Whether you prefer being a top all the time, or just want to switch it up, it can be a bit daunting making sure you are getting it right! Gay sex is amazing whether you are a top or a bottom and because many of us like to switch it up from time to time here are some top tips from the sexy guys at sleepyboy.com on making you a better top!

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Here are some great tips on making giving the best experience to your bottom with top skills from the guys that know:

Relax & Enjoy - Be 100% relaxed and enjoy providing heavenly sensations for your partner. Bottoms sometimes can’t understand why tops choose to miss out on half of the pleasure, but if this is your thing, then fully relax and enjoy! A relaxed top is the key to bringing the best gay experiences.

Take it Slow - Brush up on your anatomy knowledge and be aware of potential issues for your partner. If you’re coupling up with an inexperienced bottom, then the chances are that he won’t be quite as relaxed down there as the more seasoned ones. The anal sphincter muscle is designed to clench tightly, and newbies may find it difficult to release on command. So take it slowly where necessary.

Positive Encouragement - Refrain from using slightly derogatory terms, like ’loose’. No bottom is going to like being referred to like this because of its negative connotations, so rule it out of your lexicon immediately.

Rhythms are Important - Alternate your speed. It’s no good getting in there and crashing down to beat the heck of his anus. Star with a steady rhythm and build up to something faster. And of course, don’t remember to listen to your partner and be reactive where it’s called for.

Confidence is Key - Stay confident and don’t worry about silly things like your penis size. As long as you know what to do with it then pleasure for your bottom is guaranteed.

Rimming is Nice - Use your tongue and breath to create different sensations when giving a rim job. With your tongue, don’t just stick to traditional licking, mix it up a bit by changing your angles, patterns and pressure.

Multiple Techniques - Use different techniques from gentle thrusting to jackhammering (pulling your penis out completely) and pounding which is basically thrusting as hard, deep and fast as you can go.

Keep Checking In - Be considerate to your bottom and pull out every once in a while. Obviously not mid-orgasm, but it’s good top etiquette to pause proceedings occasionally to check that all is well down below for your bottom partner. Keep an eye out for any obvious injuries, especially if there’s blood on your penis.

Add Some Toys - Don’t be afraid to bring toys into the bedroom. Some tops can get slightly worried that their bottom will prefer to use toys than have actual sex, but it gives a extra sensation either during foreplay, during or post-coital play.

Pause for Effect - Take momentary breaks while still staying inside him. The pause can be highly erotic as your body screams at you to carry on and it often prolongs and intensifies orgasms for the top while the bottom gets a brief rest from proceedings.

Every year Valentine's day comes around and you perhaps are wondering how to make this one memorable. Perhaps it is your first time being free and single on valentines, or perhaps the thought of Valentine's Day makes you very, very horny and you want to have the best sex ever. Romance maybe on your mind and you want to be swept off your feet and be wined, dined and then thoroughly fucked by deliciously handsome man.

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Whatever your reasons for looking forward to Valentine's Day – we hear you! And we have some great solutions for having the best Valentine's day you have ever experienced. The answer whether you want amazing sex, a romantic evening or a kinky experience is to tell your favourite gay escort what you are looking for and then let them deliver the best Valentine's day you have ever had.

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Seeing all the loved-up couples around you on Valentine's day can make you feel like you want to be a little loved up yourself, even if you are (for the rest of the year) happiest being free & single. So, if you are gay and single on Valentines day and want someone to share affection with then a gay escort is most certainly the answer for you. A beautiful man who will adore you for who you are for a whole evening, through the night or weekend and will behave just as you want him too – perfection. You can choose your favourite guy from the sexy men on www.sleepyboy.com and then let him know what your perfect Valentine's date night looks like.

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Having great sex throughout the year is of course important but it is highlighted every February 14th and if you needed an excuse to make sure you had one great night of sex, then why not make that night Valentine's day. Gay Escorts can accommodate any sexual desire, from relaxed fucking with cuddles and wine to kinky sex games in leather or latex. Whatever your pleasure is a gay escort will be able to ensure you have the best sex ever this valentine's day.

