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Porn vs. Escorts: A look at the benefits of both and why Gay Escorts are better
When it comes to your innermost desires, two of the best ways to live out these fantasies are by watching porn, or hiring the services of a gay escort. Both of these methods have advantages to them, and both boast beneficial effects which can better our lives, but which one of these options comes out on top?
Porn is a wonderful creation, it has been around since the dawn of time, when man would paint on walls of caves - not only would it educate, it was there to titillate too. Now, thousands of years on, with the wonders of technology at our fingertips, porn and the adult industry has really taken hold, as pretty much any fetish is catered for, and no fantasy is left untouched.
With this range of styles and easy accessibility you will be sure to find something which raises your temperature and gets your blood pumping. Porn can come in many formats, from films, to pictures, to cartoons to stories, all of which are highly erotic and enticing - and affordable, but there are many downsides when it comes to satisfying our adult needs in this manner.
The majority of websites will ensure that you have to join, and while you may get the first month free, thereafter you will need to supply them with your bank details, allowing them to deduct a membership fee each month. The integrity of some of the sites can leave a little to be desired, and giving out highly personal information exposes your identity and important details open to third parties.
The online sites which offer free services can be a very dodgy with regards to viruses - and what is commonly known as “ransomware”. This is something which automatically downloads once you've clicked to play the video or visit the link to your desired feature. Instead of what should have been a relaxing experience, you are now faced with your system software locking down around you - until you pay the company a sum of money via the link provided – ergo, you're held to ransom, hence the name of this malicious piece of software. So while it can be agreed that porn is a great invention which has served the needs of humanity since the dawn of time, it really can cause problems and isn't as straightforward or cost-effective as it first appears to be.
If you so choose to live out your fantasies and needs by hiring the services of a local gay escort, then things are certainly simpler. Firstly, you know what you are getting, and there aren't any nasty surprises. Your personal information is secure, as escorts pride themselves on discretion at all times. You know that you are paying for a quality service, and you should be aware of what services a high-class escort offers. If you are unclear on this, then at the time of booking, all these things can be addressed; being straight up is the best policy, as this will ensure you an even better experience than you would probably anticipate.
Hiring the services of gay escorts goes a lot further than letting a scene unfold in your head, of course, as you are experiencing them physically, one to one - or more if you so desire. Nothing beats the touch of another human being; it's something we all naturally crave, so to put it as basically as possible, the attention of a gay escort wins every time over porn - or anything else for that matter.
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Is it weird to watch porn with your gay escort?
The short answer is no - of course not! If watching porn really get you off, then watching it with your escort is a great idea!
Hot gay escorts can provide many services, and some even specialise in certain areas, allowing you to indulge in sexy pleasures performed by highly skilled professionals. SleepyBoy.com has the biggest and best list of escorts in the UK so you will be assured to find your perfect match in gay escort form. Once you have, then booking them becomes a necessity, so you can finally treat yourself to the sexual experience you have been looking forward to, either as a one off or as a regular!
How you choose to unwind in the company of your escort is a confidential matter shared between you both, but a very popular way to unwind and break the ice is to watch porn together. Not only does viewing a raunchy movie set both of your pulses racing, it is a good aid to communication, and inspiration - you may see something you would like to try out with your gay escort.
There is certainly nothing weird about watching adult material together, the adult sex industry is huge, and it can open many doors regarding creating a fulfilling and satisfying sex life. It can lead to experimentation, and consideration of acts or fetishes you may not have contemplated before.
There is nothing hotter than dirty talk - so if you find something a particular turn-on within the movie then let your gay escort know, as this can lead to your own raunchy scenario unfolding. You may just be lucky enough to hire the services of a porn star gay escort - escorts that have worked, or still do work, within the industry themselves. These gay escorts can not only supply you with the service you'd expect from a porn star, but they may even let you discover some of the trade secrets for yourself...
Watching porn together lets you break the ice with your escort and it is also an easy way to let your escort know what you would like. Having your favourite sex scene on, and telling your gay escort ‘like that’ when your favourite part comes on is sometimes easier than explaining in words what you want. Let him then reproduce what you have asked for while you just enjoy the experience.
If you let your gay escort know at the time of booking that you'd like to chill out together and unwind over a little bit of porn, then you may even be able to get some tips and suggestions concerning just what to watch. Your gay escort can suggest some of the best gay porn films or streaming sites for you to watch together.
