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Christmas is a time of giving, and we should not forget to gift to ourselves. The end of the year is a great time for some self-care, some self-love, and some great gay sex. Here are some picks of what to buy for your bedroom this Christmas:

Gay Sex Toys

When you think of Christmas your mind automatically goes to toys – and for those of us who love gay sex, that means taking a look at the new sex toys available. Whether you are starting out on a whole new genre of toys, like electro-stim, or just want to get a bigger, better dildo to use when you are solo in bed, Christmas is a great time to toss out what you don’t want and refresh with a few (vibrating) gifts to enjoy yourself.

A New Lube

Anal sex is one, or probably the one, great pleasure in life so why are you still using some horrible lube from the supermarket. Go upmarket with your lube this Christmas and you won’t regret it. Do a bit of research and choose a lube that works well for the type of sex that you have. Ensure you have lots of it along with tissues in the bedside table and your next partner will thank you for the smooth entry!

Gorgeous Sheets

We mostly have sex in bed, so one of the best gifts you can give yourself this year is some incredible linens. Buy as expensive as you can afford, and you will never go back. There is a huge amount to choose from, from independent makers to high street retailers you will find sumptuous sheets so you can sink into them and imagine how much better gay sex is now you have them!

Christmas Themed Boxers

How do you feel about Christmas styles boxer shorts? Some love how cute they are and some really can’t stand it – so beware, before you buy some Rudolph underpants check that whoever is going to see them is a fan! Of course, it is just for a few weeks of the year so if you like them, get them and wear them proudly wherever you go!

Gay Escort Christmas Pleasure

The best gift you can get for Christmas is a sexy gay escort willing to pleasure you just how you like it, again and again and again. The festive period is hectic but don’t forget to spend a little time on yourself and having an incredibly sensual experience with a gay escort sounds like the perfect gift to us! Choose from gay escorts who provide sensual massages, or those who provide a boyfriend experience so you can enjoy the festivities with a hot date on your arm, or those who are masters at domination so you can indulge in your dream BDSM session this Christmas.

Whatever you are doing this Christmas remember that great gay sex is the best gift you can give yourself and all your need to do is pick up the phone and call!

There are some great gay kinks and fetishes out there, and the sexy gay escorts on www.sleepyboy.com have probably seen them all. One of the more unusual, but still fun, fetishes is one called Forniphillia. You may have never heard of this fetish and if you had you probably didn’t know that it had such a strange name. So, what is Forniphillia?

Forniphillia & Gay Sex

Do you like furniture? No, we mean, do you really like furniture? This is the basis of fornophillia, in essence is the desire to be human furniture! Do you want to be a table where someone can eat their dinner from you back, do you want to be a footstool or a lampshade? This is actually more common that you first might think and is defiantly on the BDSM and domination side of sexual fetishes.

Commonly known as human furniture fetish it can be done with or without bondage ropes, or other restraints and with or without other accessories to make your furniture usable or practical. So, to be a footstool for your gay escort takes no equipment you can simply curl up at his sexy feet and wait while he adorns you with his feet. Or it can be more elaborate, binding you for example and then putting candles in your hands to make you a source of light while your gay escort plays with himself and watches you. You are then required to be that piece of furniture until you are released! Many people love to be dominated in this way as they enjoy the submission aspect, and the fact they are useful!

Submissive Furniture with a Gay Escort

If you love being dominated in this way, then ensure you let your gay escort know what furniture you would most like to be objectified as and then if you have any special requests when you are in that form. This can link in with so many other fetishes, they can be a table waiting to be spanked, they can pretend to be a toilet and get involved with watersports, they can be a coat hook using different toys or anything their imagination desires. A gay escort is there to make your gay sexual fantasies come true and will be able to be imaginative and work with you to create your perfect human furniture experience.

Safety First

Discuss anything your gay escort will need to know about you before you start and having a safe word is a great idea, so you know you can stop, or take a break at any time. This will give you the confidence to really get into your human furniture as you know you can take back control if you want to while giving yourself completely to the hands of your favourite, sexy gay escort.

You can find the best gay escorts on www.sleepyboy.com, experienced and willing to make your kink or fetish become a reality there are horny gay escorts all over the country just waiting to hear from you.

Do you like someone to really put a bit of pressure on how much your cock and balls really can take? If that sounds like you then you need a gay escort skilled in BDSM to make your CBT session the most amazing kinky BDSM experience you have ever had.

