, when they are feeling confident or perhaps when a bit of alcohol has been consumed.

Sexual Kinks are Fun

Sexual kinks come in all shapes and sizes, and how people define kink is also different, for some anything other than plain vanilla would be considered a kink – for example asking for a bit of light spanking or using those fluffy handcuffs, for others you have to be a bit more enthusiastic actually having the whips and willing to make a mark, or bondage with proper bondage rope. Kinks can also include the full range of BDSM, lots of different types of role play – anything from Solider Boy to Slaves or golden showers or sensory deprivation. It can also include fetishes such as latex and foot fetishes.

Kinky Fantasies & Partners

Whatever it is that you are into telling someone about your needs, wants, desires and dreams can be daunting as you will worry about how they are going to respond. The good news is that most people have some sort of sexual fantasy so they probably have their own kink they want to try so hopefully you can share stories. Of course, it is not always that simple, what if you love latex and they are allergic, what if you both want to be submissive, or both want to be dominant – that can cause friction in the bedroom. Other kinks like golden showers, while for one man may be a dream, the other may be a nightmare and a no-go area so tread with caution if you are speaking to a partner.

The reverse is true if you are speaking to a Gay Escort – tell them your dreams, tell them your fantasies and they will try and make them reality, do you want to be spanked by a solider, no problem, do you want to try bondage or be dominated by a dungeon master – all you have to do is ask and Gay escorts will accommodate all your needs and desires.

Kinky Gay Sex & Gay Escorts

It is really that simple, find your favourite Gay Escort on www.sleepyboy.com read their profile as they all have a list of kinks, they are happy to accommodate (and most guys like most things) and then drop them a message to tell them what you would like and when you are free to meet. Actually, very simple – if you err on the more extreme side of a kink or fetish then your Gay Escort may want to establish some ground rules or a safe word, so you are both completely happy with what happens in any scenario. You may also want to visit a dungeon with your escort so all the equipment you could possibly want is on hand and ready to go!

If you’re turned on by the idea of bondage and discipline, domination or submission, BDSM is the kink you need to explore with your favourite gay escort. You can even take your decadent pleasure up a notch, and try sadism and masochism, but sometimes you know what you want but don’t know how to ask for it!

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Fortunately, the gay escorts listed on www.sleepyboy.com are experts in getting to know what you want and then delivering it, in orgasmic style! BDSM should always be performed in a mutually consenting relationship. Consent is of paramount importance because BDSM involves varying degrees restraint and pain.

Talk About Your Fantasies and Desires

When making arrangements for a hook up with a hot and horny gay escort, don’t be shy about bringing up the topic of BDSM, if it’s at the top of your must-try sex list.

Have an honest conversation about your fantasies and desires and talk about your boundaries. It is important to have your gay escort’s views on BDSM, and their consent before you go shopping for gags, whips, and chains.

Have A Safe Word

On the night of the BDSM session, choose a ‘safe’ word, to immediately stop the action, if you’re in pain or things get out of hand. You can also use the ‘traffic light system’ to communicate during the session.

Green means that you are comfortable, and your partner can go for it!
Yellow/Amber means that you are enjoying it, but you need your partner to slow down as you’re close to reaching your discomfort limit.
Red means STOP! On hearing this word, your partner must stop what he’s doing immediately.

Choose Your Role

BDSM is all about pleasure/pain and role-playing. You therefore need to decide who is going to play the dominant (Master) role and who is going to be the submissive (Slave).

If one role really gets you excited, you may not want to swap and interchange roles with your gay escort. Trying both sides of BDSM will however give you a valuable perspective that can enhance your overall enjoyment of kinky sex.

Play With Sex Toys

You don’t have to have a dungeon full of BDSM equipment and accessories to enjoy this type of sex. A variety of good quality sex toys is all that you need to get started.

Use handcuffs and a blindfold for erotic sensory deprivation games. A leather flogger or a wooden paddle is perfect for spanking ass. Try a butt plug, a cock ring or a dildo.

If you both have a great time, on subsequent BDSM sessions with your favourite gay escort you may want to try the Japanese technique of Shibari rope bondage.