If you book the same escort on a regular basis then watching porn together can help you can discover what want and what you may want to experience in the future. This can allow you to fantasise and allowing you to look forward to enacting sex you have watched together the next time you meet!
The Top Gay Male Sex Scenes in the Movies!
We all love to relax over a good film, and what could be better than to relax whilst watching a film that has a good realistic man-on-man gay scene? Long gone are the times when scriptwriters and directors would pussy-foot around, we have now entered a cinematic world where gay sex and romance are showcased, and thank goodness that Hollywood has finally cottoned on that we all do love a little bit of raunch!
So here, we take an overview of some of the very best gay male sex scenes that films have to offer:.
Let's take a trip back at the nineteen-eighties with Querelle (1986); this adaptation of the Jean Genet novel takes a murder mystery and combines it with many fetishes, to bring an incredibly erotic film noir to your screens. As the stories unfold, so does the sexuality, and caresses that will stay in your mind for years to come.
David's Birthday (2009): An Italian melodrama wherein a straight man falls in love with his friend's handsome son. There are two hot and steamy scenes - one where the wife of David (the main character) walks in on him and his male lover, and his lover can't stop thrusting whilst David pleads for her forgiveness. This certainly hosts some hot scenes between them both.
Pornography (2009): This movie is a tad strange, and may not be to everyone's taste, but if you like your sex scenes slightly creepy, and to touch upon various fetish sub-genres - Gay sex in hell, for one - this could be for you. But regardless of what the plot may be, it does play host to the racy gay porn underworld.
Bear City (2010): This movie is, in parts, rather touching; it's the story of a man (bear) and his younger lover, who simply cannot get enough of his heftier, hairier companion.... A total feel good film, with a good quota of realism when it comes to sex and romance.
Eyes Wide Open (2009): The story of two Orthodox Jews who fall in love and embrace their forbidden love while in Israel... at times it can be a little slow going, but the love scenes are intense and intriguing.
Strapped (2010): A realistic film simply about gay sex, yet the scenes tease; they are very tasteful - incredibly sexy but not sleazy. Certainly worth a watch to warm you up whilst relaxing.
From Beginning to End (2009): This story is a little taboo, perhaps, as it's about two brothers who fall in love... This Brazilian film brings romance and drama to your screen, some of the love scenes are highly charged and passionate; it certainly won't disappoint if you desire something slightly challenging and provocative.
For the ultimate in gay sex scenes, however, it must be Brokeback Mountain (2005); This seminal film highlights a love affair between two men - it showcases passion, desire, and ultimately love, which is so overwhelmingly realistic that we become helpless to its powers; it's steamy, sweaty, and most of all, just darn beautiful. A movie which can be watched time and again.
Are Gay Escorts Better Than Porn? Erm... Yeah!!
Watching porn can be a little like the "Chicken and the Egg" conundrum: Which came first? Do our fantasies shape the porn we watch or does porn shape our fantasies?
The truth of the matter is, it is probably a little bit of both, there probably are not many guys who can say that they haven't fantasised about a scenario that they have previously watched in a pron flick beforehand.
The best thing about using a gay escort directory site like sleepyboy.com is that you don't need to keep these thoughts as merely fantasies. If you do so choose to turn these fantasies into reality, then there is no better way to do so and live them out than in the expert company of a gay escort.
Gay escorts are hot, sexy, friendly and above all professionals who take the utmost pride and enjoyment in what they do, so you are assured of incredibly high level of service that will never disappoint. Not only are you guaranteed a good time - one which you won't forget in a hurry - you can use the search function on the sleepyboy site to find an escort to accommodate your fantasy. If your fantasy is a little outside of the 'norm' then you can message the escort to check that he is able to fulfil your needs.
Rent Boys take great care of themselves, allowing you to find them hung and ripped, slim and chic, hairy or smooth - you can view their profiles on the site along with lots of images of them so you will always be delighted by your gay escort's visual appearance and highly honed skills. Once you have discussed what fantasy you want to act out you'll be well on the way to creating a scene that wouldn't look out of place in one of your favourite porn clips.
One of the best aspects of hiring gay escorts is that you can be totally honest with what you want, and rest assured your escort will have heard it all before. Always be clear at the time of booking with regards to what you want from your escort, or what you may want to do, to avoid any disappointment or confusion.