What is CBT

Basically, cock and ball torture is, just want is sounds like, inflicting pressure pain from all sorts of different implements and methods onto the penis or the balls or both, for the sexual pleasure of the one who is receiving it. CBT is a well know and well loved BDSM practice that lots of men love to have done to them. Many describing the horniness and release when the organs comes from this type of sex.

There are many different and innovative ways your gay escort can decide to inflict pain and play with your cock and balls. This can include: Wax play, spanking, pinching, clamping, slapping, squeezing and for those with the equipment electro-stim. As with most types of BDSM the severity can go from light tickling through to sever flogging and how much torture you want to receive will be discussed with your gay escort before you start. The establishment of a safe word is also a good idea so you are able to take a break or stop if the torture is just on the wrong side of the pleasure/pain barrier for you.

Submissive Male

Being submissive to a master who is applying torture is one of the best things about BDSM. The gay escorts who offer domination services are incredible at taking you to exactly the place you want to go and as hard as you want to play while still being skilful and sexy in the way the deliver their punishments. Many men like to be in a dungeon or similar environment if they are having a detailed submissive session as this lets them come into the character of the sub quickly and easily.

New to CBT

If you are a newbie to cock and ball torture then the best advice is to take it slow and build up your resistance to the domination, it can be tempting to want it all as hard and as fast as possible but fantasy and reality are different and a great gay escort who is an expert in domination will take it slow to start with to test your limits and then try and push you over them before you cum as may times as he can make you in the time you have together.

Gay Escorts & CBT

Communication with your gay escort is key to getting this right and becoming a regular client so you can work on what you like and how much pain you can take can be established over time. This is an incredibly rewarding way to express your sensuality and sexuality and will take your kinky dreams to ultimate reality in a short space of time.

Fantasy sex does not have to stay a fantasy, it can be brought to life for the most amazing few hours of your life. Watching gay gang bang porn is a delight for many men and they wish they could be the one being dominated by multiple hard and horny men. This can become a reality in a safe and sexy way, exactly the way you want it to play out with the help of a few great gay escorts.

Gay Sex Gang Bang

Hot Gay Sex with other men, giving, receiving and having endless opportunities to live out some wild fantasies, with guys whom you may or may not know is an incredibly hot and extremely arousing notion, and maybe it gets even hotter if it’s men you don’t know. If one was considering going to take the leap and make fantasy into reality, by attending a gangbang, then it is often advisable to enter into these things with the guys you don’t really know. Uncomplicated Gay Sex really can be a great thing and gay escorts are the best ones to deliver this.

Gay Gangbang

If you decide to Gang bang with friends or even acquaintances set some rules about the aftermath before going in as it could open the door to unwanted drama. So stay away from temptation, and find gay escorts on www.sleepyboy.com who you like the look of, tell them what you are looking for and then let them create the gay sex gang bang fantasy of your dreams.

Always be very clear before you all start regarding just what it is you want from your gang bang experience a Gay Escort, can arrange the rest for you for an extraordinary night of men who are there to please you and only you! Be clear on the scenario, do you want everyone to wear military uniforms, do you want them to be leather clad – whatever is in your fantasy let them know and the gay escorts can deliver.

Gay Gang Bang Fantasies Are the Best

Gay Gang bangs are amazing and there is a reason why a good old gay gangbang is one of the highest ranking male gay fantasies. It really could be the best course of action for you to take find some gay escorts, leave the potential dramatics at the door, and simply let the scenario unwind in your head.

Your imagination is the only limit to what can happen in your gang bang experience, if you are going fully BDSM remember to work out some safe words so the gay escorts can test how far you want to go and you still be able to be in control. If you want the gang bang to be loving or rough, sensual or simply pounding then ensure you have discussed any details that you want to include with the gay escorts so they can make sure they deliver and you have the most extraordinary gangbang experience of your life.

Anal Sex really is one of the best things in life and when done well it can be mind blowing! However when it comes to technique that is not something that is talked about much, perhaps men think they should already know or do already know, in either case if you have not got the technique right the anal sex can be boring and much worse – bad! So, here are some anal sex technique tips to take anal sex from good to great and beyond.

Better Anal Sex

Difficulties can arise if the opening to the rectum is too tense, thereby initially becoming difficult for penile penetration, but once the penis is in, the rectum will expand, and it can then enlarge enough to accommodate your partner with ease. There is a lot of pleasure to be found from having anal sex, as the anus has many nerve endings, and upon penetration, the penis will stimulate the prostate gland, which can lead to fantastically intense orgasms.

