Named after the orgasm inducing, walnut sized prostate gland that’s located in front of the rectum, the P spot is uncharted territory for most men. This deeply buried love button can cause you to have an orgasm that’s 10 times more intensified than your usual level of intimate pleasure.

Prostate exploration is safe to do, and a fun sexual activity to enjoy with a gay escort. If you want to give P spot stimulation a go, just follow our practical steps...

Cleaning and Douching

To ensure that your anal probing isn’t spoilt when you are halfway through, you need to thoroughly clean your back passage before you explore P spot pleasure. Take a shower and use an anal douche to give your insides a proper cleaning out.

Get in The Mood

Set the scene for sexual stimulation that exceeds your expectations. Have a relaxing bath, put on sexy music, light some candles… and do whatever gets you in the mood for sex with your favourite gay escort.

Warm Up

Because your booty doesn’t have the ability to self-lubricate, it’s easy to end up with anal tissue tears when you insert anything into it. To minimise discomfort and pain, it’s important to take things slowly. Warm up your anus with a good amount of water-based lube, to avoid tearing.

Take It Easy

Your fingers are the perfect size for inserting into your backside. Before you dive in, on the hunt for the elusive P spot, check that your nails are clean and free of jagged edges.

Lube up your pinky and reach round to slowly insert it. To gradually increase the opening, work your way from the pinky to the index finger. Alternatively, lie back and let your gay escort explore your backside with a P spot sex toy.

Know Where to Go

The P spot is located almost as soon as you enter the anal cavity. It’s virtually within touching distance of an index finger – or to be more precise, it’s about 3/4 of the finger length from the entrance to your ass.

When stimulated and aroused, the P spot grows hard and thick. Massaging it with gentle circular or back and forth motions will result in you feeling deeply pleasurable sensations. You can also you the pad of a finger to apply pressure to the P spot for up to 10 seconds, to enhance the intensity of ejaculation.

Gay Escorts

For any type of gay sex that you want to try, the best people to try it with is a gay escort. The best, most exciting and sexiest gay escorts are available now on www.sleepyboy.com. Search through the listings of the sexy guys, find one you like and make contact now and get that P Orgasm you have been dreaming of.

Dirty talk is a fetish language that has its own unique rules. While it looks easy to do, descriptive and explicit sex words don’t naturally flow from everyone’s mouth.

If you’re keen to use dirty talk, on a casual sex hook up with a sexy gay escort, you need to master the basics.

Gay Escorts & Dirty Talk

The best gay escorts can be found on www.sleepyboy.com and they are the dirtiest talkers you have ever met! Articulating your desires takes practice. On your first attempt to sound sexually confident, you may come across as the complete opposite.

The key thing to remember is that dirty talk is just a conversation between two people. If you’re comfortable talking to a stranger, you can easily learn the basics of dirty talk in no time at all.

You simply need to use effective strategies like asking questions, elaborating, being descriptive, and listening. Throw is some double entendres, naughty words and seductive sounds, and your sex partner will be gagging for it.

Ask Away

Asking a question is the best thing that you can do, whenever you don’t know what to say. This super simple technique works equally well on a date with a cute gay escort, as it does in any life situation. You get the added bonus of finding out lots of useful information about your partner.

For starters, ask your gay escort to tell you about things that he likes, what turns him on, and what’s the kinkiest thing he’s ever done.

Keep the conversation flowing with questions that focus on sexual intimacy and punctuate with comments that turn up the heat. Say something like "I love the sound of your voice – it makes my dick hard when you say that..."

Naughty Talk - Improvise

Set the scene for some role-play fun that gives you an opportunity to improvise. While you’re having a conversation, suggest that you explore what it would feel like if you were other people.

Pick a role that you’re comfort with, and let your gay escort do the same. Expand on the theme by creating an imaginary scenario, where you can have a conversation.

Be Descriptive

The words that you choose matter, especially if you’re trying to impress someone that you’ve just met. To get comfortable with dirty talk, start by describing what your partner is wearing, in the sexiest way possible.