There is never any need to play it coy with a gay escort – they're fully cognizant as to what guys want and need, and know how to deliver, so you'll be in very good hands - and guaranteed the time of your life. So when you're feeling a little hot under the collar, don't reach for the same old porn channel, there's so much more to life than satisfying our fantasies with the make-believe world of adult entertainment. Invest in your fantasies with a high class gay escort and you'll be investing in a greater sense of personal satisfaction, and boosting both your physical and mental well-being.
Gay Porn is great, Gay Escorts are better, being able to indulge in your fantasies is a very freeing, sensual and exciting experience that you will enjoy. The benefit of doing it with an escort rather than a 'random' is that they are there to make you happy with no reciprocation required!
So the next time you sit back and reach for the television remote, or head online to search through your favourite porn sites, why not take a look at the local gay escorts which are available in your area instead? You could experience a real-life porn scene straight from the movies; let your senses run wild, not only will your encounter be visually stimulating, you'll get to ignite all your senses at once, creating an unforgettable sexual experience.
More Fun With More Guys!
When it comes down to sex, there is a lot to be said for adding more guys to the party and there is no better way for experiencing threesomes - or moresomes - than hiring the expertise of male Gay Escorts.
It's never advisable to enter into these things with the guy you have a crush on, or someone who has a crush on you, and I'm sure we all know the couple who are happy adding the third party into their bedroom, which may make for entertaining stories at your local gay bar, but that is where it should stay. The rule of thumb is this: when you start playing with friends in this manner, it will open the door to unwanted drama, and the idea of experiencing two - or more - men at the same time should not lead to such frustrations. So stay away from temptation, and seek out others who desire uncomplicated drama free gay sex.
The question then becomes how do you find two or more guys that you don’t know very well, that you find attractive, and that want the same experience you want? Difficult we know! it is very easy to fall into the position of being the only bottom, or the only top, in this situation, and of course, the reality of being pushed out of the scenario altogether has to be taken into consideration; which of course is fine if you only did want to just watch. This is why, when it comes down to a threesome, or moresome, finding people with expertise in these areas will ensure you enjoy an overall more satisfying experience, guaranteeing you the most fun, with some of the hottest men.
Gay male escorts are the answer! They can provide in - or outcall services, but something such as a threesome or moresome makes for a special occasion, so hiring a hotel room for the evening might be the best course of action. Don't forget, by hiring the services of gay male escorts for your multi man fantasy - you can pick the guys that really light your spark and get you going. You are the one in control of arranging what is probably one of your greatest fantasies, as well as ordaining how the evening will pan out, so you don't want to risk becoming the spare wheel at the party.
You can also hire the services of gay male escorts to accompany you to the sex clubs of your choice, where you will get to meet like-minded guys wanting to explore two partners, or more. Don't rule out swinger's clubs, either; even though there will be women there, you may get to meet the straight man who wants to be rubbed up by you and your hot companions, which will always provide a great talking point afterwards.
Professional and elite gay male escorts will ensure that you experience the very most from your threesome, or moresome, as they can guarantee you the night of depravity and decadence that you so richly deserve.
Find the guys you want to play with at ww.sleepyboy.com. You can search for those escorts who are happy to do threesomes or more, to save you time they may also have another escort they are happy to do duos with already – whatever your into – just ask!
Top, Bottom or Versatile?
Let's delve deeper into the subject of anal sex!
Your favoured position may not be as clear-cut a subject as some may believe. We've all heard of bottom-shaming, which infers that preference for the position is to be regarded as a weakness – a foolish supposition, as research has ascertained that the majority of gay men do prefer to be the bottom within a relationship. But don't presume if you meet a bottom that they are the submissive partner within the relationship, compared to the tops dominance, as within the majority of gay relationships this simply isn't the case.
Being a top or bottom depends on your preference with regards to either giving or receiving penetration during anal sex, and what you enjoy the most. Many men like to keep an open mind concerning this, as sex may soon get boring if you fall into predictable roles. Although of course, some guys will assume natural duties in the bedroom as they learn what they both will derive the most pleasure from.
Even if you haven't had anal sex, you may like to fantasise about a ripped, toned guy taking you, or about you yourself furnishing pleasure to a guy beneath you, your fantasies can really shed some light on your pleasure preferences, and lead the way to discovering what you enjoy when it comes to playing with another guy.