Anal sex is not only physically stimulating but psychologically invigorating too; as it is something incredibly intimate and erotic, and there also is a certain degree of trust surrendered to the giver.

Know your Body

Get to know your body, become comfortable, and experiment with different kinds of stimulation. Taking things slow and gentle is the best way to get started, as it will relax your internal sphincter. Experimenting with sex-toys, dildos and anal beads as these are a great way to discover what you enjoy and learn distinct methods of reducing possible pain, as pressure and friction can be caused. You can reduce pain by making sure that you use enough lubricant; each person is different and will react to anal penetration differently, so using a good lube can be vital when pushing forward with the pleasures of anal sex. You can never have enough lube! Practicing relaxation techniques, and deep breathing, can help with penile insertion. Communicate openly with your partner, and if things become uncomfortable, stop.

It may seem a little obvious, but it is important to think about anal hygiene. Good hygiene standards will make for a much better experience, and as well as looking after your own health, will prevent any embarrassing incidents with your gay escort.

Positions are Important

Different positions can also help with comfort; but once again this is all down to the individual, as the size of erection and degree of curvature to the penis can come into play. Many men find it easier when their knees are bent in towards their chest; whether you are kneeling or lying on a bed, this position tends to be a good one to start with, as the anal canal is elongated. Always remember try to relax; so many irrational thoughts can run through your head when experiencing anal sex, but there is really no need for such worry.

One sensation that can confuse guys is the feeling that they need to go to the toilet - this is perfectly natural; if your bowels were empty before embarking on your anal sex adventure, then there is no need for concern. As the penis penetrates, your rectum feels full, and therefore tells your brain that you need the toilet; this isn't the case, your anal passage at this time, is filled with one thing only!

Take your time, learn to relax, be comfortable and open regarding the feel of pressure on your anus, and you will soon learn how to have amazing, pain-free anal sex every time.

Gay Massage is all about relaxation and sensual sexual indulgence. That is why the gay escorts listed on www.sleepyboy.com are so good at it. They know that when you are relaxed you have bigger, better orgasms and enjoy your time with them even more. Aromatherapy oils add an additional element of relaxation and rejuvenation to a gay massage – it is something which should not be overlooked. Gay Massage is all about invigorating the senses and having a pleasurable connection between you are your gay escort.

Sensual Relaxation

Gay Massage is all about touch, but if you include more than one sense it enhances the sensuality and sexuality of the experience even more. That is why aromatherapy and gay massage go together so well. Throw in some gentle music and close the eyes and nearly every sense is used to heighten the pleasure of the gay massage.

Aromatherapy works on many levels, and while not everyone believes in the healing properties, everyone can enjoy it on a superficial level, simply put, it smells good. However, the essential oils used have varying properties than can significantly change and enhance the experience. Different oils will vary the gay massage, from the relaxing qualities of lavender to the invigorating powers of lemongrass. There are numerous oils and even more combinations that can help you with whatever you are dealing with at the time.

Aromatherapy Arousal

Aromatherapy is used to enhance the gay massage, and the only way you can relax and enjoy the experience is if you know exactly what is going to happen and why. Ideally the sexy gay masseuse will talk to you about how you are feeling, whether you are anxious and irritable, tired or stressed and what you want to get out of the gay massage. They should tell you want oils they think will help you the most and talk you through the process they have planned.

Relaxing Gay Massage

Good communication is important to allow you to relax a discussion in advance about how you want the gay massage to play out. If you are getting a sensual aromatherapy gay massage from one of the Gay Escorts at Sleepyboy.com then you can specify exactly how you would like your gay massage or you can let them just use their experienced hands to excite and relax you. Too much talk will, of course, distract you from the massage, so it is all about balance.

Aromatherapy Oils

The oils are typically used in two ways. The oils are combined with a carrier oil and applied directly to the skin during the massage or they can be burned in the room, using an oil burner or diffuser. Either way, the benefits of the oils will be felt straight away and for a while after the massage. It is important to discuss any allergies or dislikes before you start. Everyone has certain smells that they dislike and just because you aren’t allergic doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ask to avoid them.

Aromatherapy oils, just like a Gay Massage is a matter of personal preference and if you have a specific like or dislike or a certain aromatherapy oils, or you want your gay masseur to touch, rub or massage you in a certain way then make sure they know about it in advance so you can spend you massage time in complete relaxation.

Seeing a nice, big, hard cock is always a great experience and is guaranteed to get you hard too, but if you wat to put it in your mouth, and more especially take it down your tr=throat, you may be a little worried if it is a very big cock! In our blog we will share some great blowjob and deep throat tips from some of the best gay escorts so the next time you take a cock into your mouth you know exactly how to handle it!