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Romance is certainly not dead and the best gay sex often comes after a romantic date. Valentine's day is a day for making romance the star of the show, and whatever romance means to you, you will be able to have it all if you book time with a gay escort. Sexy, suave and sophisticated the horny gay escorts on sleepyboy.com are experts in making you feel romanced. Whether that is a romantic night out in a fancy restaurant before enjoying a swanky hotel room or just a hand in hand walk around the park before heading back for some serious kinky gay sex. Many of the gay escorts on sleepyboy.com offer a full boyfriend package and all you have to do is ask to be swept off your feet and they will deliver.

Whatever you are doing for Valentines day, you will do it better with a gay escort by your side.

Whether you’re a ‘top’, a ‘bottom’ or ‘versatile’, if you want to enjoy great anal sex it’s essential that you take your time with the foreplay. An experienced gay escort can certainly teach you a thing or two, when it comes to pleasure that is purely anal.

It’s not always all about priming your hole for penetration, y’know! Putting in a little extra anal foreplay effort will result in experiencing sensual anal pleasure that is intensified and mind-blowing.

Set Your Boundaries

On a hook up with a hot gay escort, from www.sleepyboy.com it’s wise to set your anal boundaries right from the off. Anal exploration doesn’t have to involve penetration if you’re not comfortable going that far. It’s also OK to stop and to take an anal foreplay break, or to completely change your mind.

Prep Your Penetration Place

Having some towels to hand, for wiping up and for resting your sex toys on, ensures that your sheets don’t end up with stains that won’t come out in the wash.

Warming Up

Every gay escort will tell you that you need to take your time warming up the anus if you want to be allowed to go inside. When the anus is fully relaxed penetration is much more pleasurable and enjoyable for the ‘bottom’.

Massaging the lower back and the top of the buttocks can help to relax the anal muscles in prep for fingering. If you like, your gay escort can use his tongue to gently rim your rosebud. Or vice versa.

Always use plenty of warming or cooling lube on your finger, or on the smallest anal specific sex toy.

Time for Gay Sex Toys

With so many great vibrating adult toys on the market to choose from, you’re bound to have a favourite anal foreplay toy. Get your gay escort to rub and stroke all around your anus with a lubed up vibrating prostate massager. The stimulation will result in you feeling an abundance of wild and erotic sensations.

Take A Break

With all that stimulation going on at your backdoor, your anus may suddenly feel the urge to push. If you can’t control this, ask your gay escort to stop while you take a toilet break.

The Hole Doesn’t Have to Be the Goal

While anal penetration can be intensely sexually pleasurable for both parties if you prefer not to have anal sex there is absolutely no reason why you can’t still enjoy the foreplay.

Focus your attention on the butt cheeks instead. Your gay escort will expertly massage away tension in the muscles of your buttocks using a sensually slippery massage oil. And if you suddenly change your mind about admission, he can dive right in.

Of all the pleasures that you can enjoy in life, the sensation of intimate touch is likely to be at the top of anyone’s list. Massage can be relaxing, invigorating, therapeutic, sensual, or erotic, or all of them combined!

A gay escort who is experienced in the art of massage is definitely someone you want to spend quality time with. You can lie back and enjoy a tantalising erotic massage, or give a massage in return. Find the best gay escorts for massage and more on www.sleepyboy.com

Upgrade the Foreplay Techniques

If you want to enjoy a great sex experience with a gay escort, don’t be in a rush to get between the sheets. If you don’t yet have a repertoire of massage techniques that you can use to arouse and stimulate your gay escort, relax and unwind as you put your pleasure in their capable hands.

Gentle massage strokes during foreplay can greatly heighten the anticipation and expectation of sex. If you’re a ‘bottom’ you’ll obviously want to be relaxed before your gay escort takes the action further. Allow him to pour warm aromatic massage oils over your skin, and to melt your tense muscles with his touch.

Experiment with Erotic Massage

Unlike therapeutic massage that generally targets a specific area of the body, erotic massage focuses primarily on pleasure. Your gay escort will glide his hands all over your naked body, with the goal of stimulating your erogenous zones in preparation for full on sexual contact.

Teasing and Pleasing

To ensure that your gay escort experience is unforgettable and mind-blowing, your companion will give you a full-body massage that involves stroking and using other soothing and invigorating massage techniques on the head, neck, shoulders, back, torso, buttocks and legs.