Some guys like to season their play with versatility - they relish being both a bottom and a top, and enter with no predetermined role; this is a good attitude to have, as it is always best to keep cool, and maintain an open mind, as then you will be sure to experience some pretty amazing sex. Go with what your body says, not your head; sex with zero anxiety attached is always the best, and there is no better way than to experience sex without the hang-ups than to experiment with a guy who knows exactly what they're doing, as they have the experience needed to put your mind and body at ease.
To this end, it could be worth hiring the services of male gay escort. There are many benefits to hiring a hot gay escort, as you can be open and honest about what you desire, and expect, from your time with them, without the fear of being judged. Gay Escorts will have heard and seen it all before, so you really can let your imagination run wild, and arrange to experience some of your deepest fantasies. Of course if you are feeling curious, or hesitant, about anal sex, then the services of a gay escort are a great way to take things slow, and genuinely explore your sexual boundaries, and limitations, in a very safe way.
So whether you see yourself as a bottom, top or being adaptable, the most important aspect to any sexual encounter, and relationship, is for all concerned to be comfortable with the role that they play within the bedroom; because if you are, then you will be sure to experience some of the greatest, most intense orgasms and sensations that anal sex can offer. To find your perfect rent boy in London, Manchester or across the UK visit www.sleepyboy.com and find him online now.
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Getting The Most From A Gay Sauna Experience:
There are Gay Saunas located across the UK, with like most things more saunas being located in big urban areas, so there are lots in London, lots in Manchester and then one or two in or around most major cities across the UK. If you are new to the practice of visiting a gay sauna, then you might be slightly hesitant – when it comes to getting the most from your experience, what to do, what to say, how to get what you want, or what is often called Gay Sauna "etiquette".
This is just a quick blog to remove any apprehension of going to a sauna they are often really great places to explore, especially if you take a Gay Escort with you!
Essentially a Gay Sauna is very much like a spa, just with added groping by strangers! They often offer a calm and friendly lounge area, where you can sit back and relax, this area is a great place to just hang around if you are not yet brave enough to make your way into the sauna proper. The lounge is a great way to chatting to fellow sauna goers which can make your sauna experience slightly more personal. There will be a selection of hot tubs and Jacuzzis, as well as steam rooms, saunas and solaria. Some saunas offer dark rooms, play rooms or other specialist areas – to go in, or not, is always entirely your choice. As is everything that happens in a sauna, if at any point you are not comfortable or want to stop – then stop.
As soon as you decide to leave the lounge are and enter the sauna rooms your first stop is the changing rooms. You will find that the majority of people are happy to visit the sauna naked, but this isn't essential, if being partly covered with some trunks makes you comfortable, then that is perfectly acceptable. Overall the saunas are very dark, this is all part of the sauna experience - you are more likely to feel your sauna companions than see them. Being prepared, and how you fasten your towel, can make or break being felt up; a popular choice when wearing a towel is to fold it in half length-ways, and then around your hips, making it shorter. Wearing it low upon your hips makes for a far sexier look than just throwing the towel around yourself.
If you are finding the saunas a little too dark, then heading to one of the hot tubs may suit you better. Seat yourself next to someone you like the look of, and be prepared to get attention everywhere! If someone which you don't like starts to touch you, just knock away their hand. This also goes the other way; if someone knocks your hand back, then make sure you are respectful of their wishes, and do not take it personally. Also, bubbles hide a multitude of sins, so hot tubs are a great way to just sit back and enjoy your sauna experience. Now, if you are lucky enough to find someone you do want to take things further with, then most saunas do offer private rooms. These rooms are not the Ritz! You will pretty much get just enough room to rub yourself up on your new friend. Above all, go in with an open mind, play safe, and relax, to ensure a great gay sauna experience.
Gay saunas on the whole are a good experience, there is however etiquette to observe and if you are getting attention from someone you would rather not it can be a little awkward to extricate yourself from the situation. Similarly you may feel an obligation to ‘return any favours’ you may receive in a sauna. For a completely satisfying Gay Sauna experience take one of the Gay Escorts from sleepyboy.com with you, they can show you exactly what to do and give you exactly what you want. See who is available now at www.sleepyboy.com
A Gay Guide to Swansea
Swansea, often overshadowed by its bigger, brassier neighbour, Cardiff, is a small jewel of a holiday destination which has a number of pleasures for the gay visitor.