If you have a vivid imagination allow it to get carried away, as you describe how horny you feel and what you want to do with your throbbing dick. Stating the obvious actions and activities that you’re imagining – "I want to lick you all over until you shudder in ecstasy" - will ensure that you manifest them into reality on you date.

Create some tension by describing in detail what you’d like your gay escort to do to you in return.

Listen to Your Gay Escort

Wherever your talking dirty, remember to listen for your partner’s response, gasp of excitement, and orgasmic moans.

Although in most relationships three is considered to be a crowd, many couples that prefer the freedom of an open relationship think of a threesome as the perfect intimate scenario.

If you’re a gay man in a long-term relationship, and you love hooking up with a gay escort on the side from time to time, or you’re one half of a committed ‘throuple’ partnership that enjoys sex with a regular third party, there’s always room for jealousy.

A gay escort is the perfect antidote to any jealousy that may occur in a relationship. If you are a sexually adventurous couple who want to try a threesome but don’t know who to ask, a gay escort is a neutral person who you can both enjoy with no reciprocity. Perhaps you are a couple but want the freedom to explore a more open relationship, then a gay escort lets you explore your sexual curiosity without breaking hearts!

Gay Sex Threesomes - Show Respect

To avoid the greed-eyed monster lurking in any type of sexual entanglement, it’s important to be respectful of others, especially if your partner is sensitive or the jealous type. Treat him how you would like to be treated.

Gay Sex Threesomes - Value Honesty

Ward off hurt feelings and jealousy by being honest with your partner. If you feel the need to look for sex outside of your relationship, don’t try to hide it. Talking about your needs will help your partner understand why you have these lusts and sexual cravings.

If you’re jealous, speak up and express your feelings. You could discover that you share the same viewpoint, and that inviting a third party into your relationship could benefit you both.

Gay Sex Threesomes - Set Boundaries

Boundaries, ground rules, and limits are important in any relationship dynamic. Establishing a guideline for your open relationship will help to prevent either of you crossing the line and causing upset and jealousy.

Don’t overstep the boundaries mark by bringing a NSA hook up home to fuck. Make arrangements to meet elsewhere, so that you partner doesn’t witness behaviour that makes him jealous, upset or uncomfortable.

Gay Sex Threesomes - Communication

To sustain a healthy relationship, you need to constantly work on your communication skills. Talk about what’s making you, or your partner, feel jealous.

If you’d love to have a threesome with your partner and a gay escort, tell him about your desires. Listen to his needs, and respect them even if they don’t match yours.

Gay Sex Threesomes - Open Relationships

If you’re both keen to enjoy the sexual company of a gay escort, it’s a good idea to define what an open relationship means to both of you. You need to accept that you both get to play with others, if you so choose.

Play Safe

Condoms, lube, and frequent testing need to be your priorities, if you’re engaged in having threesomes, or occasional casual sex with a gay escort while in a relationship.

Gay Masseurs know that a great and well performed Gay Massage feels great, is sensual and can lead to a great evening of gay sex, but did you also know that there are some extra benefits to getting a gay massage that shouldn’t be overlooked:

• Relieving Everyday Tension - As lots of us now spend most of our working day behind a desk many massage therapists advise that a massage is a great way to support or correct and postural stress from the way you sit at work. The massage can counteract this and relieve tension from sitting in one position for much of the day. We think that regular massages with a sleepyboy.com gay masseur will definitely help your posture, and your flexibility!
• Great for Muscles - If you have sore muscles, getting a massage can help – especially if it is given by a gorgeous gay masseur! Massage increases circulation around your whole body which helps relieve any muscle tension and any pain. Our Gay Massage experts can massage you in any way you please and helps relieve tension and promote relaxation.
• Human Touch is Important - Gay Massage is relaxing, human touch is sensual and relaxing when delivered by one of our gay masseurs. Massage has been known to sooth anxiety and depression, especially when received regularly.
• Improved Sleep - We know that you will have a restful night’s sleep after a visit from one of our gay Masseurs but it has been proved that massage does help relax the body and mind and promotes a relaxing and good night sleep.

The benefits of massage are well known and having a gay massage from one of our gay escorts is defiantly one of the most pleasurable ways to spend an evening. Many of our gay escorts provide in calls and out calls and the search function on our Gay Escort Directory online can find a gay massage specialist near you.