Your gay escort masseur may tantalisingly brush his hands up close to your genitals, in order to watch you squirm with pleasure and delight. If your gay escort is highly experienced in the skill of erotic touch, he may oil up his body and lie on top of you to perform traditional Nuru style body-to-body massage. By now, you can anticipate being in a sexed-up frenzy!

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It’s important to take the teasing and pleasing extra slow so that you’re in a deep state of blissful relaxation. When you’re ready for release, your gay escort can bring out a selection of sex toys that vibrate, to awaken your ultra-sensitive erogenous zones so that you enjoy a happy ending.

There’s absolutely no disputing that having gay sex is fun – when it’s for the right reasons, like sexual exploration, establishing intimacy and trust, and building a romantic relationship. But if you’re having gay sex for the wrong reasons it can eventually feel like a physical experience that is empty and transactional.

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If you’ve continually pursuing gay sex as a means of ignoring emotions, or as an alternative to being social, hooking up with a gay escort instead could be much more pleasurable and beneficial in fulfilling your wants and needs. Find the best gay escorts on www.sleepyboy.com

Rethink Your Quality Time

If you’re a gay guy with a hectic lifestyle, committing to a relationship may not be possible for you. Instead of scrolling through a dating app in search of a random connection, fill the companionship void of your downtime by spending quality time with a gay escort.

Your perfect gay escort puts no demands on your personal time and wants nothing from you. On an appointment with a sexy gay escort, you can have an ego boost and tension release, or just spend time chatting and enjoying each other’s company.

Redirect Your Motives

As a sexually active horny gay guy there may be times when you focus your attention on someone who like, but don’t genuinely fancy. It can be easy to misinterpret what you feel for someone, when you’re not open to being vulnerable and emotionally connected to another person.

Instead of having sex that spoils a friendship, and that you’ll later regret, redirect your motives and hire a gay escort that you find erotically attractive. You can complement him sincerely on his looks and personality, and skills in the bedroom.

Satisfy Your Sex Cravings

If you’re used to using sex as a coping mechanism, or to self-soothe, you may have a craving for sexual contact. Instead of calling up an ex or making a play for a random stranger, just so that you connect sexually, you can easily satisfy your lusty cravings with a hot gay escort.

There’s no need to get emotionally involved or entangled with a guy who misread your NSA signs. A gay escort knows how to play by the rules and had no expectations of you. On in call or out call appointments with the gay escort of your choosing, you can indulge in your sex addiction without any worries.

If straight up gay sex is no longer exciting you, you may be keen to experiment with new sexual partners, and sex that is kinkier. On a hot date with a sexy gay escort you can spice up your vanilla sex life by introducing new moves and techniques that will drive you both wild.

Talk About Your Turn-Ons

To make sure that you’re on the same page, in the sexual experimentation guidebook, you’ll need to discuss your erotic ideas and lustful thoughts with your gay escort companion.

Set the scene by watching porn together and talking about what turns you on. Be open to suggestion, as your gay escort is likely to be more sexually experienced and confident than you. He may be interested in kinky things that you’ve never thought of trying before. Or he may spark some ideas that inspire you to turn a secret fantasy into full-blown reality.

Unless you’re comfortable talking about sex with a gay escort you’re unlikely to improve your sex life just by daydreaming about it Explore Your Kinks

Once you’ve agreed to explore your mutual sexual kinks, you’ll need to try out some hot new moves together. It’s a good idea to take turns in your new sex initiative, to ensure that you and your gay escort are both having fun.

Agree on a safe word that you can use, if you feel uncomfortable while trying out hot new sex techniques and moves, on your date with a gay escort.

Incorporate A Variety Of New Moves

• Take turns to handcuffs or other restraints to compromise the free movement of your partner
• Introduce some light spanking action to elicit pleasurable moans
• Heighten sexual intensity by delaying or denying orgasmic release
• Play out fantasy scenarios during role play games, with or without costumes and props
• Lube up and use a selection of adult toys to maximise arousal and stimulation
• Take turns wearing a blindfold to explore the orgasmic delights of sensory deprivation
• Use your favourite foodstuffs for kinky play – squirty whipped cream, runny honey and chocolate sauce are a few of the most popular sex foods to slather over body parts
• Once you’re comfortable with kinky sex, you can consider recruiting another playmate to join you and your gay escort in a threesome

Last but not least, it’s worth remembering that if you don’t ask, you don’t get!