In fact, Swansea University recently won a stunning accolade - being named as one of the most LGB friendly universities in the UK. The claim is made in the Stonewall University Guide, 2015, a highly researched and reliable guide to places where LGBT individuals will find a welcome. In fact, Swansea have scored 9/10 meaning they are in the top three of Welsh universities and top 20 nationwide.
Swansea - people and places
Swansea really is a small place, around 170,000 inhabitants, some of them students, so you start to feel at home very quickly. It's also quietly, but justifiably, proud of its famous sons and daughters who include:
Catherine Zeta Jones
Gay icon - need we say more?
Poet, drinker, roisterer, the man who wrote 'Do not go gentle into that good night...' and a Swansea boy through and through. You can visit a number of key Swansea locations in Dylan Thomas's life, including his family home and the Grammar School he attended.
Russell T Davies
From 'Queer as Folk' to Dr Who, this Swansea-born writer is not just a driver of popular culture but he's quietly and comprehensively changed the way LGB characters are represented in the UK - Torchwood, for example, deals extensively with bisexuality and relationships in a way that just hadn't been seen before Captain Jack Harkness hit our screens.
OMG Swansea has recently moved its LGBT fun franchise into Swansea, showing that the gay community is really making its mark on the market, whilst The Kings Arms is exceptionally gay friendly and Liberty's has its own LGBT following.
Swansea Gay Escorts
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So, Swansea and camping … what's the deal? It's simple - the Gower peninsula, one of the most beautiful coastlines in the world - is just a short drive from Swansea. Now camp and camping might not be your idea of fun, but there really is a campsite for everyone. We particularly favour the Three Cliffs Bay Campsite, which is as wild as you can imagine, you can pretty well only trek in on foot, through forests, fording streams and over sand dunes, passing craggy castles and spotting all kinds of wildlife. But once you are arrive, the ruggedness stops - you don't even have to camp; it's possible to rent a little shepherd's hut or a cottage to stay in, and there are opportunities to wine and dine on sight.
Gay Outdoor Club - West Wales (Swansea)
If you're the outdoor type, then the Gay Outdoor Club (GOC) West Wales branch might be a great place to contact before your Swansea break. They offer country walks for the LGBT community of around 6-8 miles, through some of the most stunning scenery of Wales, plus regular shorter walks and cycle rides as well as social events and they are always glad to welcome visitors.
We hope this little guide helps you make the most of your time in this very popular Welsh City.
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A Gay Guide to Leeds
In a 2007 survey, Leeds was named as the fourth most gay friendly city in the UK - a fact which might surprise you! So what makes Leeds such a great gay venue?
The Leeds LGBT Pride has been running since 2006 and has more than 32,000 people attending last year and it grows dramatically year on year. It's a held on the first weekend of August so in 2016 it will be 6 & 7 August.
The event usually begins on the Saturday morning in Millennium Square with a live music performance, lots of speeches and some LGBT market stalls, then at 3pm the Pride Parade sets off, trailing through Lower Briggate and The Calls, where the main 'gay village' is to be found. The day ends with a huge street party and funfair with many people managing to party from the afternoon through to the early hours of the morning.
The Leeds Gay Village - GayLeeds
Leeds has a great gay village - the word most often applied in such situations in vibrant but that's hardly a fair description - GayLeeds is exciting, in-your-face and very friendly. Based around The Calls, near the River Aire, and Lower Brigitte it was formerly an industrial area and like most gay villages it has created a high degree of urban regeneration with lots of upmarket offices, bijoux flats and restaurants/bars/clubs.
Whilst it's not the biggest gay village in the UK, it is really lively gaybourhood and offers everything you could need for a great weekend or even a week.
Gay Leeds Tourism
Lees is barely recognised as a great cultural centre, but for those with an interest in the UK's industrial heritage there are a lot of exciting and well-restored factories, steam engines etc to have a look at.
- For those who don't have a background in the industrial revolution, there are still some great tourist attractions. First off, the Grand Theatre, right at the heart of Leeds. Designed by James Robinson Watson, it opened in November 1878. It's fair to say it's a bit of a mish-mash, architecturally, but it's a really great mishmash! The outside of the building blends Romanesque and Scottish baronial styles - (think Gladiator in tartan) while the interior is pure Gothic. It holds around 1,500 people and hosts world class performances by Opera North amongst others. It's a definite 'don't miss' venue and if you're lucky enough to be in Leeds when there's a great show on, you'll find the crowd as entertaining as the acts.