Gay Massage is Personal to You!

You can ask you masseur to deliver the type of massage you prefer, touch, pressure, length and timing are all factors to consider – or you can just let your masseur try to pleasure you the best way they know how!

There are many techniques in a gay massage ranging from simple and relaxing full body massages to multi-pressure points and different sensations can be achieved with different lubricants or toys. Don’t be shy to ask for your favourite massage techniques your gay masseur will be happy to oblige and will probably also offer some suggestions of their own.

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Ensuring you have the right condom is an essential part of having great gay sex (along with making sure you have enough lube!)! Luckily there are many, many different types of condoms now available varying in size, texture, colour, flavour, lubrication and styles!

Gay Sex & Gay Escorts

While the condoms promoted and marketed to the anal sex market may not be huge, you just have to be condom savvy when reading the labels to find ones suitable for hot anal play. The best condom for anal sex just doesn’t exist because you have to find the right condom for you. We all like what we like but with many different types of condoms available even if not marketed specifically for anal sex you will find a one you feel comfortable and sexy in. You favourite gay escort can also give you great advice on gay sex condom options.

Condoms are a now a mainstay for those who love anal sex not only for the protections against STD’s but also as a physical barrier against any anal play accidents. For those of you looking to have great safe Gay Sex here is a quick overview of some different types of Condom’s for you to consider:

Regular Latex Condoms

These mainstay protectors are probably the most common type of condom used, widely available (and often given away for free) great for just getting down and dirty with a sexy horny man. Remember if you are using latex condoms then check your lube - as you can’t use an oil based lubricant, keep to water or silicon based.

Non Latex Condoms

For those men for whom Latex is a problem (we do feel sorry for you, latex can be such a sexy material)! Latex allergies are easily combatted with these great gay condoms made from polyurethane.

Textured Condoms

If you want some extra sensations, then look out for condoms that include a little extra texture on the sheath. This can come in the form of dots, ribbing or other raised areas in a variety of styles and themes. There are also condoms that have not only texture on the outside to pleasure the ‘bottom’ but also texture on the inside to add extra pleasure to the ‘top’. Look out for weird shape condoms with internal ridges or humps to increase pleasure and friction.

Super Thin

Great and useful as gay condoms are, we all know that they can dull a little sensation, especially if you are not used to them so trying the ultra-thin, but still string condoms is most definitely the answer. Allowing you to feel as natural as possible while still getting all the benefits of great safe gay sex, thin condoms are a revelation for a more sensitive penis.

Flavoured Condoms

These tasty condoms come in a huge range of flavours for those of you who love to give head. Whether it is just a little lip teasing or full hard cock deep throating you can now do it with the flavour of your choice. Many flavours, and new ones coming out all the time include, cola, strawberry, bananas, chocolate, and even savoury tastes are catered for!

Other Condom Types

For those men who are very well endowed, XL Condoms and XXL condoms are available – these are sometimes called Magnum Condoms – great name! Coloured condoms are also becoming increasingly popular – forget matching your skin tone (although you can now find condoms in many different skin colours) and move on over to bright condoms, from pastels to neon colours are becoming cool – who knew! Other quirky creations like glow in the dark or odd shaped condoms are available but be sure they are to be used for sex not just novelty use.

And finally for those of you who like it rough make sure you get extra strong condoms – these are great for Gay Sex as they are probably the most durable for anal sex and also as they are thicker they can make you last longer and enjoy your safe sex more!

There are many reasons why you would hire a gay escort but one of the biggest reasons is that the gay sex you are having right now is just boring! Whether you are in a relationship or not sex is an important part of every man’s life and a part of it that may need attention. Below are some big indicators that it is time to try something new.

1. Feeling like sex has become a chore?

Gay sex a chore!! Well, if you are feeling like this it is definitely time to try www.sleepyboy.com. This can take a toll on how you feel about yourself and the partners you have. A sex life that’s as predictable as a 70’s sitcom rerun can make you feel like you are either with the wrong guy or are not trying anything new. Rut’s suck. They are boring and the siphon the juice out of just about anything: your job, your diet, and your relationships.