If you were to ask most men, they will tell you that getting a good blowjob is easily one of the best parts about gay sex. Although there are a million ways to pleasure a guy with your mouth, the holy grail of oral sex techniques has to be deep throat. Like anything worth doing, mastering the art of deep throat takes time, patience and a little bit of trial and error. The following are tips and techniques that will have your man’s knees trembling in no time.

How to Handle the Gagging Reflex

Before setting out on your tonsil-tickling mission it is certainly a good idea to determine the sensitivity of your gag reflex. The best way to test this is to grab something vaguely penis shaped and take it as far back in your throat as possible. Even if this makes you gag quickly, it will at least make you aware of your starting point.

Don’t worry if you have a particularly light or sensitive gag reflex. It is possible to train your gag reflex so that it improves over time. When cleaning your teeth each day, brush your tongue as far back in your throat as possible without gagging. The trick is that you take it to the limit everyday and, proving you are disciplined with your ‘training’, you should notice a huge difference to your tolerance after only a few short days.

Position is Everything

Getting yourself in a good position is an essential part of giving great head. You want to be able to provide the maximum amount of pleasure without tying yourself into uncomfortable knots. For deep throat beginners, simply have your man lie on his back with you on your side. That way you are able to control how far back into your mouth you take him and ease yourself into it.

When you are feeling more confident the best positions for deep throat are ones that align your mouth and throat. This could be either lying on your back and hanging your head over the side of the bed, or leaning back underneath him, so you are looking straight up and he has to point his penis directly down into your mouth. Both of these put less pressure on the throat walls and allow more room for him to move into.

Remember to Breathe

This may sound obvious but getting carried away and forgetting to take deep relaxing breaths is all too common. Not only that, but it can lead to panic and choking. While that can turn some folks on, for others all the coughing and tear streamed eyes can be distracting.

Practice makes Perfect

As with any new skill, becoming a master takes hard work and dedication. Whilst it is easy to try and rush things it is important to take your time and gain confidence slowly, no matter how much the hands on the back of your head are encouraging you! Fortunately, this sort of training is fun for all concerned and the rewards at the end are incredible.

Many people have love to feel a little pain when they are having great sex, whether this comes from spanking or the tweaking of nipples to more extreme and involved ways of exploring the pleasure pain principle during sex.

Everybody knows that pleasure and pain can be inextricably linked for those who get turned on by this principle. For others who just can’t understand why pain can be so sexy then read on for the how’s and the whys. If you are one of those that loves spanking, rough sex or any other types of BDSM play then doing it with a gay escort is the best way to enjoy this very common gay sex fetish.

Pain and Pleasure Linked Together

Most people have no idea why pain turns them on, they just know they love it, but there are actually some very good reasons why pleasure and pain are so interlinked. Pain perception in the brain is called nociception, this is the mechanism that responds to pain in your body. Once this is stimulated the brain and body work together to deal with that stimulus, pulling away your hand from a flame for example. In addition to physical reaction to pain your body also releases a load of different chemicals in your brain and body to help you deal with any resulting pain, these can be alone or a combination of endorphins, serotonin, melatonin and epinephrin. These are normally feel good hormones there to reduce the impact of the pain and make you feel better, this has an unusual result when you are also horny.

It Feels Amazing

When you are horny many of the same hormones are racing through your body as when you receive pain, and this causes two things to happen. The first is that for some people when they feel pain, they also get a little horny as the association between these two feelings is strong, and the other is that when they are horny their pain threshold is heightened making spanking simply feel good and not painful.

Different Types of Pain

Everyone’s pain threshold and tolerance for what makes them hornier and what causes actual pain is different so you must always check beforehand how far a gay sex partner wants you to go if you and inflicting some kinky pain on them. Always have a safe word in place in case things get a little heated, this also lets the inflicted beg the punisher to stop when actually they mean, please go on. Spanking, whipping, caning, nipple clamps and all sorts of other exciting devices can be used to inflict great sexual pain on someone and often the more they have the more they want.

Gay Escorts are There for You

If you do like pain, of whatever threshold, then the best person you can get to inflict this is a gay escort, they are sexy, horny and experienced in delivering the perfect amount of kinky torture so you enjoy being spanked, whipped or otherwise abused and have the best sexual experience ever. Find the best gay escorts in the UK on www.sleepyboy.com and find one you like that loves to dominate so you have the best gay sex experience of your life.