- Roundhay Park its one of the biggest city parks in the UK at nearly 3 km2 and it offers a range of environments from parkland to lakes, formal gardens and woods. There are a collection of glasshouses that host one of the largest collection of tropical plants in the UK. Roundly Park also houses Tropical World, where visitors can walk through a rainforest and explore the world of tropical wildlife at night, finishing off with a desert trek.
Gay Leeds Nightlife
Queen's Gate claims to be the only 100% gay bar in Leeds - it's quite difficult to see how that statistic can be proved, but it's definitely extremely gay friendly. Very young and cool in profile, Queen's Gate is open late most nights and on one Saturday a month it's open doors until 6am for the party-hardy crowd.
The New Penny, situated at the end of Call Lane, claims to be the UK's longest running gay venue. Back in 1953 it was called the Hope and Anchor and was a highly secretive club for those in the know, but today it's a proud gay pub with a forward looking attitude as well as a long history of gay activity.
An overview of the best Anal Sex Techniques
Anal sex is a subject which can cause many gay men anxiety, and this really doesn't have to be the case. Sometimes anal sex can be seen as a taboo and many people lack knowledge about it, which can lead some to believe it will be unpleasant. However, this isn't the case, and the more you know about anal sex, the higher quality anal sex you will experience.
Difficulties can arise if the opening to the rectum is too tense, thereby initially becoming difficult for penile penetration, but once the penis is in, the rectum will expand and it can then enlarge enough to accommodate your partner with ease. There is a lot of pleasure to be found from having anal sex, as the anus has many nerve endings, and upon penetration, the penis will stimulate the prostate gland, which can lead to fantastically intense orgasms.
Anal sex is not only physically stimulating but psychologically invigorating too; as it is something incredibly intimate and erotic, and there also is a certain degree of trust surrendered to the giver.
Get to know your body, become comfortable, and experiment with different kinds of stimulation. Taking things slow and gentle is the best way to get started, as it will relax your internal sphincter. Experimenting with sex-toys, dildos and anal beads as these are a great way to discover what you enjoy and learn distinct methods of reducing possible pain, as pressure and friction can be caused. You can reduce pain by making sure that you use enough lubricant; each person is different and will react to anal penetration differently, so using a good lube can be vital when pushing forward with the pleasures of anal sex. You can never have enough lube! Practicing relaxation techniques, and deep breathing, can help with penile insertion. Communicate openly with your partner, and if things become uncomfortable, stop.
It may seem a little obvious but it is important to think about anal hygiene. Good hygiene standards will make for a much better experience, and as well as looking after your own health, will prevent any embarrassing incidents with your gay escort.
Different positions can also help with comfort; but once again this is all down to the individual, as the size of erection and degree of curvature to the penis can come into play. Many men find it easier when their knees are bent in towards their chest; whether you are kneeling or lying on a bed, this position tends to be a good one to start with, as the anal canal is elongated. Always remember: try to relax; so many irrational thoughts can run through your head when experiencing anal sex, but there is really no need for such worry.
One sensation that can confuse guys is the feeling that they need to go to the toilet - this is perfectly natural; if your bowels were empty before embarking on your anal sex adventure, then there is no need for concern. As the penis penetrates, your rectum feels full, and therefore tells your brain that you need the toilet; this isn't the case, your anal passage at this time, is filled with one thing only!
Take your time, learn to relax, be comfortable and open regarding the feel of pressure on your anus, and you will soon learn how to have amazing, pain-free anal sex every time.
Is rimming clean? And other anal sex questions you may too embarrassed to ask...
Anal oral play may not quite be to everyone's taste, as it can come with a certain level of "ick" factor for some people, gay or straight; but this really doesn't have to be the case, as analingus, or "rimming" can provide a multitude of pleasurable sensations. As your anus is filled with nerve endings, when it’s tickled with a tongue it can result in heightened sensations; feelings that are deeply sensual. Like any other sex act, there are some precautions required, but all-in-all, there is a lot to be said for this sexual act, when it's performed correctly and safely by a pro.