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Everyone loves gay porn, but if you have ever watched great gay porn and wondered how it could be real, then the porn film is doing its job as, of course its not real – but its great to watch. If you’re a gay guy with a high sex and a passion for watching porn in your downtime, you’ve probably lusted after a hot and steamy encounter with a gay escort that lives up to your viewing expectations.

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Unfortunately, the bad news is that real life sex just isn’t like the sex that you see in porn videos and movies. The good news however, is that sex with gay escorts, in real life, is better than any pay-per-view porn fantasy!

The Truth About Porn Sex

If you love to get aroused watching dick flicks that feature your favourite gay porn star, you may have spent some time daydreaming about what it would be like to have an illicit encounter with the superstar stud.

On the small screen, gay porn sex can involve a variety of hot men who have perfect bodies and cocks that stay rock hard for hours. While the sexual scenarios may be visually stimulating, arousing and entertaining, the truth is that porn is a fantasy that is carefully edited to make you think it’s better than real sex.

Gay porn stars are just normal guys performing in front of the camera. As ‘actors’ they’re turned on by the thought of the money that they will be receiving in exchange for getting their kit, and rocks off, for your viewing pleasure.

And that hot and horny gay porn star who is always up for a threesome, or an orgy, is actually highly likely to prefer intimate one-on-one hook ups in real life.

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When you make an appointment to meet up with a sexy gay escort in real life, you can easily exceed your sexual expectations, provided that you let go of the idea that everything you’ve seen in gay porn movies is a possibility.

Yes, it’s perfectly alright to talk dirty to your gay escort, if it turns you on, but it’s important to always be respectful. Be upfront about what you like and dislike, and what you want to explore.

When you’re getting up close and personal, it’s polite to only use proper lube, instead of the homemade saliva lubricant that porn stars seem to favour.

Keep rough foreplay to a minimum, and steer well clear of the porn movie favourites – going back and forth – and sledgehammering.

Treat your gay escort with respect and your sexual encounter will be better than any porn movie in your collection. You can find the best gay escorts anywhere on www.sleepyboy.com

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Everyone knows that it’s much more fun to be naughty than nice, especially when you’re treating yourself to an appointment with your favourite gay escort. It’s super easy to make a no strings attached hook up extra special at Christmas.

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This year make sure you get what you really want this Christmas and treat yourself to a gay escort, whether you are able to meet them in person, or enjoy phone or cam sex with them. The best gay escorts can be found on www.sleepyboy.com and they love to meet the naughty guys! Let your gay escort know that you qualify for Santa’s naughty list, by flaunting your cheeky and mischievous side at every opportunity.

Send A Kinky Surprise

Before you meet up for an erotic intimate rendezvous, on an in call or out call appointment, send your favourite gay escort a kinky surprise.

A saucy selfie snapped at home or in the gent’s bathroom at your place of work, is the perfect way to let your gay escort know that you can’t wait to see him. You can seductively tease and leave everything up to their imagination, or wickedly tempt him with an eyeful of your privates on full frontal display.

You can also send a cheeky sexy message via text, or use one of the latest naughty apps that you can easily download on iTunes.

Make Foreplay Fun

You don’t have to wait to see each other in person to start the hot and horny foreplay. If you want to exceed your pleasure and gratification expectations, during a hook up with a sexy gay escort at Christmas, you can never have enough foreplay.

Use technology to seduce each other throughout the course of the day, prior to meeting up in the evening. Send a suggestive voice message to your gay escort’s mobile phone, to give him a hint of what he can expect to enjoy later on in person.

If you’re into BDSM or master and slave role play games, it’s fun to incorporate dominant commands into your foreplay exchange via tech. If you’re playing the submissive role, it’s your duty to do whatever your gay escort Master says.

Keep It Playfully Naughty

During your festive date with a gay escort, keep the mood light and upbeat by playing games that can easily lead into intimacy. Have a playful pillow fight to arouse desire for sexual activity.

Tantalise each other with soft and gentle touching, and plenty of tickles. To up the stimulation intensity, try a naughty striptease or an erotic massage with aromatic oils. Let your imagination run wild with naughtiness, as you explore each other’s bodies and fantasies.