2. Same old routine?

We are creatures of habit, whether we want to admit it or not. This includes the weekly food shop and also your lovemaking. Habits are not bad if they work for you. The trouble is routines can become so…routine. Everyone needs a little variety, some hot and spicy chillies to spice up the same old dish can really make a difference so choose a rent boy and see how hot it can get.

3. In a rut?

Do you find your eyes starting to roll and even glaze over when someone says so what are you into? For too many men words like, top and bottom, have become like a straitjacket and they confine sex to very predictable routines. A great and fun gay escort can really help you explore many different sides to your sensual self.

4. Variation is key!

Try varying the pressure, try sometimes light and occasionally more forceful. Ensure that it playful and you are with a partner that you trust or better yet a gay escort who can do exactly what you need. Find out what works for both of you ask, “Which feels better, A or B?” See if you can learn what sort of touch doesn’t work for him, what’s pleasurable, what’s a major turn-on. When you have finished, it’s his turn to give and your turn to receive. The object of the game is for each guy to find out more about what sort of touch feels pleasurable to receive, and for each man to learn something about how to touch the other.

5. Satisfaction Guaranteed!

Very often unsatisfactory or boring gay sex happens because you are not getting what you need. The best, easiest and most fun way to ensure you get everything that you want and nothing you don’t is to hire a gay escort. There are a great range of guys available at www.sleepyboy.com just waiting for your call.

Whatever you are into and whoever you choose to do it with your gay sex should be fun, rewarding, satisfying (do we have to say safe) and defiantly not boring. If it is trying some of the ideas above and most of all have a great time doing it!

In its basic, bare explanation, sploshing as a fetish is the act of one person covering another with food (or other substances) for a sexually stimulating kick. It’s also known as a ‘WAM’, or ‘wet and messy fetish’. There are no rules about the food or otherwise that you can use; that’s totally up to you. There are also no rules around what – or what not – you can wear. Just remember that it’s a messy business and if you’re doing it in your house, then you may want to get some protective sheets for your carpets. Investing in the right equipment is always a good idea, then when you next feel like a sploshing session, you are ready to go!

Unusual Fetishes with a Gay Escort

This fetish is a slightly unusual one, compared to, say, a foot fetish or shoe fetish, in that there are no specific stimulations. Any food, any substance, any type, will do. So, if your preferred pudding is a chocolate one – go ahead and splosh with it! The same goes for burgers, cheese, chips, trifle……you get the picture. The turn-on for some people is that they don’t know what’s coming next. Perhaps you might be blindfolded, or have your back to the splosh-er, the anticipation of an unknown texture of food can be powerfully erotic. Maybe it’s chilli oil, or it could be rice pudding!

The most popular substances to use are:

• Whipped cream
• Raw eggs
• Oil
• Paint
• Mud
• Cream pies and slime – soft textures that are smooth and sink into your body

Sploshing with your Gay Escort

And then there are the cakes. Ooooh, deliciously soft, filled with jam or cream or chocolate or maybe you prefer coffee and walnut cake. You can get as many of these cakes as you can cram into your sploshing area before you cram them into your body. They’re perfect for jumping on, sitting in and lying down in. Once you’ve got the basics sorted, then it’s time to find the perfect partner! Your gay escort will be totally up for getting down and dirty in some fun - very messy – sploshing play. There’s no holding back, this is going to get truly messy.

One of the best things about this fetish is that anything goes. You can do it in your office attire, in your gym clothes, totally naked, in underwear – you can wear anything at all. If you prefer, the jam/cream/crumbled biscuits can be poured inside your clothes giving a seductive, silky feel as they glide downwards and past your waist.

So, just imagine that you’re waiting eagerly in your sploshing area. It’s perfectly prepped and filled with your very favourite foods. The anticipation is rising, and you know that, soon, you’re going to be pelted with Prosecco or have deliciously smooth cake rubbed into your hair, or you’ll turn your back so you can’t see what’s coming and wait for the tantalising sensation to hit your entirely naked, aroused body. Or, you know what? You could go all out and combine the lot – anything to get you and your gay escort truly and totally messy.