Your first step is to make sure that you're clean; go to the bathroom, and have a shower using warm, soapy water, and clean all around your anus; you can employ the service of a douche if you like, an accessory which squirts a stream of warm water into the anal canal, if you get really hung up on the cleanliness factor; when you feel the natural urge to expel the water, the douche will rinse any remaining faecal matter from the colon. Don't get overly vigorous with regards to the anal cleaning, as you can easily damage or tear the tissue of the anus, as the skin is so thin. If you can't get past the "ick" factor when performing this routine, then you can use something called a Dental Dam, which is a specially designed appliance which acts like a condom, because it causes a barrier between the anus and the mouth. Personal grooming can help to keep things clean, and reduces the risk of anything embarrassing clinging on to where it shouldn't.
Rimming and anal play can be anything you desire; it can be stroking, caressing, pressing, or licking; the tongue can penetrate the rectal opening, or not. Experiment with various positions; some may well make you feel too open and vulnerable, but don't be hesitant to spread the buttocks. This is all part of the inherent enjoyment, as you're making room for your tongue.
When it comes down to any kind of anal play; whether this is foreplay leading towards anal sex or the main act in and of itself, we all have the same concerns, and with the correct preparation, there is really nothing to worry about. There are no more intrinsic dangers connected with rimming than there is with any other kind of sexual act concerning the transmission of STDs. If you have a suspicion that you might soon be lucky enough to experience anal play, then some common sense can come into play too. It sounds funny, but it's better to avoid any foods that will naturally make your body produce more gas; doing this will reduce some of the anxieties that people get caught up with when the words rimming and anal play come into the conversation. Rimming and anal play is a sensory experience that many people enjoy; it certainly need not be a taboo, as it can be practiced both safely and hygienically, and give you many hours of hot pleasure.
Gay Escorts, Bi-Sexual Escorts & Transgender Escorts in London, Manchester, Leeds, Birmingham & The whole of the UK
A major change has taken place in the last five years, where you can see an increasingly obvious decline of the gay escort in London and the gay escort in the UK. The reason for the decline of the male escort on the streets is the increase of the internets popularity. There are many reasons the gay escort in the UK has moved business online. A bi escort in London can feel more secure and can find far more clients online amongst many other reasons.
With the popularity of the gay escort in the UK and the openness of the gay community, there are many homophobic gangs which harass popular spots where one can find a gay escort in the UK. The same is said for the bi escort in London. Though the bi escort in London isnt gay and doesnt focus only on males, they are often harassed by anyone that disproves of their acts. The internet offers a safer place where both a bi escort in London as well as a gay escort in London can do business without the worry of being harassed or tormented based on their sexual preference.
Also, the bi escort in London can find a lot more business by posting an ad online rather than standing on the street where they once were. The bi escort in London also has a place in many of these online websites. The online world offers many customers that may have been uncomfortable or unable to approach a gay escort in London to do it in a more discreet and secure way. Instead of asking inappropriate questions, especially for first timers, a client can look at what the bi escort in London offers and then contact them for service. When approaching a gay escort in the UK usually happens in a quick manner and the client cannot fully look at them or communicate with them, and the internet provides the client with as much information and images as the client may feel they need.
A male escort can work online in several ways. The most popular is finding a gay escort in London website which offers ads which can be posted. The male escort then creates an ad with pictures, personal information, measurements, services they offer, and prices. This makes the shopping and searching much easier. Once the connection has been made and the male escort and client are in contact they can determine the place and time to meet. From there they male escort gets their payment and its 100% for them. A gay escort in the UK can find ads online anywhere from the very inexpensive to extremely pricey, depending on the traffic in the website.
The other way that a male escort can find work online is through an agent. Very rarely does a gay escort in London actually have a "pimp" as they tend to work alone or with an agency. The agency is a great way for a gay escort in the UK to find business and to keep it consistent. The way it works with an agency is that the client looks through the different pictures and chooses a male escort. Then based on the location, services, image, and personal preferences they choose a gay escort in London. Once they find what they need, they contact the agency and set a time of meeting and location. When the male escort finishes their work and takes the money, they give a percent to the agency and keep the difference and any tips. The percent is determined based on the popularity of the agency.
Thought you can still find a gay escort in London on the streets, there are far less today than there were 5 years ago. The internet has taken over and is controlling the male escort market. Whether through an agent or working on their own, the male escort can do business in a safer and more secure manner online.